Perhaps then there is a difference here between 'hating' Christians and 'hating' certain aspects of Christianity.
A couple of years back now I met a South African who was a very religious man. I forget exactly what 'type' of Christian he was, but he seemed
pleasent enough. He was incidentally the son of the village preacher/priest/vicar (sorry, I'm not too clued up on religion and titles) out in SA.
We got talking and the conversation flowed onto the topic of religion.
In the end he reluctantly conceded that unless she accepted not only Christianity, but his particular flavour of Christianity, my very young daughter
was doomed to spend eternity damned. As you can imagine I was somewhat displeased with this revelation. More than anger though I truly felt sad for
him.
But my displeasure was without doubt not as disturbing to me as his discomfort in admitting such a thing. He wasn't a bad or cruel man, he was a
compassionate individual. We parted on good terms and I left him to consider his standpoint. I have no idea what verdict he reached.
Why though should I hate him? He gained no pleasure out of what he told me, indeed he seemed quite reticent to voice his conclusion. He didn't
gloat about him recieving salvation and me not being that fortunate.
Here we have someone who genuinely believed very strongly in the Bible, to the extent as previously mentioned. In my opinion he was wrong in his
opinion. Where is the reason for hate? Why should I hate him for his beliefs?
One of the things I really used to dislike about Christianity was it's propensity, as far as I had witnessed, to enter peoples lives at times of
trouble. I viewed this with a great distaste quite in agreement with Karl Marx statement of religion being the opium of the masses. Until it was I
came to the conclusion that it was of no concern of mine when or where a person found their faith, or indeed how a person found any precious comfort
in this harsh life, unless I thought it detrimental to them. After all, as I have in my signature:
Never deprive someone of hope. It may be all he has.
If someone finds comfort and strength through their faith, and in doing so calls him or herself a Christian why should they be hated? As I said
before, do not presume to come to me and attempt to force
any kind of doctrine upon me… Christian or otherwise.
Jack