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Originally posted by Iason321
Originally posted by ZIPMATT
Originally posted by Iason321
Anybody who says smacking your children is wrong, has obviously never dealt with bad kids.
I didnt know kids had varieties ? Whats this 'bad kids' ? Never heard of that sort...
What, have you lived under a rock? Never seen out of control kids running over there parents in those whacky nanny TV shows? Well, I have, and I've dealt with it.
Originally posted by InfoKartel
Simple:
You do not lay your hands on a child. Do so and go to jail.
Simple enough yeh?
Originally posted by sussy
All children want to please, its how we reward their efforts however small.
Originally posted by ALOSTSOUL
MP's have said in the media this week that the UK riots where caused by the lack of physical discipline, not the lack of jobs, education and a decent family lifestyle.
The Tottenham MP David Lammy claimed that Labour's 2004 decision to tighten up the smacking law was partly to blame for last summer's riots, which erupted in his north London constituency.
m.guardian.co.uk...
For you yanks out there, it is against the law in Great Britain to smack (spank) your child, although I have never heard of someone being convicted of it.
Personally I am undecided somtimes I think children do need a smack every now and then, mainly for there own sake. Lets say my daughter puts her finger in the plug socket do I give her a little slap (on the hand) and say "no, don't touch or it will hurt worse than that." luckly i haven't had to yet, she is still to young to crawl.
I understand that we live in different times (hell, I got a leather belt if I was naughty) but a complete lack of physical discipline can't be good for a Childs development can it?
I don't know, it's a very touchy issue, what are your views.
ALS
edit on 29-1-2012 by ALOSTSOUL because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by addygrace
Yeah, even putting your finger in a kids face should be illegal. Really yelling too loud should be illegal, you could scare them. Any form of punishment, should actually be outlawed. If kids don't know any better why should they be in trouble by another human that also makes mistakes. For example my oldest son punched my youngest son in the face, so I said, hey if you don't punch him anymore I'll give you money. He said, "Ok Dad." He stopped punching him all the way until the next day. Now, every time he punches him I just give em money and he stops.
Originally posted by ollncasino
Originally posted by Furbs
The more of your posts I see, the more vulgar the picture of you that is painted.
I don't know. He certainly seems to be inhabiting the real world, which is more than can be said about many posters on ATS.
I have observed that many people who virulently reject violence are also the people who tend to be physically weak but who consider themselves to be superior.
It could be argued that never spanking a child is just as bad as abusing a child.
All things in moderation after all.
Originally posted by samerulesapply
reply to post by Biliverdin
"scared to be a child" - it's phrases like this that create the nanny mentality...excuse me but life ain't fair, kid or not.
You can't hide and protect kids from reality...they seem deluded enough if you ask me, there's alllowing kids to be kids then there's allowing kids to dictate and abuse not only their parents but strangers in the street...believe me when I say I've seen gangs of kids under 16 abuse and attack and even kill people in the street.
I'm not a parent, don't particularly want to be if I'm honest...I'm too lazy...so I don't have kids, if I do and they step out of line I'll be showing them who's in charge and they'll learn. Even kids in my own family absolutely rile me, no respect for their own parents let alone strangers in the street - what chance do we have?
Originally posted by Cosmic911
Ever watch animals discipline their young? Redirection through a brief, yet intense physical diversion is completely appropriate.
Originally posted by Furbs
What you are doing is reenforcing the idea that Might makes Right instead of a Rule of Law.
Originally posted by milkyway12
reply to post by Biliverdin
You could also use both. Spankings and Example? Just that much more reinforcement.
2nd
Don't we teach animals neat tricks using electro-shock type therapy?