posted on Dec, 2 2011 @ 02:21 AM
reply to post by Destinyone
I don't know you but you did say you lost 5 kids. I lost 4. So? I'm not crying over what I have lost, only what I have gained in my three kids -
and 2 of them was a big battle during delivery - one of them has a debilitating disability.
People need to take prospectous of what is more important to them. I love all kids, whether they are mine or not. To see a whole generation of kids
taken from their parents because they are homeless and poor, no matter what the circumstances are that put them in that position, is wrong on so many
levels. I can't believe people here think fostercare is the only way, it's not, it's a ruthless system that can and does destroy the very spirit
of any child. Yes it saves some who are lucky to find really good fostercarers, but they are few and far between. Most of them are only in for the
$$$ and not whats in the best interests of the child. These 12 kids look like bloody good kids, its obvious the mother did something right.
God help you all if we ever see another Great Depression, shall we come after your kids then? Been and done in England when they grabbed kids off the
street and sent them to Australia just like the British did to the Australian Aborginal children or the Canadians & Americans did to the Native
Americans. Thats what we call the lost generations. You hear these kids, now adults speak, including those who were in the system until the turned
18.....you'll changed your mind real fast.
Everything must be done to keep these kids together and with their mother. She is not a drunk, she is not a drug addict. She does'nt abuse her kids
and it certainly does'nt appear she is neglecting them since they don't appear to be dying of starvation.
Putting that aside, your place sounds like heaven.....I'll keep you in mind on my next trip over