War really is hell.
And every single person who signs up to go into war should know this. I have three friends all currently on active duty in Iraq. I've discussed it
wiht all of them. I do not support our troops, because I do not support what they are doing. The mentality is the same as "I support my children".
A sentiment that would appear, on the surface, to be universal and given. However, when you have signed up for 5 and a half years of murer, knowing
full well that you would be fighting in urban areas where civilian casualties are a given, then I can not possibly support that.
Along the lines of an earlier poster, I can only support a defensive war. Ad don't try feeding me that "IF WE DON'T FIGHT THEM THERE, WE'LL HAVE
TO FIGHT THEM HERE!!1!!" BS. You're not going to have tens of thousands of America-hating Islamic fundamentalists infiltrate NYC and covertly set
up shop in apartment buildings. That's ludicrous.
And OP, it's not possible to talk about supporting troops without talking about what it is they're doing. If a soldier happens to rape a loved one
of yours, would you still support that soldier? No. Not even though he may have been 'going through hell'.
In my mind, the only killing that can be justified is unavoidable self-defense. And the war in Iraq certainly wasn't unavoidable.
The whole infidelity issue is another story, infidelity is never a good thing. However, don't confuse it with not "supporting the troops".