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And I've never been attracted to any woman, not even the ones I think are good looking.
I wouldn't put it that way, calling it maturity. I feel that it's more the case of these young women feeling that someone as attractive as my friends are, guys who are as attractive as Brad Pitt was in his youthful prime(Legends of the Fall; Interview With The Vampire; 7 years in Tibet) have a lot of options with very attractive women, and I guess many women want to feel appreciated and valued, instead of being seen as someone to spend a night with instead.
Someone who is less attractive than the women in question is more likely to care more about her, and to put more effort into pursuing her and beginning a relationship with her, same goes for maintaining it.
Although, it's kinda hurtful as a man, when some of those women won't hook-up with you for the night instead saying that they will only sleep with you if you date them first. Makes you feel unwanted and undesirable, even more so when you know they've had casual sex with other dudes before you met them.
Yes, but why is our civilization and the society we've been born into for the past two thousand years still clinging to old worldviews and attitudes regarding sex, sexuality, and sexual fidelity.... [snip]... I want a free world. A world where women can have sex with 5, 10, 50, 100 men of their own free wheel, because they want to do it, without being judged and penalized by society and men for doing it.
The argument of doing what is collectively better for society is a loaded gun that is wrongly handled by men who have no business doing that.
Yeah, but marrying for love is not natural, because if it was, we wouldn't have a 54% divorce rate in the US alone, with many of the people not divorcing being religious and thus it being against their religion... [snip]... Arranged marriages are also wrong.
There's a way to fix all of this. End monogamy, end marriage, end co-habitation, populate every Country with sperm banks, and help women raise the babies they have with this top-notch clinic sperm, instead of forcing women into getting married out of necessity, because most women want babies, and they need to be with a man/sleep with a man/marry a man, to ensure the kid is made, and has the best upbringing possible.
Um... okay. I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. First, on Brad Pitt... lots of us don't consider Brad Pitt the end-all-be-all!!! (Especially after what he did to Jennifer Aniston -- Team Jen here!)
It is also good enough for Dr. Julian De Salva, who runs The Centre For Advanced Facial Cosmetic And Plastic Surgery in London, and spoke to the Daily Mail about using computer mapping technology on some of the world's most famous faces, to scientifically figure out who was the best looking bloke in the world (providing they're famous, obviously).
"He has beautiful facial symmetry and gets closer than any other man to having what the Greeks considered the perfect face. [He] had a near perfect ratio of nose to lip dimension of 99.6 per cent and his chin and eye spacing were almost perfect as well. Across the 12 key markers he had the highest combined score."
I very much think that it's a sign of maturity to actually have and hold standards for one's self. The less mature a girl/woman is, the more likely she is to be impressed and flattered by male attention alone...
I will even take it a step further, and say that the more mature a girl/woman is, the more she values and respects herself, and is less inclined to settle for being mauled and groped and treated like a piece of meat for a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" experience.
I've heard this before, and it's probably true for some. But I also know of women who want that good looking guy because she thinks it increases her chances of having pretty babies -- not because he will treat her better.
This is rather creepy... and a little rapey. It comes off as having absolutely no regard or respect for the woman as a person, but simply a piece of meat for you to have your way with.
I disagree, because unions and partnerships and cooperative arrangements of all kinds are very much within human nature, and marriage is just one. I would say the bigger problem -- and a growing problem -- is a combination of unreasonable and impractical expectations of marriage creating a faulty foundation for that marriage.
Given the fact that 80% of early human societies were polygamous, why did later populations become largely monogamous? Science has no answer to that, apparently, although there are theories, as you might expect. One of them has to do with the "two parent" advantage to monogamy in caring for the young.
after their six-year-old daughter became overtly confused when her first-grade teacher taught the class to question their gender.
originally posted by: continuousThunder
okay, let's take this extremely slowly. let me know if you get lost and need me to explain again.
originally posted by: continuousThunder
it is dehumanising to declare that you wouldn't date an entire class of people.
that's a simple fact - you're treating people as an identical mass that you can just cast aside in one go.
that's pretty much the definition of dehumanising there.
originally posted by: continuousThunder
Dating is about the connection between two individuals. You meet and you hit it off for various reasons, generally similar interests or views on the world.
originally posted by: continuousThunder
it's like saying you wouldn't date an asian, or a blonde. There are a LOT of people in those subsets and they're all extremely different and going "nah blondes don't do it for me" is extremely reductionist and rude.
originally posted by: continuousThunder
Only with trans people it's on a whole extra level because there are SO MANY trans people you'd never even know are trans unless they told you. So to just decide that you won't date any of these people, en masse - yeah that's dehumanising in action right there.
originally posted by: continuousThunder
But don't worry, you're not being forced to date trans people. trans people already suffer enough in this world.
originally posted by: dfnj2015
It seems to me human rights has nothing to do with gender. People should be treated equally with respect regardless of gender or personal beliefs. Otherwise, you would be advocating certain combinations of thought and gender would be okay to discriminate against. As human beings we are all born with the right to live with some shred of dignity.
originally posted by: dfnj2015
All humans are equal. Otherwise we will have some form of slavery.
I'm 28 years old....