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Originally posted by tothetenthpower
Funny how other animals don't spank their kids though huh? Interesting little thought people don't think about. I guess the other animals know a secret we don't.
en.allexperts.com...
The idea of using mother dog's natural training techniques isn't new. Respected trainers like Carol Lea Benjamin have been using them for years. To understand these methods, let's take a look at a typical mother dog disciplining her brood. We'll use my Heather (Chow) and her four rowdy puppies as an example.
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If the puppy persists or doesn't take the hint, Heather doesn't fool around. With a menacing growl and using her teeth, she grabs him by the scruff of his neck and gives him a shake. If he sasses back, she gives him another little shake, tougher this time. She doesn't let go of the pup till he's acknowledged her authority (in dog language) by relaxing his body, laying his ears back and keeping still for a moment. Heather disciplines especially obnoxious puppies by knocking them over with her paw and pinning them to the ground, growling angrily and pinching them with her teeth. The puppies shriek but they're not really hurt. She doesn't let them up again untill they relax and lie still. After the correction, the puppy shakes his fur back into place and goes off in search of a playmate with a better sense of humor.
Originally posted by Mathius
But I also believe that once you start to threaten your child with violence, ie. spanking, and then actually follow through with it... you are scarring the child for LIFE. you are showing them that violence is a solution. which is an extremely damaging message... and can lead to big, badder things.
Originally posted by TarzanBeta
reply to post by Mathius
You're wrong.
How do you like that?
There is black and white and there are good and bad people.
Let's "deny ignorance" and not tolerate lies.
And as far as personal attacks go, if people are getting so offended, then do you believe in what you are saying? I certainly haven't felt offended by opposition. I wonder if that is a sign...
If you parents are so offended because you're afraid to look at someone spouting your very own mistakes, don't worry. We all make mistakes. That's not the point. The point is to be HONEST with yourself about those mistakes and not re-create them.
I am not attacking people and saying people are bad. I am saying that the human condition is that of Lies and Deception. Lies and Deception may be able to re-create civility, but it is not honest civility and this government and this world is becoming more screwed up -- It is NOT improving, and I daresay that the ROOT cause of this is because parents are failing to raise their kids properly due to selfishness and laziness!
Originally posted by mrmonsoon
reply to post by tothetenthpower
Ok, lets get a few examples..............
What if your child..........
1) set an animal/pet on fire on purpose?
2) tortured a pet?
3) tortured another child?
4) killed a pet on purpose?
5) tried to kill another person child or adult?
6) burned down someone's house on purpose?
I am in no way suggesting your child/children have done these things, I am asking what you might do in reaction to these kinds of events?
These are just a few examples off the top of my head.
Originally posted by Primordial
What if kids with lower IQ's are just more likely to do stupid things and not listen to their parents, thus getting spanked more often?
Originally posted by FreeSpeaker
As I said before, nature is full of violence and not making your children aware of it is very poor parenting. Children should know that some behaviour can result in violence otherwise they are woefully prepared for life. If I catch a young punk breaking into my car or tagging my garage, I will thrash him good so he remembers it. If it ends up scarring him for life, well mommy and daddy should have awakend his mind to the realities of this world. His poor behaviour at home may not have been punished but that doesn't mean someone else will tolerate such behaviour.
[edit on 25-9-2009 by FreeSpeaker]
Originally posted by eldard
Yes. A whopping 2.8 points. Whopteedoo!
If this it true, though, how come American kids are still stupid? (It's would HAVE, not would OF! )
BTW, I see a gain of two hundred thosand in America's prison population as the idiot American parent follows the advise of this study.
Originally posted by yeahright
Correlation does not imply causality. You'd think they'd know that. Apparently the people doing the study used to get walloped pretty frequently.
Originally posted by Veritas Lux Mea
Growing up, I was only spanked once or twice -- but my eldest brother got whipped nearly every day of his childhood. Since I was the only girl, I was spared, I suppose.. but I still had to helplessly listen to my big brother getting beat and I could do nothing about it.
Now, as we're older.. he is clearly lacking in IQ and doesn't have very much common sense. I love him the same, but I've always believed that the beating he endured DELAYED him in some way..
Originally posted by yeahright
Correlation does not imply causality. You'd think they'd know that. Apparently the people doing the study used to get walloped pretty frequently.
Originally posted by jd140
It all comes down to how you want to raise your children.
If you choose to spank your child then to hell with what anyone else thinks, its none of their buisness.
If you choose not to spank your child then to hell with what anyone else thinks, its none of their buisness.
If you feel like your kid needs spanked then spank them and spit in the eye of those who look down on you. The same goes for those who don't spank their child.
Originally posted by double_frick
Originally posted by yeahright
Correlation does not imply causality. You'd think they'd know that. Apparently the people doing the study used to get walloped pretty frequently.
well seems more that there is a new agenda to coax parents into coddling their children into criminals.