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Originally posted by lilowl53
reply to post by chasingbrahman
I will defiantly check out mom's reactions when she comes later. I have lots of different baby toys here and he never shows any interest in any of them. He's lacking the grasping skill so I have to hold the toys in front of him, and then I make them work or whatever.
I read an article about a babies cries and the correlation to psychological disorders if the cry was particularly high in pitch. Have you heard of this? This baby also has a very high pitched screech of a cry,so that maybe be another tell tell sign.
Originally posted by lilowl53
reply to post by ipsedixit
Agreed, I defiantly don't think it's ugly duckling syndrome.
Maybe some here can read Auras?
Originally posted by ipsedixit
This is quite a cute baby. Now I'm wondering if there are other issues going on. Human psychology is funny. I don't think it is that unusual for mothers to reject their children for any number of reasons. Sometimes it is only a phase that they go through, sometimes not.
I'm wondering if people's attitudes to this child, who doesn't seem in any way odd or abnormal to me, on the contrary, quite cute, are being colored by the mother's attitude.
Some children are very old souls who might seem unresponsive or uncommunicative, but are really undemonstrative or actually highly receptive but in an internalized sort of way.
Barring some diagnosis from a competent pediatrician, I think patience and optimism are what the situation calls for. The baby is cute.
Originally posted by lilowl53
reply to post by chasingbrahman
So his mom came to pick him up... my youngest (16 months) wason the floor playing with me and the little boy. She walked right over to my child and picked him up. She started saying stuff like "you're so cute" and "do you want to come home with me?". After 10 minutes I finally had to basically hand her her baby! I never noticed it before but she has done this before.
I really think the weirdness that I feel from him is not because of his looks at all. Maybe it is his intensity that weirds me out. When I look at the photos I have of him, I don't get that feeling, it's really only in person that it happens.
Originally posted by lilowl53
reply to post by Destinyone
I think you are on to something for sure. When she did finally take him she talked to him but then passed him to her older daughter. Maybe she hasn't bonded with him yet...I am really not sure. I intentionally read her body language and payed close attention to what she did. Her interaction was minimal at best.
I hope he does turn out to be very intelligent, we need more like that around here! I assume I will be keeping him for a few more years so I can't wait till he can really get up and start interacting more, it will be interesting to see how his personality comes out.