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I'm not afraid of a fight, but I'm afraid that I'll severely harm him and end up in jail.
Exactly, however that's also a problem. Patience is something that I have a bit of trouble with in certain situations, especially this one. I just need to find out what I can do about it.
a female friend of mine is the same despite her boyfriend smashing all her windows and ending up in jail when she finished with him they are now back together . i gave up on all that and i am now happier than ever on my own .
Originally posted by dave_welch
reply to post by billdadobbie
Neither have I. I gave up on the online thing a couple of years ago after meeting too many crazies. Normally though, especially in this most recent case, I get to know them long before going further.
Honestly, in this case it may not be her fault. The guy she's with has threatened her with several things before. Whether she wants to be with me or not, she is my friend, and I can find no way to help her here. That's driving me fracking bananas.
Whether she wants to be with me or not. I don't want to see my friend go through that, but right now, her phone is broken and the only way I can get a hold of her is to just go over there. But, if I go and he's there, I'm afraid of what I'll do to him. What can I do?
I don't think I'll be able to figure out the right course of action until I can talk to her, the only problem with that is catching her at home when he's not around.