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Originally posted by Veritas Lux Mea
Yes, but my point is; children are LESS LIKELY to misbehave in the first place if they have all of their needs met.
Love, attention, security, trust.. these are all needs of a child.
Don't fulfill their basic needs? Then OF COURSE they will misbehave.
I say a little prevention goes a long way!
Ensure their needs are well met first, and you'll have a MUCH better child on your hands. And other 'lesser' forms of discipline (like time out) work exceptionally well.
- Mea
Originally posted by HunkaHunka
You fail to see the problem. It's because of the brutish approach to children that our prisons are so full as it is...
[edit on 25-9-2009 by HunkaHunka]
Experience is the best punishment.
There is NEVER a time where you need to hit your child to make him understanding anything. Compassion, love and WORDS can do it far better, regardless of what people wanna say.
Originally posted by Donnie Darko
The obsession with revenge-based justice is one of the main reasons the world is so violent.
Originally posted by eldard
Originally posted by Donnie Darko
The obsession with revenge-based justice is one of the main reasons the world is so violent.
Actually, the lack of obession with revenge-based justice is one of the main reason the world is so violent.
Originally posted by tothetenthpower
She got a little blister and I would have sworn she was going to die the way she went on about it lol. It worked in scaring the other 3 off lol.
~Keeper
Originally posted by tothetenthpower
reply to post by ownbestenemy
Experience is the best punishment.
My daughter put her hand on the stove once, she burned herself, very lightly, since kids have lightning fast reflexes and what not.
She never went to the stove again. I didn't need to "get her attention".
My other 3 learned from her, because when I told them not to touch, she would enforce that command by telling the story of how she burnt her finger.
There is NEVER a time where you need to hit your child to make him understanding anything. Compassion, love and WORDS can do it far better, regardless of what people wanna say.
~Keeper
Originally posted by eldard
reply to post by amazed
And stress also causes longer life as it forces the body to adapt quickly. Which is proven.
Stress symptoms may be affecting your health, even though you might not realize it. You may think illness is to blame for that nagging headache, your frequent forgetfulness or your decreased productivity at work. But sometimes stress is to blame