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posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 08:18 AM
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well i for one have read your links, that pink cross site is awful! I take it as a man of god you don't hold much stock in science but surely the absolute lack of well sourced data made you wonder about the shocking statistics which fill the site? (hehe ok the ones about how many christian men masterbate from that article might be genuin, the others? HA)

The level of science is shocking in those articles, the essay on masterbation being a prime example -it's full of myths which have long since been disproven. What is his goal in eradicating masterbation? hmmm lets see...



Picture a church filled with an army of powerful men who say no to instant gratification and self-centered pleasure; they are warriors with strong hearts who stand firm in the culture of lust and, through the cracks of their weakness allow God’s grace to shine through them to others. They model strength, transparency and integrity to their families and love their wives as Christ called them to. This is the high standard we are challenged to aspire to.
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hehe a church full of men standing firm because they havn't masterbated - sounds kinda hmmmm.......

but my real point is what's happening here is some religious zealot has created some shocking psudo-facts to try and scare people away from the perfectly natural act of self gratification and into church. His selfish fantasy in which he is doing the lords work and will be given eternal gratification as a reward is probably more dangerous than the idle dream of being able to bang some random actress, it has convinced him that it's ok to make up lies, or even worse he doesn't even know he is talking nonsense, his delusion has driven him to think that he KNOWS the truth of the matter and thats that -thus he spreads his ill thought out nonsense with vigor.

Real science or psychology doesn't conclude that masterbation makes you week in body or mind, in fact being in tune with your biological cycles (i.e. not repressed) has been proven to give people stronger immune systems and greater mental alacrity.




posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 08:21 AM
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my girl reads all those girlie mags, cosmo,,people, all those girl mags and such

she showed me an article

guess what the number 1 girl fantasy was

rape scenario's and rough sex''
so go figure art imitates life,,or in this case fantasies


also high on list was having their hair pulled



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 08:47 AM
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Yeah whoever can justify porn..you are just sad people. i am a very open minded person but any woman who is with the man she loves, does NOT want him eye #ing other women. How would you like it if your girl was constantly getting off to dudes? or two dudes #ing? you can try to say you would be okay with it but you can only say that because you know it wont. It does much more than please you for a few seconds. It honestly damages the women involved. We have lost the ability to refrain and respect our significant other enough to not eye # these disgusting ...how can you say you love them? It really is not much different than cheating. What if it was your girlfriend doing the pornos? Would you feel different? Your mother, sister? If not...you should really get some #ing help. Any more it something that is shown to young boys and justified by saying "well all men do it" ..this is not true and they are led to believe its okay, when in reality it makes you anything but a man. I hope you enjoy your childish fantasies. It is not practical and you could leave someone who truly loves you, feeling like they are never going to be good enough. You dont have to be insecure to not want it in your life. Either way..its kind of funny how marriage success rates have dropped insane amounts. and its kind of funny how many #ing perverts are emerging. To the people who enjoy porn, I hope your #ing kids turn out as amazing as you. I hope they learn to disrespect human beings in general, and I hope they get their brains #ed on video for you to see. But im sure you hope the same thing..that sorta thing gets you off, right?



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 10:03 AM
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Hardcore porn is not human suffering....sorry. Your "comparisons" to the "indifferences" are in no way relevant. You tried to make the comparison that people not caring about whether a pornstar's breasts get slapped around and that it might actually hurt her...to how people might not care about their mother getting cancer. LOL.
Try again.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by Davood
To the OP.

How exactly is porn a conspiracy? Hello, we are genetically predisposed to enjoying sex, thinking about it, and seeing it!


+1



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:00 PM
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Did anyone else pleasure themselves after reading the articles? Off to go smoke a cigarette now. How is that for indifference?



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:01 PM
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it really sounds to me like your ole lady busted you looking at porn and this is you way of making a mends.or you found the lord,witch is a fine thing.but it does sound as though you are tring to convince your self as well as others



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:04 PM
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I watch porn, I love it, and personally I could care less what you think about it. Not to mention I live in the San Fernando Valley, the capitol of porn, and I am proud of that too. Have fun being a monk.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:04 PM
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Originally posted by shortywarn
also high on list was having their hair pulled


That depends on what they mean by that...most girls Ive been with like it lightly pulled, not a full blown scalping attempt. So what Im saying is that I wouldnt consider that rough



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:09 PM
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I cannot believe that anyone could honestly think these women are really having a "good time". They are acting for crying out loud. There may be a small percentage that are really into what is going on, but the vast majority of them are simply playing a role. Same thing that hookers do and housewives all over the world.....FAKE IT.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:09 PM
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Take thing in perspective. Those actors are PAID to have sex.
No one force them into porn, they choose it. As an adult, you are responsible of your actions. If you choose to have a career in the porn industry, i Wont have any pity for you.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:19 PM
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I am personally good friends with a few well know porn stars and they absolutely love their jobs. They try and encourage everyone of their friends to get into the business. So it depends on who you talk to.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:23 PM
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If you read the literature and expand your personal experience you would understand we are as a species are genetically predesposed have a sexual DRIVE. That's not equivilant to satisfaction or enjoyment and is the antithisis of intimacy.

Enjoyment has nothing to do with the the sexual drive, anymore than a drug high is safisfying beyond the moment. Porn promotes the pursuit of sexual *drive*as an *activity*. It is the antithesis of intimacy. Intimacy is a challenging but ultimately the PINACLE pursuit.

To submit to those commericial/political pressures (read that: power-over and money interests) that promote sexuality as it's own end are *depriving you* of the better ultimately HUMAN option.

Everytime you jerk off with a porn flick/feed, you are denying yourself a longterm wholeistic satisfaction with a real human being capable of loving you. LOVING YOU. How long can you be "happy" with "continual GRATIFICATION" that lasts maybe 10 minutes? Not very long -- and that's the basis of addiction.

Ladies, WOULD IT NOT BE BEST on first or second dates to gently and kindly screen for porn watchers ? Sex in and by itself is not the answer to good-- let alone great -- relationships.

MK



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by tdatreefrog
I am personally good friends with a few well know porn stars and they absolutely love their jobs. They try and encourage everyone of their friends to get into the business. So it depends on who you talk to.

Like who?
What's it like knowing someone in porn? Have you ever seen them in the porn? Do they care if their friends watch them?

Anyway porn just like everything else in life has positives and negatives. Of course there are plenty of women who enjoy their jobs, they enjoy sex etc. And of course there are some who are confused and scared.

Positives and negatives in everything, for example fire: Fire can help keep us warm, cook our food etc, but it can cause destruction and death. That's the way of life.



[edit on 14-1-2009 by _Phoenix_]



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:38 PM
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i could not care less if they fake it ,the point is how wrong we are to look at it.men are more stimulated visually and women are stimulated emotionaly for the most part .when i view porn im not foolish enough to think she enjoys doing this ,it just like weather or not her breasts are real.WHO CARES.its just candy to me and i dont think any more about it than that.but come to think of it if its porn or prstitution,she being paid to do it weather she enjoys it or not.its a way for us to get what we cant get at home.if someone mate wont stick a floor lamp or a tennisshoe up their backside its o.k cause their is probably a website just for that.the danger is when we start thinking we should expect that in reality.thats all



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:48 PM
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Originally posted by shortywarn
my girl reads all those girlie mags, cosmo,,people, all those girl mags and such

she showed me an article

guess what the number 1 girl fantasy was

rape scenario's and rough sex''
so go figure art imitates life,,or in this case fantasies


also high on list was having their hair pulled


I am all for it.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by redhead57
I cannot believe that anyone could honestly think these women are really having a "good time". They are acting for crying out loud. There may be a small percentage that are really into what is going on, but the vast majority of them are simply playing a role. Same thing that hookers do and housewives all over the world.....FAKE IT.


Not really. Most people in porn absolutely love their job. The people that fall into the category being discussed in the topic as hating it and just doing it for money make one or two movies and never do it again. Regular porn performers are in it because they enjoy it. There is a small percentage that are in it for the money side, but that is a very small percentage because most of the performers don't make very much money. It's only a small number or performers that have big contracts or are in on the production side that have money as a big part of motivation for the job.

[edit on 14-1-2009 by Red Cloak]

[edit on 14-1-2009 by Red Cloak]



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 01:02 PM
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I didn't know you were qualified to decide for them what their views on it is...

And to those who say we're wrong for viewing it...well that's totally fine. Feel free to ignore it. I for one, with my gal, watch it and still don't objectify women. We cannot be the ones who determine if they enjoy it or not...that's up to them so let's not try to decide for them

-Kyo



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 01:12 PM
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What's it like knowing someone in porn? Have you ever seen them in the porn? Do they care if their friends watch them?


It's hard to get turned on by watching someone you know and who you have no intention of having sex with. It's kind of like watching your friends in a school play.

Or maybe i've just seen too many breasts.

Nah, that can't be it.



posted on Jan, 14 2009 @ 01:22 PM
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I think the world of porn as the OP suggests is quickly becoming extinct. There is too much free porn made by your neighbors on the internet that has really crippled the sales for the big porn industry.

Most big time porn now is around porn stars with a large following, and these people make a lot of money doing their trade. If a person wants to watch porn they can get 10 lifetimes of armature porn for free, but if they follow a porn star and her career then they would be willing to pay.

The days of the young innocent girl off the street pushed into porn and drugs is not profitable anymore with the free competition out there.

Now the sex slave trade is alive and well throughout the world and that makes the US porn industry look like Disney. The OP sounds very involved in this, but if I were he/she I would focus my energies towards this, which is truly an evil exploitation of women.

[edit on 14-1-2009 by Xtrozero]



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