Originally posted by kosmicjack
So many times on T.V. or in a movie the couples are horribly inequitable. Gorgeous girl. Dumpy guy. It's infuriating. As if just any average joe can
pick up a hot chick. Has anyone else noticed this?
[edit on 4/8/2008 by kosmicjack]
Why yes, yes I have.
My best friend is one of the most attractive girls I've ever met. Her boyfriend (who she's been with since she was 12 or 13) is possibly one of the
ugliest. And not even remotely good to her.
That's more of an issue of dependancy, but still, it started at some point, and most men she meets calling her gorgeous and her own boyfriend never
doing the same hasn't clued her in.
Poor girl, if you're stuck with someone you can't show off, they should at least be a good person...
Then again most people don't understand my relationship choices.
I like a little chubb. Not big enough to crush me, but skinny boney guys aren't very comfy to cuddle with.
I've had quite a few arguments with one person online who claims that "hot" guys have to settle for "fat whores" becase there aren't enough
But I never see that...
Larger women (I don't mean average made to seem big from media hyping scrawny, I mean clinically overweight and noticeably big) tend to be single
more than larger men, as far as I've seen.
But who am I to make blanket statements...People of both genders can appreciate and/or settle for larger/less attractive mates.
[edited to add because i remembered another thing right as i hit submit]
Women can, and do, watch porn too.
And let's not forget silly romance novels that are completely unrealistic.
And I don't have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn.
And I can safely say it can't POSSIBLY have lowered his sex drive (if it had, he'd be sexing in his sleep
As long as he's watching porn with unattainable girls that is, I wouldn't be so agreeable if it was a girl who was in his stats class, or down the
hall in his dorm.
I don't expect him to think of me every time, just as I know I'm not thinking of him every time. People need variety, and space to fantasize,
especially considering the subject matter.
There's some things I just can't do! (like have big boobs, and stretch that far, lol)
[edit on 4-8-2008 by BiohazardsBack]