I was posting on one of the "porn industry bailout" threads, becoming more aware of the filth that is porn.
I used to think before, "hey, it's ok. It's just sex, it's natural." Something like that. Then, yesterday, I started looking more into the
porn industries abuse of women, and pretty much the degradation of both men and women.
Before, I somehow thought some of these porn actors enjoyed the pain of things like hard sex. That may be the case for some, but many of the women
just don't enjoy it. In fact, you may be hurt by some of the stories of abuse that have occurred in the porn industry.
When you watch a porn, this is what you pretty much see, a pretty smiling girl covered in man goo. She smiles, but much of the time it's fake. You
think she enjoys this. You don't see the pain, well actually you might if you actually took the time to look at some of the girls faces, or in their
eyes, when they momentarily are "out of character." You can see pain, maybe even emotions like fear. I actually noticed this in some of the films
in the past.
Porn doesn't have a damn thing to do with love, or a healthy sexual relationship. It's BS. It's a lie. Think about it. You throw two or more
people together, maybe they don't even like each other, and you tell them to get erections, get horny, and make hot sex with each other, thus making
a porn video. From the start, something is already wrong with this. This is beyond acting. This is beyond trying new sexual positions.
And, how does watching this make you closer to your significant other? I mean, doesn't your significant other turn you on? The truth is, your wife
should be attractive to you already, and vice versa. You're essentially having sex with a fantasy, not your wife, not your husband. How does this
bring you closer together?
I based a lot of what I know about sex on porn movies. Now I have all these sexual memories of porn that are now pretty much trash. How can I get
satisfaction from such a thing, when I know someone could be hurting on the other end? Why would I ever want to watch it again?
To get through, porn actors are largely on drugs, drink a lot, smoke a lot, stuff like that.
So, here are some links. I want you to think real hard about the content in these links before you put in another porn movie. Someone on the other
end, in porn land, could be suffering. All so you can get off on it. Make your choice wisely.
Some of this is graphic, and adult oriented, so be advised. It may be disturbing, so again, you are advised. The stories are worth the read, though.
You need to get the reality of things.