posted on Oct, 5 2015 @ 11:10 PM
Being an Alpha male has absolutely nothing to do with being a bully, being mean, being a player, lifting weights, etc. Being a MAN, on the other hand,
has everything to do with being mature, responsible, respectful, protective, loving, caring, and hard working.
Quality women, don't give a # about some douche who lifts weights, acts like a hardass, picks fights, acts like a player, etc. Any mature woman worth
marrying or being in a serious relationship with just wants a #ing MAN. Not a boy. Doesn't matter if you are quiet, passive, socially awkward, etc.
If you are a loyal, respectful, loving, caring, and hardworking MAN, then that is ALL that matters. A MAN will protect his wife and family. An "Alpha"
male will get his ass kicked by a man who cares about nothing other than the woman/family he is has. A true man has only his wife or family to lose. A
douche bag Alpha male only has his ego and self esteem to lose. Real men are those who do their best to provide for, respect, and protect their loved
ones. Thos Alpha male # is exactly that, #. I'm happily married, have a wife that is 9 years older than me (I'm 28 and she is 37). We got married when
I was 22. That should tell you something. Women want a man who is a MAN. Again, being a MAN means you are independent, hardworking, loving, loyal,
protective, etc. It has absolutely nothing to do with being a hotshot jackass. I am a very deep intellectual, can be socially awkward and quiet at
times, etc. and I would definitely consider my wife to have been out of my league at the time we met. But the secret is, as long as you are a MAN, and
not some fake person who doesn't have a clue who he is, it doesn't matter how weird or whatever it is you have going on. A quality woman wants a man
she can depend on. That doesn't mean finacially. That means emotionally and physically. And physically being as in willing to defend your family. Not
fighting a drunk at a bar that is taking # or hitting on your woman.
The best advice I can give you OP is this: Stop reading # on the internet about what women want and stop reading about alpha males. Go to work and
work hard, do the best you possibly can, be respectful and loving, and the right woman for you will appear one day. Don't change who you are and try
to start acting "Alpha". Be yourself, but above all, be a MAN. If you have parents and they are happily married, take a long look at your dad and
evaluate his characteristics. Then, aspire to be like him.