A Little Help For Women Trying To Understand Men!, page 3


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reply posted on 27-8-2009 @ 10:38 PM by Teeky
reply to post by DaMod


Wow men are complicated. I always thought men to be so simple, but the list is pretty long. So I have to rethink my perception. But I like the fact that we are trying to understand each other. Men and women need respect each other.


reply posted on 27-8-2009 @ 11:16 PM by kyred
reply to post by Republican08


Hey, great post. Also, gals, just because you man might end up in a strip joint and come home horny. Hey, don't waste the opportunity! Yeah, so, he was excited about some lesbian shaking her booty, and he came home. HE CAME HOME! And, maybe, if you went to a manshaking booty bar, you just might get a bit turned on too, and then come home and, well, just maybe, you and your husband might have the greatest sex ever since, well, last weekend, when you man thought it was the greatest sex since, well, the previous weekend.

One of my daughters found out that her husband went out and once, ONCE, experienced a booty bar. She was so angry! She equated it to him cheating on her. WTF? He was just watching something. Women, next time you watch Antonio Banderas in a movie, or the guy with the wonderful thighs and six pack in the movie, The 300, and YOU get a bit turned on, just remember, do you consider that cheating? If you do, then that is a problem. That's another problem you need to get over. But if you don't consider that cheating, then,well, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Whatever, if watching something spices up your monogamous sexlife, how is that bad? Unless you just don't want to have sex. Then that's a whole other problem that needs to be addressed, at least for one of your couple.

Heh.

Another thing. Don't pretend you gals don't fanticize. Heh. We know better. There's plenty of gals out there that tell us otherwise.

Meanwhile, my Honey, go on out there to the Dancing Bear Revue, come on home and wake me up. I won't complain.


reply posted on 27-8-2009 @ 11:19 PM by kyred
reply to post by XIIIth


Oh, yeah, women don't leave their stuff lying around. And, oh, yeah, gals, just because you farts don't make a noise, doesn't mean they don't stink.

Men go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrt and women go pfft. Smells the same.


reply posted on 27-8-2009 @ 11:51 PM by Orion65
reply to post by TeddiRevolution


It does seem kind of out of place here, I agree.

Unless this site has an ATS version of Match dot com, LOL.


reply posted on 28-8-2009 @ 12:01 AM by open_eyeballs
reply to post by DaMod


Only a few things I find that will help in regards to relationships...

Dudes...

First and foremost...

Dont get into a relationship without experience...period. Seen to many friends get their sexual organs handed to them by some chick who thought she was hot stuff...(but really wasnt)

Girls like men with experience...They want someone who can take care of themselves and then her as well... That means financially, mentally and physically. If you dont think you can do these things then know your heading down a track that ends at the edge of a cliff...

If you think you dont have those three abilities (or the confidence to display those qualitites) then dont worry about a relationship. Even if you land that pretty looking face and nice body. Things wont workout until you are menatlly and financially mature. Give yourself a reality check before you consider a real relationship...And know that is what you want. You make that decision to get involved...You had better know that is exactly what you want. Then be prepared for all the stuff that comes with it...

If you arent prepared, you will screw everyone around you by messing it up...cheating, non chalant half ass attitude, and all the things that makes things end in disaster...

A relationship is real work...not all fairy tales and happy endings...It takes a lot of work...

I would say if you are under 28...dont even attempt a real relationship...flings, girls that understand you just want to be friends...all good...but when you decide to settle you had better be prepared.

That is the best advice I could give...Got married at 19...went through a seperation at 21...and all the insanity that went with it...then had two kids with her......but have no fear...I wouldnt trade them for the world...My first was what kept me in the game...Parents know what Im talking about...

The only quality I had to support that relationship was the physical... Mentally I wasnt there in the slightest. Financially I was a mess because I wasnt there mentally... Due to that fact, I was completely ill-prepared, it made it impossible for that relationship to thrive or to even make it work.

Hope that helps who it needs to help...


reply posted on 28-8-2009 @ 12:09 AM by open_eyeballs
reply to post by Threadfall



SEX, ladies. SEX. SEX. SEX


you think that now...

Having all the sex in the world wont make a night out any more fun, or a having a real intelligent conversation with here when she is as dumb as a sack of hammers, or make her a good care taker or a good partner..

sex is just that... sex...

if that is all your worried about dont worry about a relationship...just have fun...

theres nothing wrong with it either, but do yourself the favor and be honest and lay the cards on the table so theres no misunderstanding..it could get real nasty when she finds out you are just leading her on...and she will find out...


reply posted on 28-8-2009 @ 12:18 AM by Divisor
I would like to believe myself to be unique, but reading the OP's list was like reading my own wish list throughout my seven years of marriage (of which I am two years removed). Much of my time is still spent in regret, and reflection of what could have been, and what has been lost, not dismissing nor diminishing the beautiful gift that is my son. I love him more than I care to breathe the air, and never in my time upon this earth would I seek a different path than to be in his presence and witness the splendor of his life, even at such expense to suffer again the humility and despair that is the destruction of a family, and divorce of a marriage. I see each individual conveniently itemized issue clearly and well met as a friend, having spent many a night in the doghouse for the same such offenses.
It makes me realize that it was not the nature of these offenses, rather the dynamic of my own marital situation, and the underlying nature of the struggle there present, having proved cause for tension relative to very minor issues, as I perceived them affecting my ability to live a "normal" life in my household, absent the threat of the"rage of aeons" unleashed upon my very soul as I struggled to provide in a manner consistent with my understanding of a "proper upbringing", in a world gone mad, and no palace of sanity known to me, not even in mine own domain. So faulty are we to believe we are any different from one another being that upon our feet are shod the same tread. In one fashion or the other, we may substitute the descriptions of our common complaints regarding the opposite gender for the idea of power, and the subsequent issues there arising from a conflict due to the exercise of stubborn steadfastness to perceptions of our roles as dictated by our understanding of gender, and our ingrained acceptance of abandonment of reason and fairness in the quest for "being right" in light of our beloved counterparts obvious misunderstandings of our inherent proclivities as men or women.
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