posted on Jul, 8 2013 @ 05:32 AM
Originally posted by dave_welch
reply to post by DestroyDestroyDestroy
I agree. Women especially are bombarded from birth with these airbrushed images of what society thinks they should look like. I've always hated
They also want money and protection. Tell me they don't. You don't have a phone and you don't want to confront him, so it's kind of obvious that you
can't provide her with either money or protection. And maybe even with a place to stay. She hosted that one night, right?
He may be mean to her ( In whatever way.........you never went into detail there), but he buys her kids things and he's obviously very good at
protecting her from you. He offers her money and protection. You don't. You may love her, but can you offer her anything substantial aside from that?
She does have kids and a place to stay, so she has bills to pay.
Sounds like she has you on "speed dial" for emotional support and the occasional booty call, everything she needs in the night, and him for everything
else that the day demands of her. You love her? Prove it. Be able to give her what he does, so she has a socially acceptable reason to leave him. He
may be an a**hole towards her, but since you can't seem to man up, you're leaving her with little choice but to be with him, and he seems to have no
problem with being her second choice.
Ever see The Butterfly Effect? Remember the Hilltop Cafe scene where she's the waitress? It may be a little dramatic, but, really, you need to grow
up and out of whatever romantic illusion you're living in and give the woman what a woman needs to get by in life. Otherwise, she's just gonna move on
and see you, in time, as the putz who couldn't deliver the goods.
edit on 8-7-2013 by Taupin Desciple because: (no reason given)