posted on Aug, 12 2010 @ 12:18 PM
She was undergoing a lot of stress from a new job and some personal issues that randomly surfaced from her parents. She said that she needed some
space so she could have some time to herself. I agreed and told her to call me anytime within a week and that we would go from there.
A few days after she said she needed time to herself, I went out to a restaurant to eat with a few good friends of mine. I saw her with two guy
friends of hers and one guy that I had never seen before.
I ignored her. I didn't say a single word or even look in her direction because, well, I was respecting her space. She said she'd start the first
conversation when she was ready.
Well, it turns out she was heartbroken because I was supposed go over to her table and talk to her with her guy friends.
The next day I asked insisted we talk because I was confused about what was going on. We talked and then she dumped me saying it wouldn't work.
I'm pretty sure something was going on between her and the guy that I had never seen before. I never accused her of anything because that would make
me out to be the bad guy. However, her friends were telling me that she was by his side during the entire time she needed her "space".
Needless to say, I couldn't trust her after any of that so I avoided any and all conversations.
Yes, I have dated a few women since then.
Yes, I ended all of the relationships after my ex broke up with me.
No, I am not dating anyone at the moment.
Long story short, her name was "Drama", but I do need a place to stay and I try not to hold any grudges for long periods of time; it isn't
I guess the only thing I feel guilty about is that I did or did not do something to keep her the first time around.
This should get rid of all the vague areas.