Before you watch more porn, you need to know this

Originally posted by MegaBears
I bet those men that would rather just watch porn instead of trying to get into a relationship are the same men that wouldn't bother buying rose petals for the bed and a lit candal path to the bathtub.

O_O

Damn buddy....

That's straight out of like a romantic movie. I've yet to do that.... Nice dinner and such.

Blah why are people still talking about this subject?!!?!?!??! It's a useless discussion.... perverted at that.

I mean come on, you got your people that are addicted to porn, just like people addicted to meth, you can't stop them. There is no guaranteed porno rehabilitation center.

I don't like porn, although I might watch it when I'm bored and have nothing better to do with my life, I'd still rather be with an actual female as any guy should.

Originally posted by shortywarn
humans are pretty loving
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animals rape each other all day long


and as a male species we are engrained with sexual drive and wanting to reproduce

Not all animals shorty.

Certain penguins are monogonus

However they ummm do there giggity goo I don't know but I'm sure they don't rape eachother.

Hi there,

I was thinking, human being supposed to have
only one woman to one man
every body who have two wife is a sinner
and mus be burn in hell for all eternity
and torture day in and day out,
why?

Simply because this world belongs to God
and he owns us, He can do whatever he want on you and me.
And leave no explanation whatsoever.

Maybe you guys have forgotten, There is A GOD!

reply to post by tengkorak


Well hmm.... Considering how spiritual I am, and I do believe in the "Jesus" to an extent.

Lets see if "God" can do anything.


I think you are a butthole God for allowing this world to get this crappy for so long, I think that you should go watch some gay porn and find yourself a nice sock.

Good day.

(edit)

Op. 30 seconds has passed, I'm still here and I doubt I'll be multiplied forth in nothingness for eternity (Book of Enoch).

Why?

Because I think the bible is a way to control your mind. God isn't some person sitting there with a journal writing down whos been naughty or nice.

Although I did get coal in my stocking last year....

[edit on 14-1-2009 by Revolution-2012]

I'm new on this site and i see there's PLENTY of reading up to do, and in the process learning from it. I'm sure i'll be visiting this site alot. I never really knew this about porn. Never thought about it, then again...i don't care ONE BIT for porn neither.

I can't be the only man who simply just doesn't like to watch it at all..oh no wait,i'm sure i am not the only one. My dad and bro feel the same. A friend of mine who i told i simply dislike it asked me if there was something wrong with me. Lol, as far as i know there's not much wrong with me no.

I really just can't see what is so amazing or exciting to watch a dude's genitalia going inside the female's.......it's just way too detailed and all that. Let me just say i DO apreciate girl on girl, but in a very simple way...none of that hardcore #. Thats the stuff i can enjoy, but that's about it.

Anyway....i'm definitely gonna read up on those articles when i get home.

reply to post by Moonwalker1982


I don't know about you but I love hardcore. Honestly I don't think me liking hardcore porn makes me into a bad person. I do not support violence, rape or abuse but if it is some kind of fantasy there is nothing wrong with it. Besides what's wrong with naked body parts? Lesbians alone do not always turn me on because I need a man in a picture to associate myself with my gender.

[edit on 14-1-2009 by stanislav]

reply to post by Revolution-2012


Thank God, God gave us man a penis and women vagina ! Those are tools we can use to enjoy ourselves and procreate our human race!

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i was wondering, like people are doing it like rabbits. but i cant for some reason. people says if i get nakked and most of the time i dont really want too. but most importantly my neighbor says i cant because pda is not acceptable.

reply to post by HiAliens

LOL!! You're comparing "abusive" porn, which is usually an act, unless you're talking about snuff videos....to someone losing their home and/or a mother getting cancer? Give me a break! I don't know anyone who would "LOL" at their mother getting cancer...unless you're a heroin addict...I would think you would be kind of upset. "Hey, my mom has cancer....LOL WHO CARES?!?!"...that just makes no sense. You're comparing raisins to watermelons here.
Not to mention these porn actors get paid good money.

Peepull, peepull, peepull, I see a danger here!

The OP wants us to talk about the dangers of porn, not about how much we adore having sex of all kinds and wasn't it groovy of God, who is such a stick in the mud in so many other ways, to invent sexual pleasure, just so he could watch the antics that ensued.

[edit on 14-1-2009 by ipsedixit]

reply to post by GlossomBoodchild


LOL! I was making a general point about indifference to human suffering. I'm betting you haven't bothered to read any of the links posted. Heart-breaking some of them. Also, a small minority of girls make good money, many get only a few hundred bucks.

Now dance sucka.



[edit on 14-1-2009 by HiAliens]

Originally posted by Revolution-2012
Please, go back to your conspiracy theories and skepticism, this subject should be rightfully closed.

Why are you still here then, youve posted more than anybody has....we get it you dont like porn and you disagree with people that do

Move on...let it go

ok so i've talked about the biological side of the argument, i've been thinking about the other aspects...

i work as a in the live music industry, i can tell you about 90% of people who work behind the scenes at a gig are forced into their position through poverty and desperation, often working long hours for heartless gang bosses who only care about money. As self employed contractors we don't get holiday pay or sick pay, wages are low and the work is hard. Everyone is on drugs of some form, mostly that deadly marijawanna weed which has caused so many high profile deaths and drives innocent white women to cavort in wild jazz parties or the devils own cocain. It's not just the crew, a vast majority of musicians consume large volumes of deadly marry jane and / or cocain before performing. Of course everyone drinks and smokes, parties at illigal rave parties held in abandoned buildings high off their face on Horse Ketamin or designer rave drugs such as MDMA or 2CP and of course wild sex with drunken prostitutes and petite little groupies at each stop on the tour.

Or then again that could be a highly over dramatized version of the truth, my point is my job is quiet like those 'behind the scenes in the porn industry' and i can tell you some of us do it because we can't face a dull 9-5 mundane existence -not everyone is cut out to be a base jumper and not everyone is cut out to wake up at the same time every morning to go into a dull pen pushing factory.

to continue the analogy in a lot of respects the artists are like the porn stars - for a start do you really think they mean it when they say 'IT'S GREAT TO BE IN IOWA!' no, do you think rappers really live in in a WWF style life full of 'beef' and 'bling'? no. Do the bands really care about any of the petty little things they pretend to for the fans, i.e. RAWWK RUELZ? no.

Why is it vital that bands and pornstars lie to fans? simple, most of their fans don't have much life experience and are emotionly underdeveloped so react strongly when their favorite band does something they don't like - the music loving world is fragmented into lots of very tight groups i.e. emo, goth, metalheads, etc. who demand their principles are kept pure -why do they do this? again simple, to cope with the dull pointless life they lead people create fantasy worlds for themselves, to cope with the dullness of the world we have to pretend we're better than it, that we're special. People who attach themselves to a type of music are buying into the pre packaged fantasy; emo kids are hurt souls who suffer because they're sensitive to the pain of the world, rockers are HARDCORE!!!!!!!!!11, fire brand preachers desperate to send everyone to hell are 'doing gods work'

We all want to escape our mundane life, to pretend we're something special - the only one that understands, the hero of the story - we're all Peer Quint, raised on fairy tales paupers dreaming like princes, hunting out our princess but heading for the button maker.

Of course not everyone gets sucked up in the fantasy they're trying to sell, some people use the visual stimulation to que their imagination into creating a more personally grounded fantasy.

My question to you would be have you researched or looked into other types of realtionships and bonding that do not involve porn as a stimulant. Perhaps it would be possible to achieve an even greater love for your spouse without the use of porn.

That is a darn fair question and I am happy to answer.

First let me say I may have misled a bit. We do this only once in a great while so that is my fault for not clarifying those terms. Yes we have indeed looked into everything and we try everything. We enjoy exploration. Now I don't want to gross anyone out with details but she really enjoys rough things, other girls, it's just part of her so I like to give her what pleases her. There is no way to explore the depths of my adoration and passion for her.

I will grant one thing here though. Love does come first, sex is a byproduct. Either way I have little sympathy as well seeing as they made these choices.

Man I love that woman :-p

-Kyo

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i think im gonna jump over to [snip]and study for myself


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[edit on 14-1-2009 by dbates]

Originally posted by tengkorak
I was thinking, human being supposed to have
only one woman to one man

What are you basing that on? Certainly isn't human physiology.

every body who have two wife is a sinner
and mus be burn in hell for all eternity
and torture day in and day out,
why?

Simply because this world belongs to God
and he owns us, He can do whatever he want on you and me.
And leave no explanation whatsoever.

Originally posted by GlossomBoodchild
reply to post by HiAliens

 

! I don't know anyone who would "LOL" at their mother getting cancer...unless you're a heroin addict...I would think you would be kind of upset. "Hey, my mom has cancer....LOL WHO CARES?!?!"...that just makes no sense.
.

why does a heroin addict not care

that's so unfair

i bet even a heroin addict would be upset,,,,,in fact he may be hooked on H because he found out his mom had cancer and couldn't cope

and don't belittle heroin addicts

do you know how many people are addicted to,,,or just take heroin of a diiferent name on a daily basis---called morphine,,oxycontin, percusset etc etc

leave all heroin addicts alone

hey what about heroin addicted porn stars??????

What if you're not married? What if you've been in MANY relationships, and have yet to find true love? What if you've never fallen in love? Are those of us who haven't felt love for someone just supposed to sit around, and not think about sexual thoughts, fantasies, desires, etc? Are we supposed to find "half-ass" women just so we can have sex with them, so we wont have to "support the porn industry"? What about people who are afraid of STDs?

Just because you don't like something, doesn't mean its wrong. These pornstar actors have a choice of being in the movies if they want to. They also have a choice of what kind of sex they will have on camera. Just because its rough, and sounds like its hurting them(and may well be), doesn't mean they aren't enjoying it. And if they're not, then why do you care? Its THEIR choice to be in the movie. They're not sold into slavery, they do it for money, and can retire any day they want. I'm extremely afraid of heights, but if someone paid me enough to work on a skyscraper, I just may consider it if it paid well. Do you see how that works?

People die everyday over oil, and yet, I bet you're gassing up your car. Please, porn is at the very bottom of things you should even try to consider worthy.

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To the OP.

How exactly is porn a conspiracy? Hello, we are genetically predisposed to enjoying sex, thinking about it, and seeing it!

This thread should be moved to BTS imho; or at least to one of the many religion forums.

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