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originally posted by: annoyedpharmacist
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: knowledgehunter0986
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: knowledgehunter0986
a reply to: kaylaluv
Little ol' me won't make a difference, unfortunately.
Let me ask you, is any human born with the knowledge of what it means to be a boy or girl?
Or is it thrusted upon us?
With this is mind, how can a 3 year old child know that a dress is meant for a girl?
How can he know that he's supposed to have a vagina... when he has no idea what a vagina is?
We aren’t talking about 3 year old children taking drugs/hormones and having surgeries!!!
Ok fair enough.
But we've had countless conversations about this in the past, and you and many others have said gender dysphoria can start as early as 3 years old, and that you can and should start seeing counselling for it at that age.
My counter-argument was always that presenting this idea to a 3 year old child will only end up confusing them.
Do you disagree with this?
You don’t present the idea of gender dysphoria to a 3 year old. They won’t know what the words “gender dysphoria” mean. When a 3 year old presents strong symptoms of gender dysphoria (remember what the definition of that really is), a therapist can recommend allowing the child to dress and act like the gender they identify with to relieve the dysphoria. It has greatly helped many young children, and is totally reversible.
not being a jerk here, but interested in what age you think that a child would be able to handle the idea of gender dysphoria, and at what age should they be allowed to determine if they want medical and surgical intervention? should the parents have to approve?
originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: kaylaluv
So you're saying when my son went through that phase where he was Iron Man, we should have let him go everywhere in that cardboard box mockup armor to relieve his identity dysphoria instead of telling him it was just for playing with at home?
originally posted by: knowledgehunter0986
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: knowledgehunter0986
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: knowledgehunter0986
a reply to: kaylaluv
Little ol' me won't make a difference, unfortunately.
Let me ask you, is any human born with the knowledge of what it means to be a boy or girl?
Or is it thrusted upon us?
With this is mind, how can a 3 year old child know that a dress is meant for a girl?
How can he know that he's supposed to have a vagina... when he has no idea what a vagina is?
We aren’t talking about 3 year old children taking drugs/hormones and having surgeries!!!
Ok fair enough.
But we've had countless conversations about this in the past, and you and many others have said gender dysphoria can start as early as 3 years old, and that you can and should start seeing counselling for it at that age.
My counter-argument was always that presenting this idea to a 3 year old child will only end up confusing them.
Do you disagree with this?
You don’t present the idea of gender dysphoria to a 3 year old. They won’t know what the words “gender dysphoria” mean. When a 3 year old presents strong symptoms of gender dysphoria (remember what the definition of that really is), a therapist can recommend allowing the child to dress and act like the gender they identify with to relieve the dysphoria. It has greatly helped many young children, and is totally reversible.
But then this just goes back to my initial argument. How can the child identify with something of the opposite sex when NOTHING is inherently male or female? Playing with a dress does not make one female, because a dress is not female.
For the sake of not dragging this on, I'll just end it here and hopefully leave you with something to think about.
Have a good day, Kayla.
originally posted by: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
a reply to: kaylaluv
How many children / teens have the whits about them to decide any major life 'thing'?
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: queenofswords
So what is the treatment recommendation for people with mermaid dysphoria in the DSM?
I assume it has its own listing? I go by what the professionals say on the matter.
There are many, many people with gender dysphoria who go on to lead happy, fulfilling lives after transitioning.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
Great, so when your kid shows symptoms of appendicitis, by all means, don’t go to a doctor, because they clearly don’t know what they’re doing. Just handle it yourself.
originally posted by: slowisfast
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
Great, so when your kid shows symptoms of appendicitis, by all means, don’t go to a doctor, because they clearly don’t know what they’re doing. Just handle it yourself.
This is the dumbest thing I've read in a long while.
Smh
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
Yeah, I get it, you don’t trust scientists, doctors, psychiatrists, or any other professionals.
You do you, bro.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: slowisfast
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
Great, so when your kid shows symptoms of appendicitis, by all means, don’t go to a doctor, because they clearly don’t know what they’re doing. Just handle it yourself.
This is the dumbest thing I've read in a long while.
Smh
Yep, not trusting doctors is dumb.
originally posted by: DBCowboy
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
Yeah, I get it, you don’t trust scientists, doctors, psychiatrists, or any other professionals.
You do you, bro.
I wonder if you would trust/believe a doctor that stated something that went against your ideological beliefs.