posted on Oct, 1 2013 @ 09:35 AM
Anyone notice that women always go for the 'bad boys' and 'arrogant jerks'?
This is because women are genetically hardwired to be instinctively attracted to alpha males and this is because alpha males are aggressively
confident and competitive and Women ignore, reject and even ridicule quiet, uncompetitive and passive males like me who lack confidence.
Wow, so many issues in such few words. First life is not always black and white as you see it. In fact there are generally grey areas. That being
said males are not just nice guy or jerk, alpha or beta/omega, or anything else like that. In fact there are males that are actually good men. Good
men are not passively-aggressive or aggressive. They are confident and competitive with themselves to improve themselves. These types of males do
try to give a spark of self confidence to others and do not bully. They are quiet and reserved but they will speak. They know they can stand on their
own merits with pride. These are the true Alpha males because they are leaders that have been forged through the hardships, the trials, and
tribulations in their lives and came out unscathed continuing to work very hard with a set goal in life.
The fact of the matter is that women are attracted to confidence and alpha male traits in men more than anything else and it doesn't
necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is a confident alpha male.
You seem to be confusing Alpha with "Jerk" and the two have nothing to do with each other. In fact the women you are talking about, the ones that
choose the jerks, are actually very spiritually blind and they make the same mistake you do. The jerks are actually aggressive betas and some women
actually confuse aggressiveness with confidence when secretly the jerk is very insecure. That is why they treat others quite poorly.
Women know that procreation with an alpha male will give her offspring the necessary genes to survive and be competitive so women in this sense
are propagating survival of the fittest. As well as this women also inherently despise quiet and passive males such as myself because they perceive
us as weak and uncompetitive and this goes against the social Darwinism which women adhere to in social situations which is why women always
marginalise the quieter males in social situations.
It is also clear that the human society we live in is so violent because women are still predominately breeding with aggressive and competitive alpha
males and instilling the violent and competitive genes in the next generation. If women went against their genetic and social conditioning and
procreated instead with weaker, passive and timid males eventually human society would become more tolerant and peaceful.
However this is against female nature and it is females who force alpha males to behave so aggressively, competitively and violently because alpha
males realize that women only select the strongest and fittest males for procreation. Also because women are affronted by the uncompetitive and
passive nature of non alpha males such as 'omega males' like myself they manipulate alpha males into bullying us and alienate and deny us social
acceptance which is no great loss as social acceptance is conditional on 'conformity of thought' and all human social interaction is based on self
serving interest, double standards and hypocrisy.
Females marginalise passive and uncompetitive males because on a unconscious level (or maybe consciously in some cases) women are trying to wipe out
quiet and passive 'omega males' because they know if we where to be evolutionarily successful we could change human society and eventually human
nature by subverting the survival of the fittest competitive natural order of life which women are defined and moulded by.
Women in terms of attraction to males don't seem to have mentally evolved beyond primates in that they are still predominately attracted to
aggressively confident and competitive alpha males. Women in regard to the males they are attracted to and choose for procreation still exist in a
'hunter gatherer' society.
No, most women if not all women hate passive-aggressive types which a good number of omega males are. Being strong doesn't just mean being strong
physically, it also means having a backbone and not being a doormat. Being timid means actually being a doormat.
All of this proves that all human relationships between men and women are based on natural selection, self preservation and mutual self
interest and any other notion such as 'love' is mere human egotism.
And that is why there are marriages that last 50 to 60 years. Oh, wait....
Well I'm glad I'm an omega male and am looking forward to disappearing from the gene pool.
With an attitude like that is it any wonder that women do not want to date you. You have a self defeating attitude that would drive anyone away. You
seriously need to work on your self confidence and grow a backbone and stop being a timid little doormat if you want women to date you. Dating is a
discovery phase for two people to find out whether or not they are compatible. When it comes to a relationship it is a two way street and both need
to look inward as well as outward to see what needs to change on the relationship level as well as on a personal level. A relationship is a lot of
hard work which is why both genders want someone that has confidence. A lack of confidence will mean that one person may have to do most if not all
of the work and that will doom any relationship, or may even kill one before it starts. Whatever you choose is up to you but I hope you make the
right choices in life and that is to learn confidence which I can tell you is hard but not impossible. You can do it, I know you can.