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Originally posted by pasiphae
i'd like to hear some other experiences with psychopaths. i'm not talking about people who are just mean.... but people who have no conscience. they fake emotion to fool people and have no other mission than self "pleasure". they aren't all killers. some never physically harm anyone. many do.
have you known one? are you one? (since this site is essentially anonymous i figure it can't hurt to ask - some like to boast about it). were you married to or were you in a relationship with one?
Originally posted by pasiphae
reply to post by hallucipede
wow. having to be around someone like that has got to be traumatic! i think i've found that when i tell people i was involved with a psychopath they assume i just had a bad relationship and he was an ass to me. he was actually very nice to me most of the time. fights were weird and became more frequent but for the most part he was really really nice to me. all part of his deviant cover up to hide all the bad things he does. he makes sure everyone knows him as mr. perfect. the most kind and sweet person you'll meet. he would have a dozen people come to his defense... none of whom REALLY know him. he makes sure to keep people at just enough of a distance. all the women he dates (which are MANY) never get to know the people he has casually kept as friends for years. he has it down to a science. keeping them separate makes sure that when they catch on they don't spread it around. they just fade away. i'm the only one who linked a bunch of people together and found out many of his secrets. i wish i could find out things before he was in highschool. i really think he's in the country illegally (along with the rest of his odd family).
Originally posted by hhott
reply to post by dude69
Do you swim with the sharks? Dance with the rhinos? Play tag with the tigers? No?
Well, no more do you need to associate with the psychopaths. As I said, they can be dangerous if they don't have a "good" set of rules to live by.
I never said, nor meant to imply, that you shouldn't distance yourself from them and/or protect yourself from them as much as possible, or even turn them in to authorities if they're engaging in criminal behavior. I'm merely saying there's no point to condemning or demonizing them. They can't help what they are any more than the shark and the tiger can.
Some of you are going to take this wrong (dons flame-retardant suit), but actually the best thing you can do if you are forced to associate with one is to do something(s) that teaches them that messing with you will result in harm to them. Self-interest is the only real motivation they have, gotta use it.
During the first week that Patrick was in my cottage, he objected to my expecting him to conform to the same rules as the other boys, so he went to the home's social worker and accused me of sexual advances. That night his bed was short-sheeted and seeded with something that gave him a sleepless and uncomfortable night. Call me names now if you like or accuse me of "descending to his level," but he never messed with me again.
Find out if said person has a social network site facebook myspace ect..If so go to an internet caffee or somewhere you can use an anonymous pc.Set up a facebook ect acount under fictional name .An comunicate with them thus,
Originally posted by pasiphae
there's also the issue of impulse control. psychopaths/sociopaths tend to have a big problem with that.
so moving on from diagnosing another memeber...
here's my moral dilemma with the whole thing. the advice is usually "run as fast as you can and never ever look back" if you've met a psychopath. however, how do i do that when i know lives are at stake (i can't explain that publicly) ? currently my hands are tied because i have no proof. the police won't listen (done that).
i think there is one person who can fill in some missing information but i would either have to find someone willing to contact that person for me (who couldn't be traced back to me) or figure out how i can do it myself and be COMPLETELY anonymous. i have no idea how i would do that.
Originally posted by hhott
That night his bed was short-sheeted and seeded with something that gave him a sleepless and uncomfortable night. Call me names now if you like or accuse me of "descending to his level," but he never messed with me again.
and a minor (just saying)
Originally posted by hhott
Patrick was 15, nice looking,