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Originally posted by nixie_nox
Then she also has a right to choose how that child is provided for.
A recent study of business school graduates from the University of Chicago found that in the early years after graduating, men and women had “nearly identical labor incomes and weekly hours worked.” Men and women also paid a similar career price for taking off or working part time. Women, however, were vastly more likely to do so.
As a result, 15 years after graduation, the men were making about 75 percent more than the women. The study — done by Marianne Bertrand, Claudia Goldin and Lawrence Katz — did find one subgroup of women whose careers resembled those of men: women who had no children and never took time off.
Last year, 40.2 percent of married women with children under 3 years old were outside the labor force, up from a low of 38.6 percent in 1998. The increase, according to a Bureau of Labor Statistics analysis, “occurred across all educational levels and, for most groups, by about the same magnitude.” By contrast, women without children at home have continued to join the work force in growing numbers.
The researchers found the positive effect on men's finances is so significant that divorce can even lift them out of poverty while women can plunge into destitution.
But industry doesn't tell the whole story. Women earned less than men in all 20 industries and 25 occupation groups surveyed by the Census Bureau in 2007 — even in fields in which their numbers are overwhelming. Female secretaries, for instance, earn just 83.4% as much as male ones. And those who pick male-dominated fields earn less than men too: female truck drivers, for instance, earn just 76.5% of the weekly pay of their male counterparts.
(And despite the earnings premium that comes with greater education, women with bachelor's degrees earn less over 15 years than men with a high school diploma or less, according to the IWPR study.)
Originally posted by nixie_nox
And you wonder why you don't have custody.Most of the men who I see complaining about paying child support, don't bother to visit their kids and could care less about them. Instead of being an adult about it, it is everyone else's fault but theirs.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
So if we lived in a world that is truley equal, the pay gaps wouldn't be a problem, and child support should be 50/50.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
The courts only interest is in the welfare of the child. The reason women get awarded custody more is because they care fo the children more. It comes down to basic numbers, who took care of the child? What is in the best interest of the child.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Women still in this day and age only make 77 to the dollar of men if they are lucky.
"Equality" stats and assumptions wrong
Times Colonist, Saturday May 27th., 2000
We write in response to Women's Equality Minister Joan Smallwood's, April 17 letter "Minister contends women still make a lot less than men".
The Victoria Men's Centre is dismayed by her statements; her statistics and assumptions are incorrect and mistaken.
The letter stated that women only made 73 cents to every dollar made by a man. Ministry of Women's Equality staff claimed this statistic came from a Statistics Canada Report published in 1999. But in its most recent report ("The persistent gap: New evidence on the Canadian gender wage gap" , December, 1999), the Income Statistics Division of Statistics Canada acknowledged that their calculation of the 73-cent figure was in error due to a number of incorrect assumptions. They have since re-calculated that the actual number was as high as 89.4 cents.
After reading the report, we came away with the strong impression that if Statistics Canada had actually compared men and women in the same job classification, working the same number of hours per year, they would have found no difference at all.
Although Statistics Canada claims to be sampling full-time, full-year wage earners, this is not the case. Their definition of a full-time, full-year wage earner is "someone who worked 30 hours a week for 6 months in a calendar year on their main job (if they worked at a second job during the same period, it is not considered in this analysis).
Since this report also states that women spend only 75% of their work experience working full-time (vs. 94% for men), it becomes difficult to imagine how this definition can be used objectively to compare wages. This is because for a married man, full-time, full-year employment is exactly that, while for married women it may mean a job, which provided only 720 hours of employment in one year.
It is also difficult to understand how a woman who worked at two or more jobs should have part-time income ignored for the purpose of Statistics Canada's analysis. For example, if a woman worked full-time for 32 hours a week for eight months and part-time at eight hours a week for 12 months, why should the part-time wages be ignored?
Further, Statistics Canada does not consider other sources of income when it calculated these figures. For example, the tips earned by a waiter in a restaurant, are not considered "wages" by Statistics Canada. Neither are commissions, interest, dividends, capital gains, or income earned while on maternity leave.
Another consideration is the fact that Statistics Canada felt that it was important to include those women who are not considered a large component of the employed population and for which there is no real male counterpart. For example widows are included in the sample of Canadian wage earners. However, only 10.5% of the 1.2 million Canadian widows actually work (there are 271,153 widowers in the Canadian population). The other 89.5% of widows get by on other sources of income including their dead husbands' pensions. It may be that if widows worked full time, it was simply to supplement an already existing income and they did not need to earn the kind of wage a married man required to support his wife and children.
A similar argument can be used for divorced women, as the case of the late Darrin White so amply demonstrated. It is not uncommon for divorced men to be ordered by the courts to pay 90% plus of their income to spousal and child support (divorced men also pay the income tax on the child support). Although divorced women may get the house, half the couple's assets and a tax-free income stream, none of this income is factored into Statistics Canada's measure of earned wages for women. In addition, divorced women with custody of children receive family bonus and child tax benefits.
With all these additional sources of income, it is not difficult to understand why some divorced women have little incentive to pursue high wages or take on long workweeks aggressively. Yet Statistics Canada (and the Ministry of Women's Equality) appears to feel that its analytical techniques fairly compare the wages earned by divorced women with those earned by divorced or married men.
These inconsistencies are evident when single male wage earners are compared with single female wage earners. Based on Statistics Canada's old method of comparing wages, the ratio of wages earned by single women vs. single men in 1997 was 92.3%. By simply comparing women and men by their hourly wage rates, one component of Statistics Canada's new method of analysis, this ratio increased to 96.4%. Statistics Canada did not present the ratio it calculated based upon all components of its new analytical method. If they had, we are willing to bet that they would have found no difference, or that women were earning more than men !
One would assume that if there truly were a "gender gap," it would be clearly evident in the wage differences between single men and single women. So why is it that the "gender gap" is not evident in the earned income of this group? The answer is that the "gender gap" is in fact a reflection of the lifestyles which men and women choose to live after they become married, not the result of some vast, systematic and conspiratorial discrimination inflicted on women by the "patriarchy."
Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by SevenBeans
So lets say that your concept is that if a woman has a child, she is solely responsible for that child. Then she must provide for said child. Providing for that child means gaining income by whatever means necessary. Whether it is through assistance through the state, retrieving income from the father, or both.
If it is her decision to get pregnant by simply having sex, then it is her decision on how to provide for that child.
Now if a woman should choose to use less morally acceptable ways to provide for that child, you all would be screaming that all mothers sell drugs and are prostitutes. Fact of the matter is, she is providing for her child whether it be working two jobs or receiving child support.
As a previous poster said, this isn't a new concept. And school teaches you in the middle grades that the only fool proof way to prevent pregnancy is through abstaining. I don't care if a woman has had a full hysterectemy, abstinance is the only way to prevent pregnancy. So either sex is responsible for the care of a child if pregnancy should occur.
That's a good one...
My ex didn't do a damn thing with our kids, literally nothing (she treated them like an annoyance and routinely screamed at them to leave her alone). I tucked them in every night, I read to them, I took them fishing, I gave them their baths, I got them dressed etc. etc. in the morning. Makes no difference.
Originally posted by ofhumandescent
Most men are like dogs, they're sloppy, sweet, loyal and show what they feel.
Most women are like cats (and I love cats) but they are manipulative, sneaky and self-centered.edit on 29-6-2011 by ofhumandescent because: grammar
Originally posted by nixie_nox
As a previous poster said, this isn't a new concept. And school teaches you in the middle grades that the only fool proof way to prevent pregnancy is through abstaining.........
Originally posted by nixie_nox
So lets say that your concept is that if a woman has a child, she is solely responsible for that child. Then she must provide for said child.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Providing for that child means gaining income by whatever means necessary. Whether it is through assistance through the state, retrieving income from the father, or both.
If it is her decision to get pregnant by simply having sex, then it is her decision on how to provide for that child.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Now if a woman should choose to use less morally acceptable ways to provide for that child, you all would be screaming that all mothers sell drugs and are prostitutes. .
Originally posted by nixie_nox
As a previous poster said, this isn't a new concept. And school teaches you in the middle grades that the only fool proof way to prevent pregnancy is through abstaining. I don't care if a woman has had a full hysterectemy, abstinance is the only way to prevent pregnancy. So either sex is responsible for the care of a child if pregnancy should occur.
Originally posted by sonnny1
Originally posted by nixie_nox
And you wonder why you don't have custody.Most of the men who I see complaining about paying child support, don't bother to visit their kids and could care less about them. Instead of being an adult about it, it is everyone else's fault but theirs.
Why should the children,be put in a situation where the mother HAS to go on Welfare?
Did you read my post? It is all in there.
The law is that you can't collect cash assistance or child support, or you collect whichever one is higher. If the cash assistance is higher then child support, then the state takes the child support and gives you the difference. But you can't receive both. So if a woman collects cash assistance, it means she has no income and no child support. Food stamps are based on income. Child support can put you over the limit. But if a mother is able to receive food stamps and child support, she is not receiving a lot of child support. Which means the father isn't making much money or working at all. The children lose no matter what in this situation.
If Dad,has been the sole provider for the family,he should continue to be that caring father. He also should have custody,so mother can get off her feet,and find work,if she isnt working already,and get her life together after the divorce. Father is ALREADY established.Mother isnt.
And what if the father isn't fit to have custody? What if he is a drug addict or abusive? What if he doesn't want to share his money? Then the mother needs support while she gets back on her feet. And what if the mother isn't established because she stayed home with the children?
How does that help the children?
It gets them away from an abusive situation.
Also,I find it funny you come with NO facts,but can make blanket OPINIONATED statements like the above one.
You might want to take this off your clipboard, this has been your argument through the whole thread and a rather weak one. I provided plenty of information to back up my claim.
But we don't like in others what we don't like about ourselves.
A page back there was a survey done,in California. I posted the WHOLE thing to show you how screed up the system truly is.
Are you actually using a survey as a source? One from California at that?
Fathers love their children,but when courts get involved,and take,but give NOTHING back but grief,how do you expect a father to react ?
Stop speaking emotionally, many fathers simply don't care. Hence the 33% father absenteeism. Or if it is court ordered full custody, most likely the father didn't care enough to get his act straight to keep his children.
[Its the system that makes this impossible to do it 50/50.
First off, the system only gets involved if the parents involve it. Parents are allowed to make their own custodial arrangements. If one parent feels strongly enough to pay lawyers to get custody, there is probably a good reason why. In my gender neutral state, the other parent has to have screwed up pretty badly for the other parent to get full custody. Even then, both parents are interviewed and interrogated by professionals to see who is more capable of caring for the children.
You go on with your baseless opinions with backing them up with facts. Projecting are we?
You do know the ONLY reason mothers get the child support/custody IS because they can MAKE money of the breadwinner,the MAN. You do get this right? Its in black and white,from state to state hun...................
Yea, all those single mothers working 2 and 3 jobs to squeak by would readily agree with you. Most women I know only get about 200-250 a month for a child. Childcare in my area is 300 + a week. No one is living high off the hog. Again, emotional, baseless opinions. Between rent, food, and clothing, 300 bucks is nothing. It is based on income, if the father is able to pay more because he makes more, then he is not in dire straights.