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I think that psychopaths, like disease, will always be with us. We will never eradicate them, I don't believe, but we must defend ourselves and our own mental health from the effects of dealing with them.
Originally posted by MorpheusUSA
Yes, I work with one. Not the movie kind but the true definition kind.
The checklist on Wikipedia is how I found out why the person I work with is so different than everyone else in the office. Once I started seeing a pattern of these traits I could finally tell myself that they had a real personality disorder.
Traits
Hare Psychopathy Checklist
Factor 1
Aggressive narcissism
Glibness/superficial charm
Grandiose sense of self-worth
Pathological lying
Cunning/manipulative
Lack of remorse or guilt
Emotionally shallow
Callous/lack of empathy
Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
Factor 2
Socially deviant lifestyle
Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
Parasitic lifestyle
Poor behavioral control
Promiscuous sexual behavior
Lack of realistic, long-term goals
Impulsiveness
Irresponsibility
Juvenile delinquency
Early behavioral problems
Revocation of conditional release
Many short-term marital relationships
Criminal versatility
Reference
~Morpheus
Cleckley describes the psychopathic person as outwardly a perfect mimic of a normally functioning person, able to mask or disguise the fundamental lack of internal personality structure, an internal chaos that results in repeatedly purposeful destructive behavior, often more self-destructive than destructive to others.
Originally posted by DerepentLEstranger
reply to post by Epirus
would that kid have been a former POSUS?
If we believe the psychiatrists, a sign of a future serial killer is a child who delights in torturing and killing animals. George W., as a child, did exactly that. In a May 21, 2000, New York Times' puff piece about the values Bush gained growing up in Midland, Texas, Nicholas D. Kristof quoted Bush's childhood friend Terry Throckmorton: "'We were terrible to animals,' recalled Mr. Throckmorton, laughing. A dip behind the Bush home turned into a small lake after a good rain, and thousands of frogs would come out. 'Everybody would get BB guns and shoot them,' Mr. Throckmorton said. 'Or we'd put firecrackers in the frogs and throw them and blow them up.'"
On Sept. 12, 2000, Baltimore Sun reporter Miriam Miedzian wrote, "So when he was a kid, George W. enjoyed putting firecrackers into frogs, throwing them in the air, and then watching them blow up. Should this be cause for alarm? How relevant is a man's childhood behavior to what he is like as an adult? And in this case, to what he would be like as president of the United States
I always wondered why it was so easy for him to send other people to their deaths. Like he never pardoned any condemned prisoner and he delighted in sending boys to the mid east. I get it now. He was not who he seemed.
Originally posted by ipsedixit
reply to post by wildtimes
I have googled as you suggested and you are right. There is a lot on the subject, but what I have read so far is depressing. How to deal with a psychopath? One writer said that the only reason to deal with a sociopath/psychopath is either that you haven't found a new job yet or that you are under court order to do so.
I did find a link to an online free .pdf of a book called The Mask of Sanity, by Hervey Cleckley, M.D., which is supposed to be one of the seminal studies of this sort of person.
www.cassiopaea.org...
I am still evolving coping mechanisms to deal with the psychopath in my life. Recently, I hit on the notion of viewing this person as a cat.
I don't do this in the spirit of demeaning the person. I am way past demeaning this person or inveighing against this person or gossiping and commiserating with others about this person.
What I am attempting to do by thinking of this person as a cat is to cushion my mental equilibrium and peace of mind from the effects of this person's bizarre (for a person, but not for a cat) behavior.
I want to stress that this is not an offensive weapon. I'm not snickering at this person and putting out bowls of cream on the floor, intended for this person. The strategy helps me from taking anything done by that person, personally, as I would never take something done by a cat, personally.
This still doesn't address situations where one is forced to integrate and cooperate in tasks with the cat and where the successful outcome of events will depend to some extent on what the cat does. But obviously, in the case of dealing with a real cat, as opposed to an imaginary cat, one would keep a careful eye on the cat and try to make sure that it wasn't manning the plunger, for example, at an industrial explosion.
I think that psychopaths, like disease, will always be with us. We will never eradicate them, I don't believe, but we must defend ourselves and our own mental health from the effects of dealing with them.
a CAT?!!! Some of the nices beings I know are cats. What's your problem with cats? Really. Get a grip.
Originally posted by wildtimes
reply to post by ipsedixit
I think that psychopaths, like disease, will always be with us. We will never eradicate them, I don't believe, but we must defend ourselves and our own mental health from the effects of dealing with them.
Your thinking, friend, is SPOT ON.
Cheers to you. I sent you a u2u re this thread.
Is there some level on which they're not sociopathic? Like unconsciously, deep down somewhere are they more normal?
Not everyone has the ability to express themselves.
The list of things that deem you a psychopathic are relevant but not in the way described.
I say this with a different outlook, having been afraid to express myself and at the wrong end of trauma.
Psychopaths are just ego-eccentrically obsessed beings. They express what they know. We are all like that sometimes.
The argument that someone is "always" 'some way' is null and void.
Originally posted by wildtimes
reply to post by squandered
Not everyone has the ability to express themselves.
The list of things that deem you a psychopathic are relevant but not in the way described.
I say this with a different outlook, having been afraid to express myself and at the wrong end of trauma.
Psychopaths are just ego-eccentrically obsessed beings. They express what they know. We are all like that sometimes.
The argument that someone is "always" 'some way' is null and void.
I agree with you, 'always' and 'never' are inappropriate in many ways.
So, I would ask that you take some time to express yourself a little better....
what is your different outlook? When were you afraid to express yourself, what was the wrong end of trauma for you?
Yes, they are ego-eccentrically obsessed beings.
Your post here makes me very curious....and I'd be interested in hearing your story, or your reasons for having arrived at this appraisal.
Okay....so, talk about your inability to defend your 'self'. Who is telling you to 'play the game'? Aside from where are you standing?
What I will talk about is an inability to defend my 'self'. People telling me I should 'play the game' and very hard felt lessons about life when you must stand aside and watch.
Hope for a better world, but take what you get.