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Originally posted by greeneyedleo
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
reply to post by ALOSTSOUL
My mom spanked and used a spoon when I crossed her. It wasn't often but I had a mouth and pushed boundaries at times. I see nothing wrong with spanking, as long as it's not over done to abuse.
Kids today aren't disciplined, they are spoiled and catered to. They need to be knocked down a few pegs if you ask me. They need to learn respect.
Clearly abuse is in the eye of the beholder.
If you crossed me and I didnt like it...and I hit you....you would call the cops on me......
edit on January 29th 2012 by greeneyedleo because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Furbs
No one outside of developmental disability or mental illness is born prone to violence.
Originally posted by ollncasino
Originally posted by Furbs
No one outside of developmental disability or mental illness is born prone to violence.
You obviously have no kids then.
They come out the womb kicking and punching.
Originally posted by azulejo
Not beaten up like a pinata but hit to make a point.... "behave, I am the authority"
Originally posted by calnorak
It seems to me that the people in here that are totally against it, were abused- not disciplined.
I honestly don't understand why they associate a smack, or spanking with beatings/abuse. Its very sad.
spanking and other corporal punishment will have a significant adverse affect on the development of a child's brain and brain function Article Source: EzineArticles.com...
Originally posted by getreadyalready
Exactly. Violence is one of the first natural responses after crying. As soon as they are old enough to hit, kick, and bite, that is exactly what they do, and they have to be taught other methods.
Originally posted by Iason321
Yeah, EXACTLY what i was talking about. Buncha friggin pippi longstockings running around. If you wanna learn how to raise your child from pippi longstockings, and raise your kid to be a pippi longstockings, dont come at me for disciplining my child, please.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
Originally posted by ollncasino
Originally posted by Furbs
No one outside of developmental disability or mental illness is born prone to violence.
You obviously have no kids then.
They come out the womb kicking and punching.
Exactly. Violence is one of the first natural responses after crying. As soon as they are old enough to hit, kick, and bite, that is exactly what they do, and they have to be taught other methods.
Some people are giving advice, and they have no idea what they are talking about.
Originally posted by Biliverdin
If you resort to violence, in any siutation, you lose. If you use violence as a means of authority, especially where there is a size differential, you lose respect.
Originally posted by ollncasino
Originally posted by Furbs
No one outside of developmental disability or mental illness is born prone to violence.
You obviously have no kids then.
They come out the womb kicking and punching.
Originally posted by OwenandNoelle
reply to post by ALOSTSOUL
I dunno. I thought one of the purposes of disciplining our children is to cut back on violence. What kind of message are we sending by hitting them?
I think spanking sends the message that violence is okay when you’re older, bigger, and angrier than the intended victim.
Next time the teenager screws up my coffee again at Tim Horton’s, I’m going to give her a smack upside her head. I’ve given her plenty of warnings and she should know better by now.
How can we even pretend to call ourselves civilized when we hit children for what the heinous crimes of: talking back, neglecting their chores, fighting with their siblings? Murders aren’t even humiliated with corporal punishment. Yet we think it’s correct to hit a little kid? What could they have done that was so wrong?
Imagine that. Hitting your child because you child hit his brother/sister. That’s great parenting there. Imho.
Kids can be taught to respect their elders without having to fear them. And wouldn’t it be wiser for kids to make the right decisions because they understand why it’s the better decision rather than have the kid do so out of fear that the person who is supposed protect might hit them instead?
Yeah, kids are worse behaved then they were 50 years ago. But I strongly doubt that’s because we stopped spanking them.
I think spanking is at best lazy uneducated parenting and at worst is straight up abuse.
Originally posted by ollncasino
Originally posted by Biliverdin
If you resort to violence, in any siutation, you lose. If you use violence as a means of authority, especially where there is a size differential, you lose respect.
If you can't fight your own battles, someone else has to fight them for you.
If you can't discipline your children, someone else may well do to for you.
You don't think that violence is an acceptable strategy in any situation?
Didn't Neville Chamberlain try the "rational, sensible and reasonable means" with Hitler?
I also doubt, from the way you write, that you have any children
As I observed a few pages back, the people who are most virulently anti-violence tend to be people who are physically weak but consider them self superior.