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Originally posted by prote
if I told myself something for 15 years, how ingrained would that become?
Originally posted by saint4god
Uhm, I don't "tell myself" anything. That would be retarding.
Funny you should bring that up. There is debate even within church walls to say who instigated the meeting. Was it me when I asked for help or was it Him by letting me do some stupid things?
What else do I struggle with... here's one, as there are many, that is along a similar vein. Last night I had to administer discipline to my child. I love my child and had no wish nor desire to see pain come to my kid, nor tears from kid's eyes. But, all other discussions, lectures, forms of discipline had been exhausted. Sometimes doing the right thing can be painful. This explains the cliche "this is going to hurt me more than it's going to hurt you."
I think "can't" is a swear word though and try not to use it. A phrase that defines "can't" for me is "I feel defeated and because of that will no longer try". This is the opposite of "with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible".
I don't see God as that much of a micro-manager.
"Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.' - Matthew 5:42
That does not happen to me. It might for other people but for this "coincidence" to happen on the very same day out of my 70 plus, minus years is strange indeed. I'm trying to incorporate giving wherever I see opportunities now spending more than ten percent towards these things in various places and even though the bills say I should be several hundred dollars in the hole, it always balances out...sometimes even being ahead. Looking at the numbers it makes little sense. This coming from someone who has been in the banking industry for almost ten years now.
I'm beginning to wonder about the comprehension of the suicidal mind. Counselling would not have done the trick for me, sorry.
Another benefit I'd received was inner strength though it was not by my doing.
Faith in... what?
What history did Christianity "rewrite"?
Show me then how "love your neighbor" is the wrong thing to do and we'll talk.
Mr."can't make that leap of faith" is telling others to let go? Please.
Clarify.
He disagreed though and pursued like a lawyer upon someone who reneged on a contract.
Originally posted by Prote
Are you able to disclose what it was you wanted? and got.
Yes, by U2U if you promise not to do the same thing. I have very few regrets, but one of them is discussing this and someone else making the same mistake. I haven't seen him recover and worry still about him.
I do so not because it is secret or confidential, but because I have seen what happens when a person got so curious that they decided to validate it from themselves.
I'm beginning to wonder about the comprehension of the suicidal mind. Counselling would not have done the trick for me, sorry. Neither would any amount of self-inflation. It' was for me superficial nonsense and I was sick of it.
Don't you think as a non-believe I would have tried to save myself?
Therefore the gift of a miracle is greater than winning a million dollars.
If you say you've never heard God speaking to you before, I'll say that indeed He has been (and yes I know this), now all we have to do is check your connection to make sure you're hearing it.
Now, if you're asking what YOUR next step should be
then I think I can be of some help.
I believe God wants us to understand Him. I also believe we are incapable of comprehending God at once or in totale. It may occur postmortem but I don't know.
Well, of course, I haven't witnessed anything so can't readily agree.
On the contrary, it just wasn't labeled properly.
There's the miracle that I'm still alive. It's hard to describe but I was heading to self-destruction and required an actual change of course to stop it. I "saw" that end coming and was yanked from it. An object in motion will remain in motion unless acted upon by an outside force. Newton's laws describe a bit about how we think and act many times, not just a physical universe.
I know I know if I have so much proof, why don't I share it? I can't. It's my proof and if no-one else experiences it, they couldn't possibly consider it their own. What I can do is help others obtain theirs.
If I can help establish that link, you can tap into getting all the answers you like.
I didn't mean it in a demeaning way, I meant it in a perspective way. God has given us remarkable capabilities
How can you say "no-one has any clue what the truth is"? That would mean that not only do you know everyone but also you know what's inside their head AND heart. Quite a bold statement coming from a mere human.
I also hope there's no-one of Chinese ethnicity reading this thread, else they should have something to say about the misnomer.
Otherpeopletian
with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible
Originally posted by Shadowflux
Bah, atheists, who needs them.
Originally posted by Shadowflux
Too bad they don't realize that even they are already saved.
Originally posted by Prote
Sorry. To clarify, my point here is that humans are easily programmable, and by design, I think.
Originally posted by Prote
Manufactured? (I am currently researching this at the moment). A human being told anything repetetively over a period of time, regardless of source, will have an effect, and a deep rooted one. Hence also my American Idol analogy. I wasn't saying this was true for you, just demonstrating how easy it can be to get people to believe things that to others, simply are not true. Both think they have the truth. One of them MUST be incorrect.
Originally posted by Prote
I understand that it is your later experiences that allowed you to see the past more clearly. I also understand that you know that I (or any agnostic) would find this among the most challenging to let go.
Originally posted by Prote
For myself, I can't see it happening but that's not to say it wouldn't in the future.
Originally posted by Prote
You were allowed to do stupid things in order to what? to find God? and the true path?
Originally posted by Prote
Would this then imply that he purposefully ran you through the crap so you could see? i.e. this is gonna hurt you more than me, cruel to be kind etc.
Originally posted by Prote
What of those that have been to the depths of despair and still are not converted to Christianity?
Originally posted by Prote
What if they find a different God, a different truth with a different path and message?
Originally posted by Prote
I don't believe the stupid things you did were unavoidable, sorry.
Originally posted by Prote
Granted, I don't know what they were but perhaps my imagination has limits to what an individual human can endure. If 5 Christians and 5 Agnostics were in the same terrible ordeal, would you expect the Christians to come out better off, less harmed emotionally?
Originally posted by Prote
What if it were you and I under torture, would you stake a wager as to who cracks first?
Originally posted by Prote
How would Christianity help you over my agnostic beliefs?
Originally posted by Prote
Am I missing the point? If I am, is inner strength that we discussed previously not the main benefit?
Originally posted by Prote
I don't wish to get into the old chestnut of how to discipline children. Im ok with whatever you see fit. Your life, your kid. I highlighted this for a different reason, that highlighted in bold. You pick me up for using the word can't here...
Originally posted by Prote
The reason I discussed the suicides is because I agree, wholeheartedly. This sentiment is core to what I believe and the reason I believe I have not found the same path as you and billions have before me. This is exactly what you said when you found God, "I can't". You had exhausted all possibilities, you said it yourself. That's not to say there weren't any. Never say never, you said that too.
Originally posted by Prote
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that it is wrong to give in and if God finds you or vice versa and that helps you, great! My point is that those who are in that situation and DIDN'T say I can't, will not find God. At least, they won't find him that way. Correct?
Originally posted by Prote
This was an issue for me to grasp. I don't want to say I can't, I don't believe in it
Originally posted by Prote
and I think this is how most find their faiths. So, by definition, I can never experience what you did in terms of finding God.
Originally posted by Prote
It will either never work or it would have to be a different way. What do you think?
Originally posted by Prote
I know you won't agree but I do believe that you also agree with these "I can't" statements.
Originally posted by Prote
I don't believe you practice this the way you believe you do. But I do believe that you believe that you do.
Originally posted by Prote
It is possible that you may come back with the argument that those people haven't reached that level, hence not found God. What I mean is that how would you know you hit the bottom if you clawed your way out?
Originally posted by Prote
I suppose the same could be said for finding God. How do you know that if you didn't sink further, there is something even greater?
Originally posted by Prote
Where did God come from in the first place?
Originally posted by Prote
However, I would still accept that that argument holds some validity but not a lot.
Originally posted by Prote
Many people find their faith simply by being raised within that environment. No depths of despair there. How do these people get proof? There are billions of them. Perhaps my research on programming will answer this.
Originally posted by Prote
(In response to my question that you believe he interacts with me but I don't know about it). I understand what you say but you side stepped the question.
Originally posted by Prote
You have personal interaction and/or communication or have done. I don't need to put a label on it, I just wanted to know if you felt that he was involved in what I do somehow, I don't care to what level.
Originally posted by Prote
If he is, then there must be some way of tapping into God without being driven to despair.
Originally posted by Prote
You said yourself, you found God and then started getting back into the Bible and the scriptures and it was 15 years before stepping back into a church.
Originally posted by Prote
So is it possible to find God if you do NOT fit ANY of the following criteria;
1. You are in despair, suicidal etc as previously discussed.
2. You are raised within that environment and teachings.
3. The teachings of the faith draw you at some point in your life and you wilfully subscribe to their way.
Are there any others?
Originally posted by Prote
Can you lend me a few thousand bucks? Thanks.
Originally posted by Prote
Some of your analogies are excellent! Some confuse because they relate to things that can be easily disproved. This is clearly a perception issue...makes me wonder. This is not an analogy though, this is a real life example. Numbers won't just meld to hide a loss unless they are fiddled. It will only balance if you account for the expenditure but i'm not getting into that, I'm no banker but I am a businessman. However, you ARE a banker.
Originally posted by Prote
I don't highlight this to pick holes in you, I do this to pick holes in the discussion. I accept that there are occurences that may not be explained by any human means and that it if you accept it as God, then you will find God?
Originally posted by Prote
You are seeing God in many, many, many places, the above being one such example. I don't deny for a second that this is, indeed exactly the explanation for many of these things but I am proposing that many of them aren't. The above is simply an example of one such instance that isn't.
Originally posted by Prote
Counselling did do the trick for you. You were counselled by God. Sorry.
Originally posted by Prote
(and yourself. even though you may not admit it). Counselling is not turning up to a beige room for an hour once a week.
Originally posted by Prote
[sigh] You can you know, you really can! Even if I concede that God saved you, you still had to be willing at some point. You still made a positive decision. I don't know why this is so hard to grasp. You can keep your God and still be capable, surely?
Originally posted by Prote
I have faith in many things, the main ones are...
1. That a creator/supreme being(s), God, is watching over us and has a plan.
2. That I have, and always will have, the strength to cope with every situation I face.
3. That I have a Soul.
4. That selflessness is the key to pass judgement.
5. That life is eternal.
6. That Everything will be alright!
Originally posted by Prote
I did not mean that. History is not to be trusted. The further back you go, the more distorted things become. Victors of battles rewrite what happened or they record events to suit themselves, to their own agenda. Vast quantities of information gets destroyed, even more gets stifled and suppressed. Christianity is among many other "things" that has been around throughout all this time. We only got the printing press, what, 400 years ago? I can't begin to imagine the distortions that have taken place throughout the WHOLE WORLD in the last 2000 years. Christianity is also simply now too vast a subject to easily interpret therefore there are many infractions, interpretations and branches.
Originally posted by Prote
I just think updating it and bringing it in line with today would be a massive benefit, kids just aren't interested, it's boring and folk like myself can't join the club because we already have strength.
Originally posted by Prote
Despite our belief in God, he won't answer the phone.
Originally posted by Prote
All religions talk this way.
Originally posted by Prote
It is not the wrong message and is absolutely the right message.
Originally posted by Prote
It's another old chestnut, I know but forgive me. I could give you a dozen or so pretty nasty personal experiences. I won't single out christianity because other religions were involved in my holding a viewpoint that such a wonderful message is taught yet a vast percentage of all life's horror's (that I encountered) had a recurring theme, usually around some belief or another that had me shocked and puzzled.
Originally posted by Prote
Child abuse, honor killings, murder, rape, pedophilia, war, power, corruption and the like is another discussion entirely and I know that all levels of society have bad eggs. I don't believe that you, for example, would ever do anything remotely so awful but if just ONE person who truly knew the path that you speak of committed any of these appalling type of acts, then, well, I'm just speechless and each and every one of them is a big fat raspberry in the face of all that it stands for.
Originally posted by Prote
I live a decent, moral, selfless as I can lifestyle and yet God is very 'pally' with some pretty disgusting miscreants,
Originally posted by Prote
but I, who feel as enlightened as you do, am not invited to the club.
Originally posted by Prote
Unless you're confusing what I suggest you let go of.
Originally posted by Prote
If any of my ramblings are anywhere near correct then there is a vast portion of every religion that really doesn''t understand the nature of the truths that you speak. Surely, many (enter religion here) will shout about and debate their faith from the rooftops but some of them surely lie about their faith or experience because I find it a bitter pill to swallow to think that someone who is in direct contact with God somehow, would even consider committing any such atrocity. (hence hypocrisy).
Originally posted by Prote
Therefore I conclude that this portion of the respective community are dishonest.
Originally posted by Prote
They don't really know or understand what it is they believe and these "misguided" portion tear at the fabric of the message these religions try to promote. Just looking around it seems that fewer are adopting these mainstream ideologies.
Originally posted by Prote
What happens when no-one is able to make these leaps anymore? What would happen if Christianity just fizzled out? Would he wipe us all out and start again? There has to be another way if it's true.
Originally posted by Prote
Letting go is to do with honesty. If everyone was totally forthright in communicating what they truly believed, we could clear some of the murk.
Originally posted by Prote
If you are honest with yourself, you realise that you can! You will realise that God doesn't simply adapt mathematics to allow you to give to the needy. That doesn't mean he doesn't do other wonderful things in your life.
Originally posted by Prote
That's not something I will submit to. Come on, what are you saying?
Originally posted by Prote
Try me. I promise I will resist temptation.
Originally posted by Prote
If you reverse this statement by saying it about Christianity, I reckon it would upset a few.
Originally posted by Prote
I would like to call religion superficial nonsense, but I have refrained from doing so. upto now.
Originally posted by Prote
Yes. and I'm not denying you tried. You still gave up. You still said "I can't". That word you don't like that's like a swear word.
Originally posted by Prote
You missed the point completely.
Originally posted by Prote
If you "know" this, then that's fact, not faith.
Originally posted by Prote
ok, how do I 'tune in'?
Originally posted by Prote
I am. But I don't want any of the church and bible stuff, is that possible?
Originally posted by Prote
ok, but let's give it a bit longer. you may change your mind. I'm really not convinced you are more enlightened than I and I think you are far further into your faith than most so I wonder about their convictions but I digress. I wouldn't like to rule out the possibility that your perceptions are a tad misted but this conversation is enlightening in itself in many respects.
Originally posted by Prote
you don't know?
Originally posted by Prote
How can you say that you are incapable (again, I can't!!) of comprehending?
Originally posted by Prote
You talk to him, communicate with him. I don't want to go round in circles...
Originally posted by Prote
I have issue with your labelling system. See: Money Management.
Originally posted by Prote
You are using Newton to describe finding God.
Originally posted by Prote
If this is true, then you can't make a decision without Gods intervention.
Originally posted by Prote
Saint, either you are completely pulling my chain with this or you are contradicting yourself, regularly.
Originally posted by Prote
But you have demonstrated that your proofs are not really very concrete. Unless all the smoking gun's are locked up in the personal detail. I guess this is a question, kinda.
Originally posted by Prote
What would that entail? I may already have more answers than you think.
Originally posted by Prote
Apparently, and by your own admission, he hasn't given you any!
Originally posted by Prote
Yes, good point. I concede that it is inaccurate for me to make this statement. I retract it. Would you like me to provide a list of your bold statements?
Originally posted by Prote
No offence intended. Apologies if any was taken. It is a description for messages being twisted as they pass from person to person.
Originally posted by Prote
I thought that was common knowledge and the reference to the chinese, well, I honestly don't know if there is actually any connection. What would be your motivation for pointing that out? I'm a little disappointed.
Originally posted by Prote
Otherpeopletian
Whats that? I did a search and zip.
Originally posted by Prote
with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible
All things are possible. Thats all.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
If God cures all with cancer then I'd deem that worthy of praise..
Making a little bit of swelling go away on someone's leg? And this is the same God that supposedly created the whole universe, yet when it comes to miracles he's only able to cure little tumors or a bit of a swolen leg?
I mean come on.. Are you kidding? I don't see that as anything devine. Heck, put some TCP on it and it'll be alright.
Originally posted by saint4God
Great - Creating the universe.
Originally posted by saint4God
Small - Pain from an undiagnosable swollen foot.
Originally posted by saint4God
I'd put the brain tumor in between as malignant brain tumors often lead to a painful death.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Then why not rid the world of cancer and do something truly amazing?
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Yeah, it's what my Dad died of.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
I fail to understand why God can create a universe, yet allow millions to die of diseases that technically could be heald by the power of prayer.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Why heal a swollen foot? To what aid is that?
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Why not heal a person that can't walk, can't see etc etc etc..
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Healing a swollen foot is not devine..
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Healing the world of cancer or aids would be..
Originally posted by shaunybaby
To God that should be a walk in the park.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
So why the heck is he spending his time healing swollen feet?
Originally posted by saint4God
You're assuming a bunch of things that may not be true. Firstly, that what you think is best for the universe is indeed what is best for the universe. Second, that God does not what the best for us. Third, God is doing the wrong thing by permitting painful things to happen. Ad infinitum. He tells us His ways are not our ways, His thoughts are not our thoughts. If it is indeed an inhibitory question, then I'd recommend asking Him yourself. You'll get your answer, but need to be patient and accept the form for which He wishes to communicate it. I have a few links that explain why God lets bad things happen, but doubt it is as convincing as God Himself.
Originally posted by saint4God
The power of prayer submits to the authority of God. Ultimately He gets to say and knows the purposes thereof. We can only request and be thankful for what we have.
Originally posted by saint4God
Apparently per the mail I quoted was so that Sean could proclaim the good news to friends, family, doctors and anyone else who would listen to the miracle. Why heal someone who is going to thank science?
Originally posted by saint4God
This did happen in the Bible and happens still today. That's what I'm demonstrating.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Healing the world of cancer or aids would be..
Originally posted by saint4God
And you don't believe this is happening...why? I've shown one (and there are many many many more) case.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
You couldn't be further from what I was trying to say..
I was trying to point out that curing all cancer would be truly great..
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Curing cancer and curing a swollen ankle, is no different to God. They're both as easy to accomplish as each other, as this is God. There's nothing too difficult, and nothing impossible for God.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Hence, why not just cure all cancer?
Originally posted by saint4God
Surely Jesus said that if you pray then God will listen.
Originally posted by saint4God
So long as the prayer isn't 'Give me a million dollars' and that the prayer is unselfish, then it will be answered. Then surely if you prayed for there to be no more cancer in the world, it should therefore be answered by God. His answer should be to cure all cancer.
Originally posted by saint4God
The reason this doesn't happen though is not because God is made up, false, imaginary, it's because God apparently made the concious decision not to cure all cancer..
Originally posted by saint4God
A swollen ankle going away is now a miracle?
Originally posted by saint4God
Stretching it a bit aren't you?
Originally posted by saint4God
Are you that desperate for a miracle that you've turned to healing swollen ankles to proclaim God's devinity?
Originally posted by saint4God
If it happens and did happen, then why do we still have deaf people, blind people, people who can't walk, and so on..
Originally posted by saint4God
If what you're demonstrating is true, then God chooses to cure 'some' people, yet let other people just 'get on with it'. Why then cure some people, but not all of them.
Originally posted by saint4God
That's like a doctor coming in a room and saying to two people who need the same operation otherwise they'll die.. ''right, we can only operate on one of you, that one will live, and the other will die..
Originally posted by saint4God
so who's heads and who's tails''..
Originally posted by shaunybaby
You said you've lost relatives to cancer, and so have I. So surely that demonstrates, if anything, that God's obviously not working hard enough to cure it..
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Or maybe we're just not praying hard enough.. EVERYONE DOWN ON YOUR KNEES NOW!
Originally posted by saint4God
That's a good question...to ask Him. I wouldn't be surprise though if He gives the same answer He has already given which is "My thoughts are not your thoughts, My ways are not your ways." I take it to mean there's a bigger plan that we cannot see.
Originally posted by saint4God
If you had a child with that attitude, would you grant their requests?
Originally posted by saint4God
It is for him. As previously quoted, things great and small.
Originally posted by saint4God
It wasn't MY e-mail, I merely quoted it.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
If it happens and did happen, then why do we still have deaf people, blind people, people who can't walk, and so on..
Originally posted by saint4God
We had the opportunity to be free of all these things, but humanity as a whole had rejected it. And, many of us are still rejecting it.
Originally posted by saint4God
Ooh! Good question, I like it as it is a hard one. The issue here I think is we want to be the ones to say what is fair and what is not. We want to be that judge, we want to be God. That's a problem and is what got us into the mess of death and disease in the first place. If one can accept that God is perfect in his fairness and justice then they are able to accept that God has a purpose and reason for all things. We can ask for things so long as they are according to His will and they will be given.
Originally posted by saint4God
"This, then, is how you should pray:
" 'Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
your kingdom come,
your will be done
on earth as it is in heaven. " - Matthew 6:9-11
Originally posted by saint4God
It's called triage and is practices in just about every hospital.
Originally posted by saint4God
I don't think it's a matter of praying "hard". I think we do need to be sincere and trust that no matter the outcome that it is according to what is best. Surely I suffer by a loved one of mine dying, but that's pretty selfish of me if it relieves the sufferer of pain or gets them to heaven faster.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
There's a bigger plan, and part of the plan is to let some people suffer in life?
Originally posted by shaunybaby
He could cure everything with say a click of his fingers, which would announce he's here and in our presence. He 'chooses' not to cure everything, and not to announce to all that he's here.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Which request?
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Yeah to God everything is equal, because there's no boundaries. However, to us, something like curing cancer is bigger than healing a swollen ankle. To God it's no different, as it takes no more effort to one, than the other.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
But you chose to quote it.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
I assume you chose to believe it.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
You then chose to post it here as 'proof'. You're not 'merely' quoting it. You're providing it to us as evidence/proof of a miracle, hence you are 'stretching it a bit'.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
The old ''It's your fault if it doesn't work'' arguement.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
They use the same technique if they're unable to heal you at a faith healing rally. It's not God's fault, or the faith healer's fault.. It's 'your' fault.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Just like it's our fault that we aren't free of all these things, because 'humanity' (Adam & Eve) rejected it.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Death and disease is a fact of life, I can live with it.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
However, according to you we have this devine being that watches over us, that apparently has the power to rid disease, as you've provided 'proof' of this, yet God chooses not to rid all disease, but merely prefers to fix a swollen ankle here n there.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Believe it or not, I used to know that whole prayer off-by-heart.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
Yeah, but the fix the one who would have the best chance of survival.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
God seems to be randomising it.
Originally posted by shaunybaby
As he fixes a person with a swollen ankle, yet choose to let children die of starvation, to suffer with disability, and to die from diseases that in your eyes 'could' be fixed by God, yet he chooses not to fix them.
Originally posted by saint4God
That's 'selfish' for you to want your relative to be relieved of pain?
Originally posted by saint4God
That's the opposite of selfish.