Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander

You cant let society, or any other person define success for you. Thats the real wisdom in your statement that; "I feel like if I didn't care about anything, I could accomplish anything." If you care about what you internally "know" is important to YOU, and you do not waste your time caring what other people say is important, you CAN be a great success.

Let me rephrase that, "I feel like if I didn't care about anything, I could DO anything"
But you see I do care about people, and so this would not make me happy anyway. So doing whatever I want without mercy won't make me happy, unless I have no feelings left, unless I become numb to the world.

Trust me I don't let society or any person define success for me, actually I actually don't give a crap what people think about me.

That's why I have never been a sheep, I never blindly followed people around in when in school, never went along with what they did or want just because I was worried what they think, I always did what I wanted, always said what I thought. That's one thing I will never be, a sheeple.

So as you see I already know what your trying to say, and I agree.

Peace.



[edit on 21-8-2008 by _Phoenix_]

Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander


If you are already happy being who you are, you are already on the top and you didnt have to do any of that.

It was how you were defining the "top" that I was responding to, not the use of the word accomplish or do.

Yeah I get it, I was defining top as top in a business, company, politics etc.
Not really as top in happiness or life etc.

[edit on 21-8-2008 by _Phoenix_]

Originally posted by _Phoenix_
Yeah I get it, I was defining top as top in a business, company, politics etc. Not really as top in happiness or life etc.

Success in business is primarily an emotional trait, not really tied to high iq. The drive, the emotional attitude that "they can do it", the lack of skepticism, and the desire to win without worrying about other people are key factors.

And yeah, I often wish I had a different emotional makeup as there are so many fools that become so successful, it is frustrating at times.

And once again a feminist article bashing the male persuasion making women want to burn their bras and take to the streets.

This kind of garbage makes me sick sick sick

In my opinion we as men latch onto these women in pornographic material due to their sexual confidence. We as men looooonnnnnngggg for women who are confident in themselves and in their bodies to be as sexually free as we are.

We dont want our girlfriends to be shy and shut off to the idea of dressing up in sexy attire, communicating during intercourse (dirty talking) and watching them in the act with the lights fully on.

Just as a woman loves men with confidence, we love women who are also confident.

And sorry to say, but a woman with breast implants are more sexy because of the confidence boost they get once they go through with it.

And here is what I think about breast implants.

I, as a man, am extremely jelous that I cannot do something to myself such as (implants) that will benefit me in life.

Think about it...Every job interview, every class you take, every store you walk into...you will be noticed over any other woman in the place. Why? Because you went out, spent 6000 bucks and had two pieces of silicon filled with salt water swelling off your chest...its sad but true.

You walk into a dealership to buy a car...you will prolly get a better deal.

You go to get a loan at a bank.

You are at your local subway...can you throw in some cookies too? ( . ) ( . )

As with the whole porn thing...like I said before...we love a woman who is confident in her body to be as forward as these women in the industry.

I would bet the world would be a better place if women were as sexually driven as men...or at least as vocal about it.

only dumb guys would compare a woman to a porn phantasy.

porn is the sexy face of the NWO.