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Too many children are dying almost every day at the hands of a parent during access and with the custodial parent.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by Komodo
When any custodial parent and/or their new partner are abusing illegal substances or alcohol, they should loose custody immediately. However if the non-custodial father is doing likewise he too should loose visiting rights.
I hate it when either parents and/or their new partners are doing this.edit on 1-6-2011 by bluemirage5 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Aeons
reply to post by Komodo
You can't go part way with this stuff. You need to do it by the book, because sometimes even your ex can't control the outcome if they want to.
I've had to brow beat more than one guy into not being stupid about this, and getting in with a lawyer pronto. You can't imagine how difficult it is to get you guys into see a lawyer so you don't end up in this situation. I've brow beaten male friends of mine until they almost didn't want to be friends anymore...
(though they later always thank me for being such a gigantic pain in the butt.)
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by CaDreamer
Mate; those stats were 1989........it's now 2011
HELLO! Wakey wakey!
Originally posted by packinupngoin
More than anything I think the answer is just staying together. I don't understand what is wrong with our society? Is it so hard to stay with the mother of your children? Why not focus on making marriages work from the start.
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by CobraCommander
The only way I would ever pay a set amount for support is if I had no intention of being a part of that child's life, but also didn't feel tricked into being an unwilling father. Short of that, I see no reason why a father can't buy things directly that the child needs.
What?
If you have sex with a woman and she becomes pregnant with your child. YOU are responsible.
No one tricked you into having sex.
If its your child - - you are responsible to support it. Period!
Originally posted by ofhumandescent
My grand daughter says, when I'm with papa we talk, play games, do homework and housework together and X (her almost stepmother) takes her shopping and they do art projects together and talk about important "girl stuff".
Originally posted by dawnstar
reply to post by MessOnTheFED!
I can rent a small efficiency for around 400 dollars, maybe a little more, a three bedroom, in a relatively safe neighborhood, well, that might be 600 or more dollars...
my water bill for just me, wouldn't be that much, but well, add three kids, with their baths, their laundry, and it's considerably more...same with electricity....
one would have to actually sit down and make an honest estimate of just how much of these expenses are increased because of the kids, to say that she would be paying this even without the kids is nuts!!