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Originally posted by wayno
reply to post by PJAmerica
Not my place to say what is right or wrong for others so long as they do not impose there way of life upon mine.
Exactly how gay people feel. Unfortunately we are frequently accosted by churches, governments and a good many biggots who would tell us what to do and force us to be straight, or kill us, if they could.
Whilst I don't think you straight people actually ever have that problem, of gay people trying to change you from straight to gay, I do like your sentiment. I wish more of you would apply that to us in turn.
And furthermore....I am upset that I can't look my friends in the eyes when they are experiencing so much heartache, and tell them what I think the root of their problems come from.
Originally posted by neonitus
i've got some opinions against homosexuality, and against some the the rights they want. should that mean i cant be friends with them?
Originally posted by wayno
reply to post by PJAmerica
I only said "you" straight people because the first point you had made in your post was that you were straight. Since you put up that little barrier, I acknowledged it.
You are right tho. I will not argue that it is a crummy way to communicate and so I take it back.
Originally posted by Dark Ghost
reply to post by Sinnthia
I have a strong feeling that a mature discussion about the actual issue of this thread is not on your mind. You tend to prefer to make inflammatory statements in an effort to get people to say things which you can use to attack them later. I will not play that game.
I originally intended to bring to the attention of the OP that disagreeing with an aspect of somebody else's life - whether that be political, social or economical - does not mean you cannot be friends. It looks as though quite a few others agree with this. But every time it is mentioned, people such as yourself want to make it about labelling us as intolerant homophobics.
ETA: I am not a Wizard and you can come to ATS for whatever reason you wish - just be prepared to face backlash if you come with a closed-minded attitude.edit on 25/12/2010 by Dark Ghost because: ETA
Originally posted by Dark Ghost
reply to post by Sinnthia
I have a strong feeling that a mature discussion about the actual issue of this thread is not on your mind. You tend to prefer to make inflammatory statements in an effort to get people to say things which you can use to attack them later. I will not play that game.
I originally intended to bring to the attention of the OP that disagreeing with an aspect of somebody else's life - whether that be political, social or economical - does not mean you cannot be friends. It looks as though quite a few others agree with this. But every time it is mentioned, people such as yourself want to make it about labelling us as intolerant homophobics.
ETA: I am not a Wizard and you can come to ATS for whatever reason you wish - just be prepared to face backlash if you come with a closed-minded attitude.edit on 25/12/2010 by Dark Ghost because: ETA
Originally posted by Gorman91
reply to post by Sinnthia
If they are not fixing their own, they are not friends. Then their just lazy and its your responsibility to push them to get off their lumps.
Being born anyway is not an excuse to not change it. We're all born savage animals, but we indoctrinate ourselves with civilized life styles and reprogram our barbarian natures.
Not worried about flaws. Demanding that you fix them. But like I said, one of my best friend is a bisexual atheist and in complete contrast to me. We get along great. Then we argue about stuff. Then we have a cup of tea and slaughter mutants on video games.
hypocrisy is not bad overwhelmingly. And if you ask me, morals don't even exist. The're fabrications to justify crap and pretend you're better than someone. We're all crap in the end.
Originally posted by PJAmerica
I agree with you. I have had friendships with people who live and or believe in things I am against. It's called tolerance and human civility at the end of the day. Just because people are polar opposites does not mean that they cannot form a bond.
Originally posted by Sinnthia
Originally posted by PJAmerica
I agree with you. I have had friendships with people who live and or believe in things I am against. It's called tolerance and human civility at the end of the day. Just because people are polar opposites does not mean that they cannot form a bond.
Hey, I agree with you.
Unfortunately none of that has to do with someone being gay which is the topic of this thread. So yeah, dwell on that a bit. We all agree on the above statement.
Originally posted by wayno
It occurs to me, finally after all these pages, that I don't have one single person I consider a friend who harbours negative thoughts about my being gay. None, so i can relate to the OP's sentiments.
I learned a long time ago to distance myself from anyone who does not have my best interests in mind. That could have something to do with it. On the other hand, I don't think there is even anyone who is a mere "associate" who has ever said anything against me for being gay.
The real world I live in is actually nothing like this cyber one here. Nay-sayers are far and few between.
Just thought I'd throw that reality out in the midst of all this theorizing. People who dislike my taste in food, or music or drugs or any number of things can still be my friend, but if they don't unequivocally accept my being gay, then they are out the door. Simple, and fast.
Originally posted by wayno
People who dislike my taste in food, or music or drugs or any number of things can still be my friend, but if they don't unequivocally accept my being gay, then they are out the door. Simple, and fast.