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Originally posted by ceci2006
BH, there are issues all the time that people choose between their race and their gender. White women are not immune about this issue--especially when it comes down to affirmative action. That's what I mean that the system still benefits white women, but they speak against it anyway. If they are so against affirmative action, why don't they tell the employers they do not want it right to their face during the interview?
Why not? Because everyone uses an edge to get hired.
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
And WestPoint, hey, I'm only trying to compete with yours.
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
Things are taking a lighter turn, aren't they?
Originally posted by ceci2006
And in your late teens, West Point? You're still very, very young. I thought you'd be at least in your twenties.
Originally posted by WestPoint23
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
And WestPoint, hey, I'm only trying to compete with yours.
What? Naw, my avatar has nothing on yours. I swear it.
Originally posted by jsobecky
Send them over, and I'll leave the door open.
Originally posted by ceci2006
BH...Then why are you making my comments "appear" as if they are directed at you?
Originally posted by ceci2006
BH, there are issues all the time that people choose between their race and their gender.
Stop it. Please. I am not trying to pick a fight with you.
There's room enough on this thread for both of us if you just leave me out of it.
...
let me contribute how I see fit.
Or, I might be tempted to say that your words reflect a white woman who cannot stand another woman of color who is powerful in her own right.
Originally posted by ceci2006
But she has to leave me out of it.
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
Oh, here's a way to bring us back to the topic: could said 'gettin' freaky', in fact, be the key to race relations?
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
I've gotten freaky a time or two with other races and it's always been a Good Thing (as Martha Stewart says).
Originally posted by ceci2006
BH, I've asked you politely to stop. And yes, I addressed you in that post. But no more. Our fighting stops today.
I know you don't have manners,
Now I hate to repeat myself. But please stop.
Originally posted by ceci2006
Unfortunately, your silence and unwillingness to solve this matter discreetly shows how unlike your persona online and in the "real world" really is.
But don't hide behind lies and falsities to trick people about your honesty, tolerance and kindness.
Those convinced against their will are of the same opinion still.
When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.
Suppose you triumph over the other man and shoot his argument full of holes and prove that he is non compos mentis. Then what? You will feel fine. But what about him? You have made him feel inferior. You have hurt his pride. He will resent your triumph.
Originaly posted by ME!
The books that immediately come to mind are:
Nigger by Dick Gregory
...snippage...
How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Good evening ladies and gentlemen. I understand there are a good many southerners in the room tonight. I know the South very well. I spent twenty years there one night.
Last time I was down South I walked into this restaurant and this white waitress came up to me and said, "We don't serve colored people here." I said, "That's all right. I don't eat colored people. Bring me a whole fried chicken."
Then these three white boys came up to me and said, "Boy, we're givin' you fair warnin'. Anything you do to that chicken, we're gonna do to you." So I put down my knife and fork, I picked up that chicken and I kissed it. Then I said, "Line up, boys!"
en.wikipedia.org...
Let me tell you, never before in the history of this planet has anybody made the progress that African-Americans have made in a 30-year period, in spite of many black folks and white folks lying to one another. When you think about where we was 30 years ago compared to where we are now, 30 years ago or 40 years ago, you could lie on black folks to white children. You can't do that now. They see black folks on television. They see black folks anchoring the news, giving the weather. Who would have ever thought when Stokley and them yelled "black power," and everybody got scared.
Last week, you pick up "Newsweek" and see the cover, "The New Black Power," and three black men that heads three of the top corporations in the world. And so that progress -- the No. 1 problem we have now is police brutality, and I don't mean that police are more brutal now than they was 40 years ago. What has changed is black folks' mindset. There's a lot of things we would tolerate 40 or 50 years ago we won't tolerate now. And this is the new issue that we have is dealing worse than the Ku Klux Klan, because if the Ku Klux Klan called me a 'n-word', I can call them a 'n-word' back. If you pulled a gun out on me, I could snatch the gun. I can't do this to a cop.
And the reason more while folks is not part of this fight of struggle against police, they have never brutalized a black person. They have never seen a black person being brutalized. So some kind of way we have to tell the story of this pain. We have to tell it with love. We have to tell it with kindness, and we have to say we need help.
transcripts.cnn.com...
Originally posted by ceci2006
The matter about me is personal to you. You said it yourself.