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originally posted by: DrJunk
originally posted by: Hefficide
a reply to: MOMof3
Well good for that then! I am all for social programs, but welfare should be a step up for people who have fallen down or behind. SSI and SSDI should take care of those with sincere and devastating issues or problems. I've never collected a cent in welfare but did get food stamps for 2 of the 5 years I fought for my disability. It was that or die.
If you get disability, you're on government assistance, aka welfare. Use whatever euphemism you want, but you are still eating on my dime.
originally posted by: darkbake
He specifically said he takes his kids out to eat at restaurants using food stamps. That doesn't work, and it's enough proof for me that he's making up his story.
originally posted by: operation mindcrime
Yet I manage to take my lovely wife to diner every month (without the kids!!!) and have a wonderful 3-weeks holiday in Italy every year.
originally posted by: operation mindcrime
I get 40 days paid leaf a year, a 13th month salary and a Christmas bonus yet you guys seem to work double shift, make impressive salaries (100K a year) but can hardly pay the mortgage??
Somebody is being screwed and I think it's time you guys stand up for yourselfs!!!
originally posted by: nonspecific
I see this a lot in the UK, people berating those on benifits, claiming it's there money with no thought about how much that person has already put into the system themselves over many years of hard graft.
There is a definate media agenda to attack anyone on benifits to try and create an even greater social divide over here but it seems it is unnecissary in the states.
a reply to: Hefficide
4. Daycare at $1600/month. Maybe you should have thought twice about having kids until you could afford them. Poor people (and yes, in your old jobs you are still poor) no longer get to procreate in the US while maintaining any sort of lifestyle. You can thank the corporate overlords for that one, it shouldn't be hard either since you decided to help one out.
originally posted by: solargeddon
So glad you're not in charge, you expect to be supported due to disability, I along with everyone else has no problem with that, but who are you to tell others how to live their lives?!
Would you prefer everyone to wait til they could afford it
what happens to the jobs in those child oriented sectors whilst you are waiting for so many to achieve your level of expectation? What about the aging population we live in? Is it OK to wait to afford kids but turn out to be an abusive parent?
I take it you have no problem with abortion.
Pro-creation needs to happen, there are those who when we get old will be paid a low wage, just to wipe our butts....
This doesn't just apply to you, it applies to anyone in this thread who thinks it's OK to say "Don't have kids til you can afford them!"
originally posted by: ladyinwaiting
There are two issues about this atrocity which bother me most:
1. People like the OP will eventually need to be filtered out of the system. Which means, more applications, more rigorous qualifying criteria, investigations and so forth. This will only create more difficulty for the needy. It's already a nightmare of questions and paperwork.
2. I too, have advanced degrees, and when the OP boastfully says he and his wife went to "top tier" schools, and now have their student loans waved, I actually felt a wave of nausea go through my stomach. There were times when I both worked full time, and went to class full time. Looking back on it, I don't see how I did it, but I did it. I was lucky, there was always some scholarship, or some kind of money out there I was able to grab onto for a little relief. I attended a plain ole no-frills state university. For years. Only borrowed money for one semester in under-grad school. I paid it back, and yes it took a while and I hated every minute of it, but I did it.
But to get a free "top tier" education? (Money up a wild hogs derriere)! And now Congress is wanting to cut back on Pell grants? I hope sir, indeed, that you are forced to pay back every cent. I hope they take it out of your paycheck. I hope any income tax return you get, is sent directly to them. And please stop bragging about it. It's very unattractive to those of us who paid their own way.
~ Also noticed in one of your posts you said "I like to do research", and then later "Texas is not the best state for welfare". I literally burst out laughing. Two+two equals: are you researching the "best state for "welfare". (Do people really still use that word?) I think it's Connecticut if that assists you, but even there it's substantially less than what you claim in your fairy tale life to receive. Not sure about that though. Let us know. Maybe if you do a good job, you can get a house close to Mia Farrow, and that crowd! Who knows, you might be able to pull it off since you've made scamming a full time job.
Surprised you came back to this thread. By the way.... It's your children you are getting money for, if you get anything at all. Without them, you'd be getting next to nothing, surely you must know that. I hope you don't keep reproducing. I really can't afford anymore kids right now.
....To Change the world we must be good to those who cannot repay us.
....To Change the world we must be good to those who cannot repay us.
Wait. Weren't you the one blowing his lid off about folks that shouldn't tell others what to do?
originally posted by: solargeddon
a reply to: ForteanOrg
Dude, I skimmed your rant, nice of you to reply,
I have no problem with abortion, yet there are many out there who do, I never stipulated my stance in either direction as it was a moot point (for me anyway) and a cheap shot from you.
So yeah, deny ignorance, think I have failed on this occaision, as I couldn't be bothered to read you point of view and reply back, mainly because you believe one thing I believe something different, the whole agree to disagree thing.
Yeah, let's twist it up shall we, I'm saying no-one should be telling others about what they should do, yet another cheap shot turning it on its head to say I cannot tell others what they should and shouldn't say....cheap, cheap, cheap.
Remember you attacked first with your stance on kids should be raised only when there is enough funding, thus limiting an individuals life choices, not me, you can think what you like....
Remember you attacked first with your stance on kids should be raised only when there is enough funding, thus limiting an individuals life choices, not me, you can think what you like....
But instead of chosing your solution - allowing folks to procreate even if they don't have a dime to spent and probably make their kids and themselves unhappy
Not at all. You really started out by telling somebody he/she should not tell others what to do and really ended up telling others what to do. That's not cheap, that's observation.
So yeah, deny ignorance, think I have failed on this occaision, as I couldn't be bothered to read you point of view and reply back, mainly because you believe one thing I believe something different, the whole agree to disagree thing.
Done it all on your own, suffered hardship...good for you, qualify you to judge...er no, actually it doesn't, pople like you with your stance are exactly what is wrong with this world, you did it, for you, you went out there and achieved,
originally posted by: solargeddon
a reply to: ForteanOrg
Wow another wordy reply, as you appear much nicer than some folks on this site, may I clarify the following...
When do we get to point that we agree basic income? £10,000...£20,000 per year?
Many may not reach a basic pre-determined income level, thus consigning them to not being able to have kids, people who may actually do a better job of parenting than those on a higher income.
This is quite presumptious statement to make, there are those who despite a high income fail in spectacular fashion to raise functional contributing offspring, just as uch as those on little to no income, likewise there are those on little to no income who do an astounding job of parenting and raising the next generation...we must be careful not to generalise, we might be able to hint at a correllation, but we must always look at the individual circumstances.
Money doesn't always equal happiness, we know this, some of the happiest kids I know come from very little more than a loving family, some of the worst kids I know come from a background of money can buy them everything but their parents time, in turn they tend to be quite immature too.
Perhaps, you wuld feel better If I were to say nobody should stand in judgement of anyones beliefs....I think that is something we should all get behind and demonstrate.
I failed, as I couldn't be bothered to read you post properly, this is not meant to insult, however you or anybody chooses to insinuate, it is merely a relflection of the apathy I have towards the war and peace of posts that you created, again not an insult, I actually admire that you took the time to create a thorough reply, something many members here never afford me the repsect of doing, if you find 90% of what you posts ignored, you too would develop reader/participation apathy.
Edit to add...Oopsie, I think I made my post longer than yours.
I notice that one of you is talking in sterling and the other dollars, I have noticed over my time here that the subject of benifits, health care work ethic differs greatly between our 2 nations and it is very hard to find common ground.