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Originally posted by CaDreamer
23 pages and still civil...isn't that a record? lol great debate folks thank you for putting in your 2 cents and thank you for sharing you personal pains and life. Your voice matters your life matters. i would give multiple stars to many of you for your input. Awareness is the only way to fight ignorance.
You honor me.
Originally posted by fooks
Originally posted by queenofsheba
reply to post by ldyserenity
Oh, we all are a little bit jaded. People make poor choices all the time and we tell lies, mostly to ourselves, every day. Gotta learn how not to beat our selves up, that's the trick. If life were easy, it'd sure be boring, huh?edit on 2-6-2011 by queenofsheba because: spelling...always important
ya but not too long ago, that mindset got you killed or eaten.
along with your lineage.
Lucky for me I've not been killed, eaten or lost my lineage...big sigh of relief.
Originally posted by BogusHype
This, on some level, makes me glad that I cannot get a girlfriend let alone have babies for me. I guess I should be glad about the whole affair knowing that I will only be taxed by the government and not a loving family on top of it.
$ $ $ $ $
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by BogusHype
This, on some level, makes me glad that I cannot get a girlfriend let alone have babies for me. I guess I should be glad about the whole affair knowing that I will only be taxed by the government and not a loving family on top of it.
$ $ $ $ $
Ya know. Growing up I knew quite a few kids who came from relatively happy traditional families. But among my peers today, I can't think of one single guy that is happily married, in a traditional family, caring for only his own kids and the only wife he has ever had.
Originally posted by boondock-saint
I also do not think it should be the father's
financial responsibility to house the ex-wife's
new boyfriend who moves into the house
with them and eats the same food she buys
for the kids from the child support money
you send her.
That's not right !!!
Originally posted by ldyserenity
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by BogusHype
This, on some level, makes me glad that I cannot get a girlfriend let alone have babies for me. I guess I should be glad about the whole affair knowing that I will only be taxed by the government and not a loving family on top of it.
$ $ $ $ $
Ya know. Growing up I knew quite a few kids who came from relatively happy traditional families. But among my peers today, I can't think of one single guy that is happily married, in a traditional family, caring for only his own kids and the only wife he has ever had.
Unfortunately I seen a documentary that stated that it is not in man's nature (Human beings) to be monogomous, however for like thousands of years we were, and we see it in other parts of the animal kingdom, so what to think of that. Is that truth or is it lies(propaganda)?
Originally posted by Ophiuchus 13
reply to post by Suspiria
I feel you Suspiria as there are males who take it as an excuse to bail out . Me tho I see the tomfoolery and pay it either way and keep it moving. It bothers me to see how its spent but I see how you feel 45 and hasbro is a done deal lol. Be welledit on 6/1/11 by Ophiuchus 13 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by Annee
Non-custodial parents are not realistic when it comes to child support.
This is the list of which non-custodial parents should pay half of in child support to the custodial parent:
1. Rent
2. Utilities (electricity, gas, water, phone)
3. Food
4. Clothing *basic
5. Transport
6. Dental checks @ twice a year including extras if needed
7. Medical/therapy (when needed)
8. Education (school fees, uniforms, stationary, extras)
9. Sports/extra activities
10. Tutoring *optional
any other costs relating to the said child beyond the above list then becomes optional for the non-custodial parent.
Now why is that so difficult? Now as a custodial parent, I'd be more than happy to cough up receipts for the above list to my ex..........getting paid is a whole different ball game though!