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Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by Hawking
Originally posted by kdog1982
F$$k you all and I will parent my child as I see fit.
Then why did you ask for our input?
because he expected ATS to stroke his ego and tell him how badass he was ? - just a guess
Originally posted by katfish
reply to post by kdog1982
Luckily I raised my kids pre-cellphone era. But I did tell them I would respect their privacy as long as they were aware I would step in if I felt it best for them.
My mom used to listen in to my phone calls and then criticize me for it. She also read my diaries and went through my purse and pockets. I never once gave her any reason to, but she did anyway. Once I got to adulthood I left. We have not spoken in 20 years.
Originally posted by sonnny1
Originally posted by Astyanax
You have been reading the private messages of teenage girls who are not your daughter. Do you realize how creepy that is? You may justify it all you like as parental discipline, but that doesn't really explain why you chose that particular style of 'discipline' – why you chose to violate your daughters' friends' rights.
They are NOT private messages. Unless you want to show me the legality of it,when it comes to MY household,my devices,my internet.........Its only creepy if I were to be texting them back,at least in my book.
Why wont you answer the questions I lie before you?????
Bet you Eric Harris and Dylan Klebolds parents would have wished THEY snooped a bit more,hey ????
I bet you the Parents of the dead children these kids killed,would agree.......
You didnt answer it it the last time,and obviously this exact scenario, throw holes in your argument.Because Parents DIDNT see the signs,and DIDNT check their children's belongings......Tell me otherwise?
You being the "MORAL" police doesn't change the fact,that as long as my children are under my roof,I will do what I can to protect them.
From drug talk,to sexting,things I believe a 13 year old has no reason to chat about,especially to someone she may "believe" to be her friend. Ironic,hey ? Because texting is random,and NOT personal. You dont know who is on the other end,and that's a fact. Unless you want to tell me otherwise.......
cause for all I know,you might be my kid,right???????????
Originally posted by Starchild23
Yeah, actually, I think I will bag this point.
When did we start getting worried about older men texting younger girls? Once again: how many of us would complain if an older woman was texting our 13 year old boy?
It's ridiculous, the amount of paranoia. And then we have the parent taking their power as ruler of the houshold and deeming it fitting to paw through the history on their child's phone. Not content to halt their invasions there, they proceed to interact with and study every person their child associates with.
So, if we were to spy on daddy to make sure he wasn't taking the college funds to the bar with him, he wouldn't be upset, right? Or maybe if we checked mom's credit card to see how much splurging she does at the shoe store?
There's suspicious, and there's ridiculous. How much do you trust your daughter?
Originally posted by LightSpeedDriver
reply to post by kdog1982
You are giving them your Uncle Buck Axe Collection routine?
Bet you Eric Harris and Dylan Klebolds parents would have wished THEY snooped a bit more,hey ????
According to early accounts of the shooting, Harris and Klebold were very unpopular students and frequent targets of bullying at their high school.[6
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Tom and Sue Klebold had strickt limits on how much money they spent on their kids. "These kids were not spoiled", friend Judy Brown said. "Tom and Sue wanted them to know the value of money and work."
Originally posted by mamabeth
reply to post by boncho
I trust my daughter,it was all those teenaged boys that
I didn't trust.I remember being a teenager and I really made
it a point to watch my teen as a hawk.I was doing things at
her age I would have seriously grounded her for if she did them.
Boncho,do you have any teen kids?
Am I out of line or being a protective carrying parent.