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originally posted by: TonyS
a reply to: Thanatos0042
And imagine the chilling effect this will have on the High School and College age pool of potential "daters".
And honestly, that may just be the entire point of this. Its already the case that a white girl is considered a racist if she doesnt accept the invitation of a black guy to the Prom. So fewer and fewer people go to the school proms and instead go to off campus private Proms.
And college? Fugitaboutit, an unintentional brush of the hand against a wrist when openning a door is considered sexual assault.
and this is why I no longer date. I guess that makes me someone who dehumanizes all humans...heh.
I'm just not into other guys, no matter what they look like. Hades, I'm not into most women either. I've always been super picky about who I find attractive enough to be interested in...and the one thing in common they all had, was the opposite plumbing that I have.
And imagine the chilling effect this will have on the High School and College age pool of potential "daters".
And honestly, that may just be the entire point of this. Its already the case that a white girl is considered a racist if she doesnt accept the invitation of a black guy to the Prom. So fewer and fewer people go to the school proms and instead go to off campus private Proms.
And college? Fugitaboutit, an unintentional brush of the hand against a wrist when openning a door is considered sexual assault.
I'm just not into other guys, no matter what they look like. Hades, I'm not into most women either. I've always been super picky about who I find attractive enough to be interested in...and the one thing in common they all had, was the opposite plumbing that I have.
I'm married... I'm attracted to my hubby... so I guess that makes me heterosexual. But it's not like I'm attracted to ALL men.
I wonder if it has something to do with the so-called "hookup culture" of today. It seems that we're expected to be attracted to bits and parts rather than attracted to individuals and personalities.
If you're going to quote my post don't get it twisted! I didn't bash anyone but people who would try to force their lifestyles down other's throats.
I don't try to shame my daughter for not wanting to date men and she doesn't shame me for not wanting to date women, and that is as it should be!
at said, I've had plenty of bad experience with women I've met and not dated because I just didn't feel any chemistry or attraction. I try to be nice and polite, not every meeting is a match. Just the same, I've been turned down by women I was interested in. It's all about timing and luck and finding the right person at the right time. Anyway, I do my best to enjoy the time I have
originally posted by: Ligyron
[I'm not attracted to men either, but I've smashed some men because they were extremely attractive. Maybe I'm bisexual, but I'm only attracted to a very small handful of men. I would smash Brad Pitt even in his old age, and I'd smash all of the golden age Hollywood Stars, with Charlton Heston getting the more smashed. His shirtless scenes in Ben-Hur.
Hmm, dude was fooking hot.
Sexuality, human sexuality is fluid. I don't believe in men and women being 100% straight, and there's a lot more women exprimentating with their sexuality than there are men. Well, at least they're the ones who are more likely to be open about their experiences.
originally posted by: Ligyron
I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. You're a great person and I hope you aren't in pain, or at least in as little pain as possible. I hope you're spending the time you have left with the people you love and love you back. You're awesome!
he body is a work of art, especially when it is in balance with itself. All those ancient Greek statues aren't wrong lol
I agree more women are open to fluid sexual experiences than men are, but that makes sense as women are much more emotionally based beings then men are.
Some scholars have argued that female sexual desires tend to be fluid and receptive, while men’s desires – regardless of whether men are gay or straight – tend to be inflexible and unchanging.
Despite the common belief in the rigidity of male heterosexuality, historians and sociologists have created a substantial body of well-documented evidence showing straight men – not “closeted” gay men – engaging in sexual contact with other men. In many parts of the United States prior to the 1950s, the gay/straight binary distinguished effeminate men (or “fairies”) and masculine men (“normal” men) – not whether or not a man engaged in homosexual sex.
originally posted by: Ligyron
I mean, when I got here from the states at the age of 18, sure. I was attracted to EVERY woman, but now, after seeing tens of thousands of women like this everyday -> data.whicdn.com...
I actually find myself taking a lot longer to get attracted to someone. And I've had women who could be making thousands of dollars a month, even a week, by modelling and by working for TV but surprisngly enough, working retail, reject friends of mine who are 6'3'' 220lbs at 7% of body fat and a face like Brad Pitt, for me. Humanity sure is getting mentally ill, considering how physically inferior I am compared to my Calvin Klein and Armani friends 😡
I was reading this book called ''Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game '' by Jon Birger, and it made me sad because people are painting the act of young women and young men coming together and enjoying some quality time between each other without having to add the label of ''relationship'' onto it to be something negative and wrong.
You know what's hilarious? I was reading their national newspaper and apparently it seems that the 70% of first time marriages end up in divorce after 4 to 7 years of marriage, 2nd marriages have a divorce rate of 80% and 3rd marriages 90% divorce rate. It's almost as if monogamy is a sexual-slavery concept created by men to enslave women and to control their sexuality, and women are finally waking up to the reality that they don't need men.
Yes, there are some marriages that work out.