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reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:23 AM by Akragon
reply to post by Angle



What does a man need to do to get his thoughts trough to others?


Remove anger and rage...

Aside from that I haven't got a clue what you're sayin...

Simplify?




reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:32 AM by arpgme
reply to post by Angle



You have the right to be as angry/enraged as you like. All of these "love and light" people want people to be like them. Just turning a blind eye to all problems ignoring them and claiming it "negative" and just agreeing with people claiming conformity and servitude to be "love".

True love is acceptance. Allowing people to be who they are, not trying to "drown" anyone with any "lights".

Be angry if you like. You have the right to say " NO!" to that which you do not prefer.


reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:33 AM by Akragon
reply to post by arpgme



Does anger and rage help your situation?

Or does it make you feel worse?




reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:35 AM by AthlonSavage
reply to post by arpgme





Be angry if you like. You have the right to say " NO!" to that which you do not prefer.


Yes so wh do you think people dont say NO!

Btw dont forget to S/f OP
edit on 7-3-2013 by AthlonSavage because: (no reason given)



reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:37 AM by Itisnowagain
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to
post by arpgme



Does anger and rage help your situation?

Or does it make you feel worse?



Anger and rage happen. If you judge yourself then there will be trouble.
Anger and rage arise and subside in that which never passes.
Find that which never passes and you will never feel worse.


reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:42 AM by Akragon
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to
post by arpgme



Does anger and rage help your situation?

Or does it make you feel worse?



Anger and rage happen. If you judge yourself then there will be trouble.
Anger and rage arise and subside in that which never passes.
Find that which never passes and you will never feel worse.


They both stem from frustration... Understanding that frustration can prevent either...

it happens, but its not needed or necessary...

And with practice one can live without either as well...




reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:43 AM by arpgme
reply to post by Akragon



It depends. If you act on rage/anger instantly, then yes, it COULD make things worse. If you understand your anger and know that it is acceptable to feel this way - to feel resistance to something that you see as "bad" or "do not prefer" but are willing to just get away from it rather than argue - then it makes things better and gets rid of stress.

This is what I'm relearning. I was taught by these "love and lighters" to only feel "love and peace". Now I realize that stripped away my personality to just conform. Now I am realizing anger again, but instead of acting quickly on it an getting into trouble (fight, argument, conflict), I'd much rather just stay away from what caused the anger and let it be.

If I hate the taste of spaghetti. It is ok that I feel disgust when I eat it, but instead of complaining to everyone especially those who like it. I can just choose not to eat it, stay away...

but there is nothing wrong with the feeling of "disgust" because it is building up my preference for the foods I like.. and there is no reason for me to "love all food". I like what I like and I don't like what I don't. We are all individuals.


reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:45 AM by Itisnowagain
Originally posted by Akragon
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to
post by arpgme



Does anger and rage help your situation?

Or does it make you feel worse?



Anger and rage happen. If you judge yourself then there will be trouble.
Anger and rage arise and subside in that which never passes.
Find that which never passes and you will never feel worse.


They both stem from frustration... Understanding that frustration can prevent either...

it happens, but its not needed or necessary...

And with practice one can live without either as well...



Anger and rage happen and if you believe you can eliminate them you will suffer because you will be forever judging yourself.
Be the witness to whatever arises and be free. Allow all to come and pass.


reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:48 AM by Akragon
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
Originally posted by Akragon
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to
post by arpgme



Does anger and rage help your situation?

Or does it make you feel worse?



Anger and rage happen. If you judge yourself then there will be trouble.
Anger and rage arise and subside in that which never passes.
Find that which never passes and you will never feel worse.


They both stem from frustration... Understanding that frustration can prevent either...

it happens, but its not needed or necessary...

And with practice one can live without either as well...



Anger and rage happen and if you believe you can eliminate them you will suffer because you will be forever judging yourself.
Be the witness to whatever arises and be free. Allow all to come and pass.


I am ecstatic to judge myself... For who else can judge me but God without bringing that judgement on themselves?

And suffering is a part of life... get used to it





reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:50 AM by AthlonSavage
reply to post by Itisnowagain





Why should we star and flag the OP?


because its a happy soul that does so
edit on 7-3-2013 by AthlonSavage because: (no reason given)



reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:52 AM by Akragon
Originally posted by arpgme
reply to
post by Akragon



It depends. If you act on rage/anger instantly, then yes, it COULD make things worse. If you understand your anger and know that it is acceptable to feel this way - to feel resistance to something that you see as "bad" or "do not prefer" but are willing to just get away from it rather than argue - then it makes things better and gets rid of stress.

This is what I'm relearning. I was taught by these "love and lighters" to only feel "love and peace". Now I realize that stripped away my personality to just conform. Now I am realizing anger again, but instead of acting quickly on it an getting into trouble (fight, argument, conflict), I'd much rather just stay away from what caused the anger and let it be.

If I hate the taste of spaghetti. It is ok that I feel disgust when I eat it, but instead of complaining to everyone especially those who like it. I can just choose not to eat it, stay away...

but there is nothing wrong with the feeling of "disgust" because it is building up my preference for the foods I like.. and there is no reason for me to "love all food". I like what I like and I don't like what I don't. We are all individuals.


So as you can see by your own words, you've learned to turn from anger before it becomes rage, and you act on it...

Preferences are hardly in the same category...




reply posted on 7-3-2013 @ 03:57 AM by arpgme
reply to post by Akragon



Acting on hate/anger, will only influence others to respond to you in the same way. Then it will be a back and forth hate. If that is what you are saying, I agree.

But, I feel what I feel and I am not gonna try to "transform" any emotions to anything. From anger, I can kindly tell people my disagreement, but I want to stay away from "emotionally charged" arguments because only I will suffer from my own anger. I will stay neutral talking about my position (or at least try to).

As for fighting, conflict, and such... yes, I suggest just staying away from what you don't like if you can....
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