major, i feel your pain, literally. my sons mother puts me through this same stuff.
she basicaly does everything anti what i want/believe in...
she too pumps his head with all kinds of crap about me.
he is almost 11 and we have been split up for about 8 years and she talks horribly about me to him..
little stuff that ads up...just last week, he brought his playstation over to my house and we were playing guitar hero 2...it was like monday and he
was going to leave it here so that i could work on unlocking a buckethead song so he could play it on tuesday.
she gets there to pick him up, asks him where the playstation is and he tells her. she then tells him, actually yells at him to get it and bring it
home cause if he leaves it here, i am gonna sell it..
wtf is that? just outta nowhere you know....telling the kid i am gonna sell his gear....
i don't want to pollute your thread with my goings on but i am dealing with it too. i have a support order but no visitation rights. the don't deal
with that....you have to get a lawyer.
my ex too has a way of putting on this very humble, quiet face when other people are around but the real her, she is a monster and people around are
just starting to see.
my mother and her were like best friends which really bugged me cause we got on so terrible. well, a year ago my sons mom found her an older boyfriend
and has basically abandoned my mother..my mother was the only one there for her..not her mom, not her dad...
she used to bring my son over to my moms all the time but now now.....
now why is this? cause she is all wrapped up in her new man...
now, she fights with me still. she fights with our son all the time and she figts with her new BF. they have been together a year and have 'broke
up" about 10 times already....i call up and she is bawling cause he packed his gear and left.....all the while, my son sees them fighting and
he calls me up and holds the phone out so i can hear them yelling.....he says when her BF is there she ignores him or yells at him...
now, people are finally starting to see her personality.
she asks me what is the deal...why can't she get on with our son or whatever and i can't get it through her head that the common problem here is
i have been married for 4 years, together for over 5 and my relationship is great. hers has been on the rocks since day one...
in short, she is a psycho....
she likes to make things up..
one day last week she picked him up and we were talking....she and my son was in her car, in my driveway.....she started yelling at me and at my son.
he started to cry so i opened the car door and told him to get out and sit on the porch so we were not yelling over him.
as soon as i opened the door she starts SCREAMINg and wrapping on the horn....screaming to let them leave and to stop holding them there 'against
see what i mean? as soon as she decides she has had enough, it is drama time. best part is, i have cameras on my front and back door, with mics on
them so the entire time it was going on, my wife was inside watching/listening to us.
it has gotten to the point that every time we talk, i have a small digital voicer recorder in my pocket.
another fast one to kinda give you an idea of how she is.
after we broke up, her car broke down. she called me(still does to this day with car trouble) and i towed it from walk mart to my house. i told her
that in the morning, the first thing i would do is fix her car....so, i get up, i fix the car....i call her and tell her it is ready and she DEMANDS i
bring it to her.
i tell her no and she flips out and threatens to call the police and tell them that i stoled the car....
catch my drift??
i think my ex and your ex would get along wonderful major.....maybe we should hook them up with each other and they will cancel each others insanity