I wish I had not found this thread, its a love hate thing and I hate hating more then the love I have for it. I am 31, IQ about 130-135, male and I'm
still a virgin. Heres why, I understand consequence and take things personally, like rejection. In highschool, I was clueless when 2 girls tried to
flirt (not at the same time), the rest of the day was spent wondering what it was all about. In HS, I wanted a girl who liked electronics and was as
smart as me, couldn't find one. I was looking for a female Spock! Then, by the time I learned enough (19yrs old), found some dating sites, saw how
girls AND guys acted, I knew enough that I began to understand that alot of women are having WWI-III going on inside them whether or not they know it
and they WILL bring the war to your doorstep with a nice smile (all's fair comes to mind). I learned alot about this war from my mom. In many
arguements, she will overlook the facts and in some round about way and not directly, will claim emotions are always right and above the facts. I can
admit when I'm wrong, she will not.
So now, I am presented with women who don't know what real love is, want Super Man but will take take Lex over Clark Kent. They don't even consider
that Lois Lane will not give her man up and there is only one superman! It seems they just want what they THINK other people have! Yet they complain
about what they don't have. Makes me sick to think that women will fall for a guy they don't know and vice versa just because they are confident. It
makes me even more sick that they can't figure out that if he doesn't know you, he has nothing to be confident about, other then confident they want
down the womans pants, then they complain men are jerks. Some women will claim they want a man taller then they are on online dating profiles, they
claim they are not in it for the sex, yet would drop bombs on your head if they got even a hint you thought the hight thing were daddy issues LOL.
For me, I like certainties, I will not go on a maybe unless the consequences are small or none. So rejection and the reasons why I was rejected will
rattle around in my head untill I hate that I even bothered. I want some one who understands and accepts me above all else, sex would be great too,
because othewise, it seems like alot of work and pain for just sex and or living in an unhealthy relationship. Yeah, clubs and booze might work for
sex, but I get massive headaches when I TRY to drink and it seems too dishonest for me, less dishonest then fake confidence though. It will probably
take a woman asking for sex outright for me to ever just do it for the sex
What may or may not be true but really makes me wonder some times is if girls/women see all these guys being nice and think in a stereotyping way,
think that they are ALL being nice for sex. Thus, turn to the guy who treats them like garbage because he is some how not trying?
do it for that reason AND as a challange to see if they can tame that bad boy and ride him off into the sunset. IMHO they can't complain in that
case. Honestly, it would be nice to know women were not secretly frightened by intelligence. Why they feel the need to be better then others to feel
good is beyond me, IMO they need to get a real hobby (shopping is not a hobby).
All that said, I would love to find even a bland smart girl of avg looks even if she were a midget or the direct descendent of the Jolly f green
giant. Its just too bad they don't make women...hell every one with body markings that indicate who they are and what they want. You have to dig and
hurt to find out and het your heart stomped on to find out and people wonder why stereotypes exist. People will tell you about everything else on
I would rather be average or stupid and be happy/love and be loved. I chose the wrong pill.