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Originally posted by hillynilly
The solution would be for non-married couples to use condoms, birth control..
DO NOT HAVE KID'S until you can afford them..
MAKE SURE she does not get pregnant..
If you do not want kid's with her.
You guys should of known about these crazy women...
I am glad that I have other men to take advice from
and hear these awful stories so I do not make the
same mistake...
For married-men that were divorced by their wife and took them for
all they got, well I really DO feel bad for you guys
and think the system does screw you...
The majority of all this BS though is from un-married couples
playing house, or being too lazy to put a condom on, or
too dumb and forgets to take her pill.edit on 1-6-2011 by hillynilly because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by g146541
reply to post by TheDevilOfLies
Actually anyone can buy 2 dogs and breed them freely no contracts at all.
If people want to do the adoption thing just like a dog adoption, they must show proof of financial and moral substance.
But yes, most people should wait to have kids until they are capable, but sometimes life will not wait.
I used to be young and dumb, I'm not young anymore!
Originally posted by g146541
reply to post by CaDreamer
I truly feel for you, in Kalifornia it seems only mothers understand how to raise a child, and it is quite priceless, both metaphorically and literally.
I can offer no advice except to say hang in there it does get better, right about the childs 18th birthday.
The states have a way of making some fathers dislike things about their children by charging the non custodial parent for huge amounts of cash and no tax deductions.
I understand why some fathers flee, it is a life sentance and child support cannot be removed by bankruptcy.
Back in 90 or so I was nailed for a little over 1500. a month for 2 boys.
I kept up with it but barely, i had no deductions and made a huge amount of cash that always went to the ex.
I literally bought her a house.
But it does get better, hang in there.
Originally posted by MrWendal
Originally posted by hillynilly
The solution would be for non-married couples to use condoms, birth control..
DO NOT HAVE KID'S until you can afford them..
MAKE SURE she does not get pregnant..
If you do not want kid's with her.
You guys should of known about these crazy women...
I am glad that I have other men to take advice from
and hear these awful stories so I do not make the
same mistake...
For married-men that were divorced by their wife and took them for
all they got, well I really DO feel bad for you guys
and think the system does screw you...
The majority of all this BS though is from un-married couples
playing house, or being too lazy to put a condom on, or
too dumb and forgets to take her pill.edit on 1-6-2011 by hillynilly because: (no reason given)
Keep on thinking this way, then when you find out condoms are not 100% effective, that birth control pills are not 100% effective, you can then come tell me all about it again. I bet you sing a different tune. I just hope you don't find out the hard way like so many others have.
Originally posted by MrWendal
Originally posted by hillynilly
The solution would be for non-married couples to use condoms, birth control..
DO NOT HAVE KID'S until you can afford them..
MAKE SURE she does not get pregnant..
If you do not want kid's with her.
You guys should of known about these crazy women...
I am glad that I have other men to take advice from
and hear these awful stories so I do not make the
same mistake...
For married-men that were divorced by their wife and took them for
all they got, well I really DO feel bad for you guys
and think the system does screw you...
The majority of all this BS though is from un-married couples
playing house, or being too lazy to put a condom on, or
too dumb and forgets to take her pill.edit on 1-6-2011 by hillynilly because: (no reason given)
Keep on thinking this way, then when you find out condoms are not 100% effective, that birth control pills are not 100% effective, you can then come tell me all about it again. I bet you sing a different tune. I just hope you don't find out the hard way like so many others have.
Originally posted by dawnstar
recently??
why do you think women ended up having 10 or so kids before birth control became so prevalent??? the only difference is that society put more pressure on people to get married early...so, well, they were married couples with 10 or so kids, and likely not to divorce, because society kind of frowned on that one also, and make it an extremely unpleasant experience, especially for the women....edit on 1-6-2011 by dawnstar because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by TheDevilOfLies
condoms and birth control
what a joke
what ever happened to personal responsibility??
only recently has sex been such a NEED in humans everyday life
people cant go a day without it
they need their bc pills and their condoms and blah blah blah
heres a simple solution
if you arent in a position to raise a kid, if youre not in a REAL relationship, keep it in your pants
WHAT A CRAZY CONCEPT!
It all began when Dr. Sharon Irons (an internist) and Dr. Richard Phillips (a family practitioner) began dating in January 1999. Dr. Irons led Dr. Phillips to believe she was divorced and within a few months, they became engaged. According to Dr. Phillips, the two discussed the possibility of having children and he made clear his intentions: that he did not want children until after they were married and any pre-marital sex would require the use of condoms. Throughout the course of their relationship, they engaged in only three instances of oral sex: they never went “all the way.”
Dr. Irons also never informed her boyfriend that she was, in fact, still married. Five months into their relationship, she confessed to Dr. Phillips that she was not divorced and he decided to end their relationship.
On one of these intimate occasions, Dr. Irons did something rather remarkable: After fellating Dr. Phillips, she held his semen in her mouth (where it was suitable to sustain viability) and then inseminated herself with it. She did not inform Dr. Phillips of her actions.