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Originally posted by Gseven
reply to post by Sinnthia
I made the choice to be straight....on more than one occasion.
(And no, I never "went there", but I've had many opportunities to.) And God help me, if one person crawls out of the woodwork and tries telling me I'm a closet gay....well, I may have to wish them a Merry Christmas and leave it at that. Like many of my friends who have made jokes about being "bi-curious", I too could have gone down that road, but I didn't. Why? An instinctual feeling that I chose to listen to. The same voice I listened to when I said no to drugs when my friends were getting high. The same voice I listened to for a LOT of things in life that I credit my current blessings to. I wish I had listened to it more, to be honest.
I chose, and I waited a long time before meeting my spouse. For a while, I thought I'd live life without ever knowing what it was like to have someone to grow old with, and there were many times where I had taken a path I wish I hadn't with relationships, but somehow I knew that I'd make my life a LOT unhappier and get further away from my spirituality if I decided to go bat for the other team.edit on 25-12-2010 by Gseven because: content
Originally posted by Calender
Even though I'm a tobacco cessation counselor, and disagree with smoking I don't think that those around me who smoke are lesser because of it. ??? I just disagree with their lifestyle. If someone disagrees with homosexuality, that doesn't mean they can't be friendly with and have understanding for homosexuals.
If my smoking friend tells me I'm a bigot because I don't accept his lifestyle, and tries to force it upon me, then I see a problem with that.edit on 25-12-2010 by Calender because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by RelentlessLurker
reply to post by mydarkpassenger
well in the same way you think pedophilia "hurts" kids.
and bestiality "hurts" animals.
some feel homosexuality "hurts" society
You aren't going to convince me that an animal consents to sex with people.
Originally posted by Sinnthia
Originally posted by Gseven
reply to post by Sinnthia
I made the choice to be straight....on more than one occasion.
More than one occasion? What the hell does that even mean? What were you between those times you chose to be straight? Does that mean you are usually gay?
(And no, I never "went there", but I've had many opportunities to.) And God help me, if one person crawls out of the woodwork and tries telling me I'm a closet gay....well, I may have to wish them a Merry Christmas and leave it at that. Like many of my friends who have made jokes about being "bi-curious", I too could have gone down that road, but I didn't. Why? An instinctual feeling that I chose to listen to. The same voice I listened to when I said no to drugs when my friends were getting high. The same voice I listened to for a LOT of things in life that I credit my current blessings to. I wish I had listened to it more, to be honest.
You are saying that although you may have wanted to engage in gay sex, you CHOSE not to because of some natural drive inside you? Do you get that at all?
I chose, and I waited a long time before meeting my spouse. For a while, I thought I'd live life without ever knowing what it was like to have someone to grow old with, and there were many times where I had taken a path I wish I hadn't with relationships, but somehow I knew that I'd make my life a LOT unhappier and get further away from my spirituality if I decided to go bat for the other team.edit on 25-12-2010 by Gseven because: content
Cool story, bro.
I will not call you a closet case so need to threaten me with merry christmas. I would say that you are quite out, loud, just need to get proud. I bet your wife knows EXACTLY what I am talking about.
this trivial BS, Skippy!!!
saying they are hypocrites because non of them would agree on mass extinction of humanity no matter what convoluted argument some would make about ( ~~~~ )
saying mass extinction because in reality if we all turn gay by time humanity will cease to exist....and NO we will not evolve into something else after this stage as we did not evolve from any previous states either...
so in essence if being gay ( as stated ) is proven harmful on large scales then it makes absolute sense that it is forbidden on minor scales
if there is no benefit from the larger then certainly there can be no benefit from the minor...
NONE
Originally posted by NNightmare_osx
thus the idea is subjected to being either valid or invalid based on principals of common sense and logic...
Originally posted by Sinnthia
Originally posted by Calender
Even though I'm a tobacco cessation counselor, and disagree with smoking I don't think that those around me who smoke are lesser because of it. ??? I just disagree with their lifestyle. If someone disagrees with homosexuality, that doesn't mean they can't be friendly with and have understanding for homosexuals.
If my smoking friend tells me I'm a bigot because I don't accept his lifestyle, and tries to force it upon me, then I see a problem with that.edit on 25-12-2010 by Calender because: (no reason given)
Ummmm....
We have been over this and over this and over this. Smoking is something you CHOOSE to do. Being gay is NOT A CHOICE. The only people saying it is a choice have been liars and closet cases so far, none of them could prove it. Which are you going to turn out to be?
Being attracted to children is not a choice either.
if there is no benefit from the larger then certainly there can be no benefit from the minor...
Originally posted by 547000
reply to post by Sinnthia
Being attracted to children is not a choice either.
there is a very interesting rule that lives in one of the religions out there...
it states that if anything is harmful on a large scale then it is forbidden even in minor scales...
saying they are hypocrites because non of them would agree on mass extinction of humanity no matter what convoluted argument some would make about ( ~~~~ )
saying mass extinction because in reality if we all turn gay by time humanity will cease to exist....