posted on Sep, 30 2011 @ 07:08 AM
reply to post by Cinaed
I agree with you. I think it maybe insecurity and paranoia that is bugging her. It gets old after awhile.
What do I think?
She is simply curious. Sometimes you just want to see how a person turns out.
if her cousin is going with her, then I am willing to bet that is what it is. If you plan on meeting a member of the opposite sex and have things
happen, you don't bring company,.
If she is going rollar skating, I think she is just reliving her youth.
I don't believe that just because you are married, that you should share personal information. My fb is mine only. I don't care if you gave me a
kidney, your not getting the password. That is my personal space, as well as email.
Adults need autonomy. You don't stop being an individual just because you are married.
Women are subject to losing themselves especially after becoming mothers.
I think she is having a reaction to losing autonomy and seekingn something that reminds her who she was before marriage and children.
And it is kept secret because if it isn't,then that world is infiltrated too.
Keep an eye on it, but say nothing more. if it happens again, then confront her.