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Originally posted by Indigo5
Originally posted by Deebz
Now at 25 I am without children of my own but I have seen the results of children who are coddled...
This deabte would be much more credible if folks acknowledged that it wasn't a choice between coddling/spoiling children and hitting them. Spoiling your child is not the same as not spanking them and a child who gets spanked can be at the same time spoiled. That should be obvious?..right?edit on 30-1-2012 by Indigo5 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by ChuckNasty
reply to post by ALOSTSOUL
When you spank (not smack) a childs rear it causes an adrenalin rush. When you spank a child (not beat and not kick and not punch) along with telling that child what he/she did wrong reinforces the fact you are trying to get across.
When you abuse a child - you cause a very elevated adrenalin rush which can cause lasting negative mental 'pain.' It can also give them lasting nightmares.
Some parents do not know the difference and takes things way to far. That is why their are strict laws about spanking.
Pointless discussion, I'm out...but I will say this, if you won't discipline your kids...someone else just very well may do it for you.
Originally posted by v1rtu0s0
It all depends on how you want the world to turn out.
If you want it to be a violent, chaotic place like it is now, the by all means, beat your kids up every chance you get.
But if you want it to change at some point, then take the higher ground and resist physical abuse. You can be angry and take things away from them, ground them, but don't hit them.
edit on 30-1-2012 by v1rtu0s0 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by blazenresearcher
Originally posted by ChuckNasty
reply to post by ALOSTSOUL
When you spank (not smack) a childs rear it causes an adrenalin rush. When you spank a child (not beat and not kick and not punch) along with telling that child what he/she did wrong reinforces the fact you are trying to get across.
When you abuse a child - you cause a very elevated adrenalin rush which can cause lasting negative mental 'pain.' It can also give them lasting nightmares.
Some parents do not know the difference and takes things way to far. That is why their are strict laws about spanking.
I think that you are right about the Adrenaline rush. Which can either lead to an adrenaline junkie and mainfest in either a need for daredevil antics or abuse of drugs, women and so on.