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Originally posted by DaMod
22. My personal favorite. Boys need their toys. We love our toys. We cherish our toys and sometimes want to get more toys. Remember this is a must for all men. For some men it's a truck or a car or a boat or a 4 wheeler or all of the above. For others its a bad ass gaming computer and all the peripherals. For others it might be their shop with all their power tools or the guy with a particle accelerator in his basement. Some have small toys and some have big toys but only one constant remains, we need our toys.
Originally posted by Rockpuck
To clarify as my girl may be an exceptional case. She has this anxiety issue.. lets say we are driving down the highway on I-5 .. busy highway, and I will be driving along and she will suddenly scream and say something like "WATCH OUT!" ..... a truck just merged from the onramp to the lane to my left. I was in my lane, he was in his lane, there was absolutely no potential collision. Doesn't matter, she still screams. Or if cars break in front of me she does a dramatic grabbing of the "oh ** bar" and one hand on the dash, and I get a lecture on proper breaking distance.
14. Some men like video games. Some games are online and cannot be paused. If you want him to do something at least let him get to a good stopping point. Sometimes this may take 20 mins or so to achieve. He will find that stopping point and get you whatever you need. (most of the time, again all men are different) Please remember number 10 here.
Originally posted by 27jd
Originally posted by Rockpuck
To clarify as my girl may be an exceptional case. She has this anxiety issue.. lets say we are driving down the highway on I-5 .. busy highway, and I will be driving along and she will suddenly scream and say something like "WATCH OUT!" ..... a truck just merged from the onramp to the lane to my left. I was in my lane, he was in his lane, there was absolutely no potential collision. Doesn't matter, she still screams. Or if cars break in front of me she does a dramatic grabbing of the "oh ** bar" and one hand on the dash, and I get a lecture on proper breaking distance.
I can assure you she is not the exception. I deal with the same exact thing, only her anxiety also includes ANY driving next to semi trucks, at all. She's certain we're going to be sucked into the wheels of the beast and thrown like a pebble, lol. And any time she sees brake lights ahead, no matter how far, she gasps for air. Also, when she's riding in the passenger seat, she is a terrible judge of our position in the lane, and thinks i'm riding the left line, when i'm perfectly centered in the lane. Makes me crazy.
[edit on 28-8-2009 by 27jd]
Men are not emotional creatures.....
Men take things literally. If you say don't buy me a present, to us that doesn't mean buy you a present. If you say you don't care (even if you do) it means you don't care to us. Say what you mean for the love of god.
Men need more alone time than women or we go clinically insane
Men communicate differently than women.We are more straight forward with the way they say things. We may say something we mean one way and women throw it all out of proportion.
5. We don't like being talked down to, which is actually the biggest reason we cheat. Disrespect of males is pretty common…...
7. Most of us leave socks on the floor, deal with it.
8. For some reason we feel the need to release methane into the air on a fairly regular basis. I'm sorry, you have no choice, get used to it.
9. Men must have time to do manly things. For some it's hunting or fishing while for others it could be a jam session or bowling league.
10. Men get drawn into things. If you talk to your man while he is focused on something and he doesn't respond stay calm, it's just how we are.
11. Men sometimes don't understand why you are mad at them. This is normal, when they ask you whats wrong tell them wtf is wrong…..
12. Men are not your slaves. If you think or act different we will not like it very much.
Really so if your partner takes care of the kids all week, does the grocery shopping, cleans the house, does the school registrations, & refreshes her make up before you come home all while working 10 hour days with 2.5 hrs of travel time each day she doesn’t need some alone time? If her alone time means she has to get out of the house and away from everyone what she’s thinking is that she’ll kill two birds (or 5 or 6 ) with one stone and go to the mall where she can a) get some badly needed exercise b) find that size 15 pair of shoes one of your sons needs c) drop off the movies you rented last weekend d) see if she can find a gift for Christmas that you would like e) stop by the grocery store to pick up the milk you need f) relax. You are negating the value of the work a woman puts forth in the household and relegating her to a slave status that needs to do more work with less personal time.
13. Men tend to like different certain subjects than women. For some men like science, women don't. For some the difference is books, or movies, politics, religion. When your man starts talking about a subject you don't like, listen to him anyway. We listen to you when you talk about the color curtains you want to put up so please listen to us if we want to talk about the fleecing of America. It will all be over soon and he will feel a sense of fulfillment.
14. Some men like video games. Some games are online and cannot be paused. If you want him to do something at least let him get to a good stopping point. Sometimes this may take 20 mins or so to achieve. He will find that stopping point and get you whatever you need. (most of the time, again all men are different) Please remember number 10 here.
15. Men don't think every little thing is the end of the world, neither should you.
Originally posted by DaMod
reply to post by Hazelnut
Yup, I can't speak for every man but a mister nice guy is always a sure fire winner. It's too bad that these are often the last choice. I've seen a lot of good guys get screwed over this way.
...At least you should never ever say something like that to a Scandinavian woman if you don't have a death wish or something...