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Originally posted by Sargon of Akkad
Yes. The only reason your brother is stupid is because he was physically punished. That is the only, single reason, and if it wasn't for that, he would have cured cancer by now. [/irony]
I'm sorry, I really am, but some people are just not that smart. It's a fact of life. It's how we get averages. And your brother just happens to be one of these people.
Originally posted by double_frick
well seems more that there is a new agenda to coax parents into coddling their children into criminals.
Originally posted by double_frick
Originally posted by yeahright
Correlation does not imply causality. You'd think they'd know that. Apparently the people doing the study used to get walloped pretty frequently.
well seems more that there is a new agenda to coax parents into coddling their children into criminals.
Studies show that over 60% of families still use physical punishment to discipline children. Yet, the research shows that: physical punishment is associated with an increase in delinquency, antisocial behavior, and aggression in children; and physical punishment is associated with a decrease in the quality of the parent-child relationship, mental health, and the child's capacity to internalize socially acceptable behavior. Adults who have been subject to physical punishment as children are more likely to abuse their own child or spouse and to manifest criminal behavior
Spanking is a euphemism for hitting. One is not permitted to hit one's spouse or a stranger; these actions are considered domestic violence and/or assault. Nor should one be permitted to hit a smaller and even more vulnerable child. Hitting a child elicits precisely the feelings one does not want to generate in a child: distress, anger, fear, shame, and disgust. Studies show that children who are hit will "identify with the aggressor," and they are more likely to become hitters themselves, i.e., bullies and future abusers of their children and spouses. They tend to learn to use violent behavior as a way to deal with disputes.
Originally posted by FreeSpeaker
Originally posted by double_frick
Originally posted by yeahright
Correlation does not imply causality. You'd think they'd know that. Apparently the people doing the study used to get walloped pretty frequently.
well seems more that there is a new agenda to coax parents into coddling their children into criminals.
The shining light of common sense appears.
As I said before, I guess all the people who built the world we live (our ancestors) were idiots and raised their children violently, because they sure as hell smacked and beat their kids. Especialy for being disrespectful to eldars. And you know what, our society was safer and more respectful than today but I'm sure all the tough love dealt out back then had nothing to do with it.
Originally posted by eldard
Yes. A whopping 2.8 points. Whopteedoo!
If this it true, though, how come American kids are still stupid? (It's would HAVE, not would OF! )
BTW, I see a gain of two hundred thosand in America's prison population as the idiot American parent follows the advise of this study.
Originally posted by Mathius
this is blowing me away... people actually believe that criminal behaviour comes about because these people didn't get spanked as a child?
Well obviously that is the case: because their parents likely weren't around to discipline them. Most of the people serving sentences come from broken homes and/or had parents that they never saw or even met; and thus likely had no love, support, and mentoring at key points in their childhood/teen years.
Originally posted by djvexd
In the past 10 years+ we have seen a balooning of kids with little or no respect, common sense, or down right anger towards grownups. Why? It seems to coincide with this push to stop correcting kids. I don't advocate walloping kids however I don;t advocate letting kids run rampant either.
Originally posted by FreeSpeaker
However, if people cannot put 2 and 2 togethar and realise our societie's crime, immorality, and disprespect for others isn't a direct result of poor parenting and discipline, I expect the world is going to become a much worse place than it already has become.
Originally posted by Veritas Lux Mea
There are OTHER ways of discipline besides 'time out' and spanking. Have you ever heard of taking time with the children? Children who have lots of 1-on-1 attention, connect better with their caretakers and respect them enough to listen.
Originally posted by FreeSpeaker
Discipline occurs after the child commits a wrong. Taking time with your children is common sense and should happen not as form of discipline but as a good form of parenting.
Originally posted by wecomeinpeace
I wonder if they measured the IQs of the parents. It occurs to me that parents with lower than average IQs are more likely to use corporal punishment as opposed to more "cerebral" methods of disciplining children, and those same parents are also more likely to produce offspring with lower IQs. Hence the relationship between spanking and lower IQ's is not causative, rather it is circumstantial.
[edit on 2009-9-25 by wecomeinpeace]