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originally posted by: HeathenJessie
If you need the hand of the government, or any other organisation for that matter, to assist you in raising your kids properly - then you had no business having kids in the first place.
originally posted by: seasonal
Oh it was done with no consent from the parents.
Catching anyone doing anything is not what the schools function is. They are supposed to be educating children, not have them go home and get the birds and the bees about anal sex.
originally posted by: Aazadan
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
If you need the hand of the government, or any other organisation for that matter, to assist you in raising your kids properly - then you had no business having kids in the first place.
As I said, I have no intention of having kids. I'm not even capable of being 1/10 the role model my dad was, I cannot perfectly balance a childs nutrition (much less cook the meals), I probably don't know every single thing they're going to be taught in school which makes me bad at helping them, and I'm certainly not an expert in morality and ethics to teach them right from wrong.
I could teach a kid what I know and believe but I have zero reason to think that any thoughts in my head are correct in the first place (if history is any guide to go by, everything I know is wrong), so what gives me the right to fill their heads with garbage? What gives any parent that right?
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
Indeed - so your opinion is based off of your own inabilities which you deem fit to project onto others.
Don't judge others by your standards, there are some great parents out there. Some people are smart enough to do what's right without requiring assistance or interference from the establishment.
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
How so?
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
So...my parents had good intentions...are you saying they've failed in some way?
Do you base all of your opinions on stupid sayings and quotes? You're basically asserting, in a roundabout way, that parents will inevitably do the opposite to what they intend, based on some saying.
I look at my own family, friends...a lot of people I know, they've tried to do right by their kids and pretty much all done a decent job. Nobody is perfect, sure people make mistakes. That's life...where does it end?
Why don't the authorities simply take peoples kids from them and put them into care? What exactly do you want, here?
Probably, yes. Can you say they did everything perfectly? Or did they screw up in some way with you?
No, I just have high standards for anyone in an authority position. That applies to everything from parents, to bosses, to politicians, if you expect the best out of someone you're in charge of, you owe them nothing less than absolute perfection in return. It's not that people will always do the opposite from what they intend, but rather that intentions, actions, and results all rarely align. Go look at the number of teenage parents out there. Did their parents want that to happen? Did they try to prevent it? Most of them did, but they didn't take the proper actions to prevent it. Groups of people are more likely to get something correct than individuals.
It might hold true for you, but you don't speak for everyone.
Do you agree with every parenting decision they've all made? If there's a disagreement it means either you, them, or both are wrong. If you're in agreement, you still haven't proven that you made the right choice.
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
You know, free will? You understand that concept, right?
And in the end who defines the standards you wish to hold everyone up to? Politicians? the establishment, the authority figures you apprently place to much faith and trust in?
Are these 'authority' figures and people of power not flawed like the rest of us? Incapable of making poor choices just like your average subject?
You talk about people like they're cattle...you want everyone to parent in a uniform way?
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
Ok, firstly - I've never been arrested or in trouble, I didn't have kids as a teenager - I've worked since I left school, am reasonably educated and my parents seem to be proud of myself and my siblings...did they make mistakes? Of course they did, they're human beings.
I made mistakes, too....doesn't everyone? Have you? You seem hell-bent on imposing some set of standards on people...what gives you or anyone that right? Who says that your standards are even right? What you think it's proper or right might not be proper or right for everyone else...what happened to diversity?
You're right - I don't speak for everyone nor am I trying to...it's you that's doing that.
The message I'm getting from you is, you want some totalitarian state where people are told how to raise their kids.
It's called life, freedom...it don't always work but the alternatives are pretty drastic...have you actually tought about what you're saying here or just trying to be argumentative?
originally posted by: HeathenJessie
What makes your whole argument totally absurd are the facts...you seem to come from this position, this inherent belief that anyone who occupies an official position, a position of authority is somehow infallable and incapable of making poor choices.
If anything people should be less trusting of these so-called authorities that you invest so much faith and trust in...are you a teacher, do you occupy such a position? The notion that you do is quite a scary one.