reply to post by nixie_nox
My son fell for her because she is 5' tall, a little over 100 pounds, billowy blonde hair that was down to her waist and very physically beautiful.
I advised him to think with the head on his shoulders but like most men he thought with his other head.
Let's see...................bitter mother in law, no - I have forgiven her and wish her no harm.
No, my son isn't perfect but he did pick up their child every night, and take care of her every single night while she went to school, and to bars to
help her brother with his Kareokee business...........every single night after work she left her daughter for my son to take care of.
Whan our grand daughter was two, she came to our home at around 3AM with the police and demanded her daughter who we were watching for her.
We, my husband, son and I did not see or hear or know where our grand daughter was for over three months..........imagine not knowing where your child
was for three months.
My son gained 40 pounds and she found him undesirable so she lied and said he hit her..................my son does not hit nor is he
violent..........sloppy beyond belief, absent minded, eats too much, smokes cigerettes, somewhat lazy but if your kid was drowning while everyone was
standing around with their finger in there ears he would be the one to jump in and save your kid or you............he is a humanitarian, a very decent
My ex daughter in law used the same lawyer her father used against her mother. Her mother subsequently left the state and her children to her husband
(my ex daughter in law's father).
My ex daughter in law's father raised her to be a real fighter, his motto was "get them before they get you".
When he first met me he was laying on a couch smoking and drunk, suffering from dementia - he said, "God you're fat". He did not raise up from his
laying down position, he just laid there cussing out his daughter because she would not have a second abortion.................my grand daughter.
All of my daughter in law's (ex daughter in law's) siblings are mentally screwed up big time.
Her younger brother has four children out of wedlock and left his wife with two or three other kids...........he smokes pot in front of his kids, my
grand daughter has told me she watched and the smoke made her feel funny and sick so she went outside.
Want more u2u me.......................no, I am no longer bitter. I have to let this go because as you can tell things are changing, start
researching into quantum physics, our planet earth is in flux, there are major changes occurring and those that do not have love within their hearts
and are not service to others will be left behind - the Christians call it "The Rapture" in actuality, according to quantum physics, and the Mayans,
2012 ends a cycle and there is the possibility that an entire planet for the first time will ascend together into a higher dimension, leaving behind
it's twin with those that harbor hate, despair, fear and cannot FORGIVE.
As of now, I do forgive my son's ex wife, she is a tortured soul, and like her father who had exactly three friends attend his funeral (my husband's
entire family came for support)..............she will most likely end up like her father because she knows nothing better.
My guess Nixie is you are still quite young - you have much to learn and not a lot of time left if the Mayans are correct.
Learn to love, forgive and move on.......................do not hate, do not try to "get even" - karma, the universal law will take care of us all.
Possibly you may find Dolores Cannon's Books interesting.
Yes my son made a poor choice, I warned him, but he didn't listen.
This time, his new fiance is totally different, she is a lovely sweet wonderful person who has stuck by my son even after being harrassed and stalked
by my son's ex.
We still do not have a address so I can send my grand daughter a birthday or Christmas card - she had a cell phone by court order but my ex daughter
in law smashed it.
I forgive her...................I love her even because she cannot help how she was raised.
Raise a child or animal in hatred and that is what they will know.
If we are to make this planet a better place we must put aside our pettiness, forgive and learn to love each other - for we are all really one, like
drops of rain and "god" is the ocean.
Peace and Safe Journey
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