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Originally posted by Aeons
You know who gives up their seat on the bus? It isn't the preppy boy, and it isn't the guy in the suit. It is the construction worker whose been on his feet all day, or the boy in leather jacket with the mohawk.
Real men are often at home with their wives, not hanging out in a place where they might see this sort of thing happening. When they are, some of them do step in.
My brother stepped in once to stop a guy beating on his girlfirend in front of his apartment, while holding a screw driver. The woman attacked my brother, and the guy stabbed him with the screwdriver. Then my brother was charged for being there. Family friend lawyer got him off by talking to the prosecutor about how stupid charging him was.
I've helped stop a big juice monkey beating on his girlfriend, and she did the same thing. She physically defended her boyfriend because people were pulling him off of punching her. He was easily 240 and over six feet, and clearly on steroids. She was about 5'5 and about 120 pounds.
A couple of those instances will blow a person's mind.edit on 2011/8/17 by Aeons because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by petrus4
Originally posted by pcrobotwolf
reply to post by LifeIsEnergy
you strike a dude with a glass bottle then quote Gandhi lol.
Gandhi was actually a master tactician. Against overwhelming force, pacifism can be literally the only effective card you can play.
While walking out of a neighborhood corner store I saw a man beating his pre-teen/teen daughter. Two women stepped in and tried to calm the man down and help the girl, but as he held onto his daughter's hair he proceeded to batter these two women. As these two petite women bravely fought this large out of control man, I noticed a group of four or five men just standing there watching it unfold as if it was entertaining to them. Or maybe they were too scared to do anything.
Originally posted by Death_Kron
reply to post by LifeIsEnergy
I completely understand where your coming from here but I'd just like to point out two things;
1.) In Self defence, either for your own safety or that of others, your supposed to use a reasonable amount of force. I'm not in any way, shape or form condoning the man's actions (he had it coming to him really) but for your own protection I think it was unwise to bottle the guy, I don't know where about's in the world you reside but over here in the UK that would land you in serious trouble.
2.) A little family motto of mine is "Look after yourself, leave everyone else to it", that may sound a little harsh a first but I think everyone should look after number before they start looking after others (strangely enough something I fine incredibly difficult to do considering it's my own motto)
Sometimes people don't get involved because it isn't there problem, it's a sad but that seems to be the way life has become.
Also, I'd point out that sometimes people with good intentions who intervene often find the aggression then being directed at them, usually with not so great consequences....
It's a difficult task trying to define the point where you don't care and the point that as a fellow human being you have a moral obligation to get involved.
I hope you understand where I'm coming from here, like I said apart from the use of a bottle I can't really fault your actions.
Just my opinion, S+F by the way.
DK [/quote
Death Kron you are crazy. If you had been standing there.....of which you probably would have stood back and watched too.........but if you had been involved to protect the young girl, you would have used the bottle in self-defense too. It was NOT too much force. He would have crushed her if she had not done that.....she gave him no options, that is how you fight. To win. period.
Originally posted by mnmcandiez
reply to post by LifeIsEnergy
people are too into themselves to help others
i don't think men care about "being a man" anymore
Originally posted by arpgme
But that's the thing...
This situation was a guy beating on an innocent girl who couldn't defend herself....
I'm asking, what if it was a guy beating up a innocent MAN who couldn't defend himself. It would be the exact same situation except instead of a female it would be a male. Would anyone help? And if not, why not?
Originally posted by Thunder heart woman
This is the truth. I have never seen a more lazy and complacent generation of young men and women in my life. Give them an iphone with hundreds of apps and they need nothing else much in life. They said that the 70's was the me generation but I think they got that wrong. This generation is the ME myself and I generation.
Originally posted by Dark Ghost
When it comes to helping Women, society can never do enough. When it comes to helping men, well they can take care of themselves... (That is the mentality we are dealing with in modern times.)
Originally posted by InfaRedMan
Anyhow... The old man took off into the milk bar. As this is where I was going in the first place to buy a newspaper and milk, I went in to see if the old man was ok. It turned out he owned the milk bar. He didn't say thank you and the old prick charged me full price for my paper and milk. I quickly realised how an old ass like this got himself in that situation in the first place. I said to him... "no problem mate" as if to spur him into acknowledging what I just did for him... nup.. still no thank you. It's like it never happened.
Two words.... NEVER AGAIN!
IRM
Originally posted by Thunder heart woman
reply to post by LifeIsEnergy
In my life experience so far, I have seen many, many men who harbor hatred for women. And I have seen men cower while women fight the battles. Many men do not respect women at all and that is how it is. As far as I'm concerned, only *real* men stand up for their women and fight beside them, and take care of their woman when she is weak and in need of support. A real man would never stand by and allow another man to beat a woman or animal. A real man is not the man who has the most toys or money. He is the man who carries himself with honor.
In my life experience so far, I have seen many, many men who harbor hatred for women. And I have seen men cower while women fight the battles. Many men do not respect women at all and that is how it is. As far as I'm concerned, only *real* men stand up for their women and fight beside them, and take care of their woman when she is weak and in need of support. A real man would never stand by and allow another man to beat a woman or animal. A real man is not the man who has the most toys or money. He is the man who carries himself with honor.