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Topic started on 4-8-2008 @ 09:02 PM by kosmicjack
I thought this was a fantastic article by Naomi Wolfe on the surprising effect of porn on our society. It touches on issues of beauty, intimacy and power, as well as the constantly raised bar of sexual imagery. I am interested to know if men think this is an accurate portrayal of the current situation. As a woman, I know many of my friends have felt the detrimental effects of porn in their relationships. I am also wondering about how this could possibly be reversed. Will people become just utterly saturated with it? Will it eventually become passé? I hope so.

The Porn Myth

The onslaught of porn is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women, and leading men to see fewer and fewer women as “porn-worthy.” Far from having to fend off porn-crazed young men, young women are worrying that as mere flesh and blood, they can scarcely get, let alone hold, their attention.

Here is what young women tell me on college campuses when the subject comes up: They can’t compete, and they know it. For how can a real woman—with pores and her own breasts and even sexual needs of her own (let alone with speech that goes beyond “More, more, you big stud!”)—possibly compete with a cybervision of perfection, downloadable and extinguishable at will, who comes, so to speak, utterly submissive and tailored to the consumer’s least specification…

But does all this sexual imagery in the air mean that sex has been liberated—or is it the case that the relationship between the multi-billion-dollar porn industry, compulsiveness, and sexual appetite has become like the relationship between agribusiness, processed foods, supersize portions, and obesity? If your appetite is stimulated and fed by poor-quality material, it takes more junk to fill you up. People are not closer because of porn but further apart; people are not more turned on in their daily lives but less so.



[edit on 6-8-2008 by Skyfloating]


reply posted on 4-8-2008 @ 09:35 PM by kosmicjack
reply to post by _Phoenix_



We hear ya, but the reality is most women who are opting for surgery are doing it to compete with porn images.

By the way KTK, what a sad story about that Australian couple. I'm sure their intimacy levels are pretty low, imagine how self-conscious the poor girl is - 24/7.


reply posted on 4-8-2008 @ 09:48 PM by whiteraven
PORN:

Guess what ladies watch porn too!!lol

I was in Las Vegas, 5 years, every January for the CES show.

At the same time that the CES show was on the Porn "Academy Awards" are on.

I have been able to meet a few porn stars...me and my wife that is.

When we were in the
www.venetian.com... Hotel we met Ron Jeremy and his entourage.

He posed for pictures with us, then we had a chat.

He escorted us into one of the events, which, as I look back on it, was really not that much different then any other convention I was at.

Well, to conclude, I still do not have a big taste for porn. Most of the people I have spoken too in the industry seem to be business people....the girls and the guys....and the GIRLS seem to rule the industry now with big money being paid to some of the top models. They do it for money. (and its a easy gig)

Again...trying to conclude my view at this moment..although my views evolve...after a while the act of sex for people in that industry begins to be just work.

In the words of HST...concerning sex...

The only other important thing to be said about Fear & Loathing at this time is that it was fun to write, and that's rare — for me, at least, because I've always considered writing the most hateful kind of work. I suspect it's a bit like #ing — which is fun only for amateurs. Old whores don't do much giggling. Nothing is fun when you have to do it — over and over, again and again — or else you'll be evicted, and that gets old


So maybe porn does steal some of the magic if its your work.

I myself prefer the real thing...with my old lady..safe and fun!


reply posted on 4-8-2008 @ 09:52 PM by Lecter
reply to post by kosmicjack



Women dont get breast implants to compete with porn, they get implants because they want attention. I know quite a few women with fake ones and their personality changes after the op, its like "look at me everyone, i got boobs!"


reply posted on 4-8-2008 @ 10:00 PM by kosmicjack
reply to post by Lecter



They want attention because the men are all watching porn.

KTK, interesting story. I do think there is a lot to be said about feminine mystique. What you can't see is often more titillating than what you can see. After all, it's the chase that makes the capture so much more fun.


reply posted on 4-8-2008 @ 10:17 PM by thegdfather
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My friend tried to get me to watch that, as soon as I saw the red cup I left the room and from what I've heard I made a wonderful decision.
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