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Originally posted by skull_bones
Lets see, Who is more intolerant here.
Is it the person who may disagrees with certain aspects of a persons lifestyle, but accepts them as a friend anyway?
Or,
Is it the OP who claims you cannot and would not be friends with anyone unless you agree with the way they live their lives?
Originally posted by woogleuk
reply to post by Sinnthia
People don't choose to be gay, they just are, you cannot choose who you are attracted to or fall in love with, this is why I think gay people have a more feminine (or masculine in regards to women) side in their genes. Remember the only difference between a man and a woman is meat and two veg or a lovely bunch of coconuts!edit on 25/12/10 by woogleuk because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Gseven
reply to post by Sinnthia
There is no reasoning with you. I've explained several times, (most of which you've probably refused to read), as to why many people feel the way I do. Those of us who feel it IS a choice, is because we made that choice ourselves, or we've been given enough choices in our lives to know that in our older age, things could have turned out a LOT differently.
You obviously disagree, and are unwilling to look beyond what you perceive, or are choosing to "read" into my posts your own interpretations, so there's nothing more to say really. I won't sit here and debate silly insults. It would be the equivalent to me telling you your user name fits you nicely....SINnthia. Now THAT would match your level of argument.edit on 25-12-2010 by Gseven because: content
Originally posted by Gseven
Not true. Learned behaviors most certainly can be unlearned. How did you learn to like chocolate cake to begin with? You tried it. You liked it. You associated it with pleasure. Badda boom....you now like chocolate cake. That is a learned behavior. Had you never tried it, you wouldn't know you liked it. It may have LOOKED good, but unless you tried it, you'd never know for sure. Heterosexuals can just as easily be "turned" gay by the same notion, and homosexuals have been "reversed" by this same notion. It is a learned behavior that can most certainly can be reversed.
Originally posted by Gseven
reply to post by Sinnthia
There is no reasoning with you. I've explained several times, (most of which you've probably refused to read), as to why many people feel the way I do.
Those of us who feel it IS a choice, is because we made that choice ourselves, or we've been given enough choices in our lives to know that in our older age, things could have turned out a LOT differently.
You obviously disagree, and are unwilling to look beyond what you perceive, or are choosing to "read" into my posts your own interpretations, so there's nothing more to say really. I won't sit here and debate silly insults. It would be the equivalent to me telling you your user name fits you nicely....SINnthia. Now THAT would match your level of argument.edit on 25-12-2010 by Gseven because: content
Originally posted by Sinnthia
Originally posted by skull_bones
Lets see, Who is more intolerant here.
Is it the person who may disagrees with certain aspects of a persons lifestyle, but accepts them as a friend anyway?
Or,
Is it the OP who claims you cannot and would not be friends with anyone unless you agree with the way they live their lives?
I will take the OP as a friend over someone that will tell me I was born wrong but they accept me anyway.
Not a tough call at all there.
I viewed homosexuality the same way, since many of my friends entered into it in much the same way I had the opportunity to. The difference was....I chose not to be curious about it, and I have zero regrets.
Originally posted by skull_bones
So you dont have a problem with him being intolerant of eveyone else, just as long as he's not intolerant of you.
I get it.edit on 25-12-2010 by skull_bones because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Sinnthia
reply to post by Phenomium
When someone tells me that they have to lie to their wife in order to gain sexual gratification by using a stethascope to listen to other people have sex, I have to really wonder how that straight marriage is working out for you.
Heterosexuals can just as easily be "turned" gay by the same notion, and homosexuals have been "reversed" by this same notion. It is a learned behavior that can most certainly can be reversed.
Originally posted by Sinnthia
Originally posted by skull_bones
So you dont have a problem with him being intolerant of eveyone else, just as long as he's not intolerant of you.
I get it.edit on 25-12-2010 by skull_bones because: (no reason given)
That is not at all what I said but...ok then. Who is this everyone else the the OP is being so intolerant towards? I had not really noticed any intolerance from the OP towards anyone.
What I said was if I were limited to a choice between A and B, I would choose A. I hope you can re-read it and get the difference between what I said and what you said I said.edit on 25-12-2010 by Sinnthia because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Dark Ghost
reply to post by rickyrrr
Don't get caught up in the semantics of the definition. People who say it is unnatural are usually referring to it in the context of the Laws of Nature. If an entire animal population were to cease heterosexual activity and only participated in sex with the same sex, that type of animal would go extinct.edit on 25/12/2010 by Dark Ghost because: reworded
Originally posted by woogleuk
Remember the only difference between a man and a woman is meat and two veg or a lovely bunch of coconuts
Originally posted by Phenomium
First off, my "straight" marriage is fine.
Secondly..........HELLO, I'm a guy.
I like women and in multiples if possible. Lesbians, I can't touch, but they are still women and this is the fantasy of nearly every man (straight) alive.
Your statement makes no sense at all to men everywhere.
As you are clearly a woman Sinthia.......You wouldn't understand men anyway.
Another thing about a marriage.....you don't always blab everything to your partner. Call it a lie or whatever, but if you F*** up.............you have to live with them. Honesty is only the best policy when it doesn't get you a frying pan over the head.
Originally posted by mademyself1984
Originally posted by Gradius Maximus
Originally posted by RelentlessLurker
reply to post by mydarkpassenger
well in the same way you think pedophilia "hurts" kids.
and bestiality "hurts" animals.
some feel homosexuality "hurts" society
Society can go #### itself, but then again thats just my opinion.
Separation of church and state.
Separation of intimacy and public knowledge
Separation of McDonalds and Food Industry.
Ahh, wonderful.edit on 24-12-2010 by Gradius Maximus because: (no reason given)
And here is my only problem with Gays. If society (me) can go f**k itself, because I find you disgusting, then can you go f**k yourself because you don't think you are? What a stupid debate. Do what you want. Love who you want. I personally don't give a s**t, however, I will say it should really not be defended on the basis of "oh but look, it IS natural...." It isn't. The simple genetic makeup of your bodies is proof of that. It's just frustrating to listen to Gays piss and moan about rights, and then label anyone who disagrees with them bigots. Stop comparing your "equal rights" movement with African Americans, or Women....it's not the same ballpark. It isn't even the same sport.
Originally posted by wayno
reply to post by Gseven
I viewed homosexuality the same way, since many of my friends entered into it in much the same way I had the opportunity to. The difference was....I chose not to be curious about it, and I have zero regrets.
Whether or not you can resist donuts is a far cry from whether or not you can resist a sexual feeling. There is a difference of magnitudes in level of intensity and importance.
The fact that you even had a choice in your sex life, is significant. Don't assume that everyone has that same degree of choice. For some there really is no choice except for a hetero relationship. For some at the other end there also is no choice because all of their inclinations go only for a same sex partner.
You having had a degree of choice in which way to go implies you are somewhere between the extremes. Nobody says you have to have one of each just to be satisfied. It is nothing short of wonderful that you found one mate that has suited you well over time. That is fantastic, but it does not mean everyone has the same options.
Originally posted by skull_bones
He's essentially saying he is intolerant of everyone that he doesnt agree with their lifestyle 100%,
That knife cuts both ways, if he's claiming that i cant be friends with or love someone becuase i dont agree with their lifestyle, then he is also saying he cant or wont be friends with anyone that he doesnt agree with their lifstyle. He just doesnt have a problem with homosexuality.
I, on the other hand, feel that someone doesnt have to agree with or even like how someone lives their life, to be able to bond with them, love them and form a strong lasting friendship.
That would drive me insane if the only people that i was friends with were exact replicas of me and my values and morals.edit on 25-12-2010 by skull_bones because: (no reason given)edit on 25-12-2010 by skull_bones because: (no reason given)edit on 25-12-2010 by skull_bones because: (no reason given)
Those of us who feel it IS a choice, is because we made that choice ourselves, or we've been given enough choices in our lives to know that in our older age, things could have turned out a LOT differently.