Originally posted by dave_welch
Just got a message from her. Here's what it said: "I am sorry about everything. I have alot of stuff to figure out. I will talk to u about it as
soon as i can"
Any Ideas what that means?
YA it means your on the back burner just in case whatever her prime directives does not work out, you know plan A is not working so on to plan B. Its
something females say to keep there options open. But hey a girls likely to have bills and much more, but so does everybody else. So ya! such is all
relationships in one way or another. The whole of it is merely decorations and fancy words on very primal needs and urges. Of which the outcome is
long decided, people just seem to go through the motions.
I however think you should erase her phone number, but I know you wont. Listen dude, just admit it your a gluten for this kind of punishment, in fact
for some its practically part of the ritual. And so is she, from what you said before in your other posts you two already sort of got down in a way,
if not jiggy...quite yet. Really its like I said, its all about wavelengths and cosmic fate and all that jive. You my friend have no problems, and
neither does she in fact I would say it sounds like your made for each other. But that to does not mean much, as love is but a word, and in time all
of that and everything will come to a head, and the first ant hill in your way may trip you both. All of this so far that you and her have been
going through back and forth has just been the preliminaries to something that possibly just may be written in stone....Ain't love grand.
So you want to be with her for your own convoluted reasons, and they just may be the right reasons. And her? Well as you know by now females have
there ways, to which there reasons will eventually play catch up. Play her game and you will reach her ends, dont play her game and the likely outcome
is still the same. But from all you said, nothing about her makes her out to be any sort of damsel in distress, in fact you even said she is the one
keeping on to the other guy even paying for him and all that, and not the other way around. In either case its merely the same thing. Like I said its
practically fate, the roles could reverse or things could change but the results and the fact that they are still attract each other will still be
And from all you said, only a few options seem possible from there, she is either moving on or she is staying and you are likely merely a option she
is considering, usually before females get cozy with a new host they play these sort of games, you know to test the watters, however you may not be
the only one. But you and the guy have much in common once this whole thing wears out, and once both your games are done. Then the real thing will
begin, and you both will come to realize that it was merely a game of circumstance were it would of reached this outcome no matter who was in the
forefront first, hopefully by then you both will be to tired and old to be steeping voluntarily into such things. I do believe its called contentment.
So ya! In that case. I think you two should settle this like men, you know give her what she is looking for. I say you should have a bare knuckle
fight for her with the guy. Winner gets her, and loser. Well the loser is probably the real winner because the whole thing just sounds like a
headache. But in any case bro. You came to the right place for advice.
Here is what you should do. Get yourself a nice and new hat. And make yourself dispensable on the places they hang out. You know one of these days,
act all inconspicuous and bump into this guy while he is with her. When he bumps into you, oh so lazily drop your hat at his feet. Make sure he
touches it with his feet or steps on it. When he does, say something along the lines of..."Hey buddy why don't you watch were I am going" Now in
the time he is confused, pick up your hat and pretend like its just totaled. Get in his face, and say. So are you going to say sorry? And if he
does, put your hat in his face and say. Its not me you got to say sorry to, say sorry to my hat, I think you hurt her feelings.
By now he will no doubt be totally confused and think your a crazy man, and no doubt this chick your going on about will be intrigued, and think your
awesome have some major balls and confidence and all that crap. At which point if he actually decides to fight you. Then kick his ass...But if he
does not want to fight you. Then challenge him to a game of paper rock scissors for her. Oh ya! She will totally be impressed then. All's I can say
is. May the best man win.
Or you can avoid all that work dude. Like I said bro, I do believe both your fates are written in the stars and from the little you said on this whole
thing it sounds like your made for each-other, its all just a matter of the peculiar paths you will take to end up at the same place.