posted on Sep, 30 2011 @ 09:11 AM
there is a dilemma IMO, everyone is assuming your wife cancelled.
What if it was the other person who cancelled ? for some unknown reason and the plan is still in motion for some other time?options still open?
you see this kickstarted events that will never end, now the OP will have to keep checking and have his radar on 24hrs, he will start suspecting every
call, every move she does.
until he comes clean which he can't? cuz she might give him an answer he wants to hear, that She cancelled cuz she loves him.
WAIT, why assume the negativity all the time, i know lying is not a good sign, but now that the issue of bringing the kids along was an option, the
same thing happened to me, my own dad asked me that he wants to secretly meet up with an old flame of his and she has a nice daughter and if we can
all go out and meet up at a nice restaurant i used to work at, that was weird, but i knew it was nothing more than reliving a few moments of the past
and catching up, which was an innocent thing TBH.
OP, your wife should have been honest with you, you have every right to track her down and check up on her, but i assure you, she meant nothing bad
out of this......keep your cool, and just wait , things like this can't be hidden for too long.
I suggest you ask her about him and see her reaction in a few days time, tell her something like so whats new with this guy you told me about, whats
he been up to etc etc, be casual, and see how her reaction would be.
If you do nothing, and just move on like nothing happened, it will eat you inside and you will never est until you know what the # that was all
patience is a virtue as i said.