posted on Sep, 29 2011 @ 05:57 PM
I'm posting this here because this is the only place in the interwebs that my wife and I don't both post....
I'm 30, she's 27, we've been together 12 years and married almost 9 years. We have a 2yr old son. That sums up the backlog of details....
I recently noticed and she also mentioned that an ex-bf of hers added her on facebook. An ex-bf as in, from when she was like 14 years old. I didn't
think much of it, I knew of him by name. Never met him or anything. Well, apparently they met at this roller-skate ring back in the day and from there
they started "dating". Well, it's been about two weeks or so since she mentioned him and today she sends me a txt asking if it was okay if she went
with her cousin tomorrow night to that particular skate ring to go roller skating. Well, I told her that was fine, but it immediately set off the
sirens in my head. My wife and I have been together for 12yrs and not ONCE has she showed any interest in roller skating, much less driving an hour
out to this particular skate ring. So, being the computer nerd I am, I RDPed into her laptop and accessed her facebook account and sure enough, they
had a chat going and guess who she is meeting up with at the skating ring. I figured at this point why not check the emails to her cousin and it is
true they (wife and her cousin) are going, but my wife hasn't mentioned that she is meeting her Ex there.
At this point I checked out his facebook profile and found that he is not much to worry about as far as "stealing' my wife away or anything, given
his lack of employment, drug habits, baby momma drama, rotten teeth, etc., but the fact that she is hiding this from me is what bothers me. In the
chat he is already proposing to cap off the night at the local bar and that he could give her a ride home.
At this point I'm not sure if I should call her out before or after or wait until the followings days when I can confirm the met up. I figure if I
drop the bomb that I know before, it will piss her off and drive her to do something stupid to piss me off, but I want her to unconsciously get the
feeling that i know what's up and on to her.
Beens tewing on this at work most of the day and just needed to get it out....