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Originally posted by liquidsmoke206
reply to post by AussieDingus
Out of all the posters on this thread, you are by far, the most petty and pointless in your attempts at discussion.
Granted this entire thread has gotten off topic, but the way you attempt to derail it is on entirely different level than the way I have. I think the discussion would have a lot more value to everyone if you just kind of sat on the sidelines and took notes for a while.
Think I just defined it for ya.
Originally posted by Scribe611
I admit, I just read the OP and first page, but I had to throw in my 2 cents worth.
I am female, and first I'd like to say we do not all think alike. The one thing in life that turns me off the quickest and disgusts me worse than anything is a loud, foul-mouthed bully of a man. I am single, always have been and probably always will be because I feel this way.
I refuse to be anybody's punching bag. I'm not looking to pop out a dozen or so "mini-bullies" just like daddy. Way past that part of my life, as I'm skating towards fifty. Exactly where are all you quiet, decent men hiding, anyway? Ah, never mind, it's probably not worth wading through all the phony bravado to find the real person.
I'm sure a lot of people of both sexes puff themselves up when posting on discussion boards like this, but there are also more like me who find safety in the anonymity. I feel more comfortable sharing my truths on here, whatever the consequences.
I can feel the next question looming in the distance... no, I'm not into girls either, I just prefer to be alone, thank you. Much safer that way.
Originally posted by Jepic
Originally posted by KeliOnyx
reply to post by Jepic
You are confusing being extroverted with confidence. The two are not mutually exclusive as has been said in this thread time and time again. It isn't I or anyone else that is wrong here it is you. At some point your married friends were confident enough in themselves to talk to another human being and engage in social behavior. Just like my own shy introverted husband did. Being quiet and reserved have zero impact on your level of confidence.
I'm not confusing anything. Introverts are shy and extroverts are confident. Believe it or not, introverts even though shy are perfectly capable of starting and maintaining a conversation. You don't need to be an alpha male or a confident person for that matter to talk to other people.
Originally posted by fadedface
Anyone notice that women always go for the 'bad boys' and 'arrogant jerks'?
This is because women are genetically hardwired to be instinctively attracted to alpha males and this is because alpha males are aggressively confident and competitive and Women ignore, reject and even ridicule quiet, uncompetitive and passive males like me who lack confidence..
The fact of the matter is that women are attracted to confidence and alpha male traits in men more than anything else and it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is a confident alpha male.
Women know that procreation with an alpha male will give her offspring the necessary genes to survive and be competitive so women in this sense are propagating survival of the fittest. As well as this women also inherently despise quiet and passive males such as myself because they perceive us as weak and uncompetitive and this goes against the social Darwinism which women adhere to in social situations which is why women always marginalise the quieter males in social situations.
It is also clear that the human society we live in is so violent because women are still predominately breeding with aggressive and competitive alpha males and instilling the violent and competitive genes in the next generation. If women went against their genetic and social conditioning and procreated instead with weaker, passive and timid males eventually human society would become more tolerant and peaceful.
However this is against female nature and it is females who force alpha males to behave so aggressively, competitively and violently because alpha males realize that women only select the strongest and fittest males for procreation. Also because women are affronted by the uncompetitive and passive nature of non alpha males such as 'omega males' like myself they manipulate alpha males into bullying us and alienate and deny us social acceptance which is no great loss as social acceptance is conditional on 'conformity of thought' and all human social interaction is based on self serving interest, double standards and hypocrisy.
Females marginalise passive and uncompetitive males because on a unconscious level (or maybe consciously in some cases) women are trying to wipe out quiet and passive 'omega males' because they know if we where to be evolutionarily successful we could change human society and eventually human nature by subverting the survival of the fittest competitive natural order of life which women are defined and moulded by.
Women in terms of attraction to males don't seem to have mentally evolved beyond primates in that they are still predominately attracted to aggressively confident and competitive alpha males. Women in regard to the males they are attracted to and choose for procreation still exist in a 'hunter gatherer' society.
All of this proves that all human relationships between men and women are based on natural selection, self preservation and mutual self interest and any other notion such as 'love' is mere human egotism.
Well I'm glad I'm an omega male and am looking forward to disappearing from the gene pool.edit on 19-5-2013 by fadedface because: spelling
Originally posted by Klassified
You've got issues, and you're blaming all women for those issues. Women don't like quiet, timid, passive guys for a reason. They don't communicate. They won't stand up for themselves, or their mate, and they are self absorbed. Girls don't like men who throw themselves pity parties any more than men like a self deprecating female.
Stop blaming all women for your own shortcomings. I wouldn't want to go out with you either.
Women don't like quiet males. (They prefer alpha males who are all bullies),
Originally posted by FlyersFan
Women don't like quiet males. (They prefer alpha males who are all bullies),
Just the opposite for me. I don't want a bully-man.
My husband and I run the house together as a team.
If he tried to bully me ... I'd smack the hell out of him.
Originally posted by PtolemyII
I have repeatedly seen this thread on numerous forums ,posted by some guy who cannot find a girlfriend ,so he makes some misogynistic post ,lumping all women into one group ,claiming we all want alpha guys who cheat on us and beat us .
I *hate* bullies ,and I've been know to kick the ever loving crap out of any guy who dared to lay a finger on me .
I hate to tell you ,all those guys pretending to be sensitive ,caring guys,do all the exact same crap alleged alphas do .
They cheat ,lie ,and dump girls in a heartbeat ,if something with a bigger cup size and fewer IQ points comes along .
They all want some vapid stripper,who they have spent 1000s on in lap dances ,but since they can't get her permanently ,they piss and moan when the local girl cannot be bothered with them .Probably because she's seen him skulking around outside the strip joint *rolls eyes* .
So whining its all the women's fault,and we all want evil alphas is rather a joke .
You would sell your own grandmothers ,to be an alpha yourselves .
Originally posted by TrueBrit
reply to post by PtolemyII
Hmm... not a nice guy by the sounds of it then?
Nice is about more than what a person appears to be, or even what they say they are. Nice is about what a person does, how it effects you, and wether or not they have bothered to consider either of these things.