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reply to post by beezzer
This is so sweet... it makes me happy!
Oh... and you can pick some numbers for me tomorrow too!
reply to post by wtbengineer
At the time of that date I looked after old folk, and now I look after people with learning disabilities
Not well payed and I have to wipe bums
Oh cheers all so far
reply to post by boymonkey74
This is probably not the best advice you'll get here, but I'll offer it anyway.
Think of it this way. Suppose you want a car. You figure out what you can afford, you check the paper, maybe go to a few dealers, etc. You wind up settling for the best car that you can get. You may or may not be happy with it, but that's what you got.
Instead, if you figure you can go without a car for a while and save your money, you'll be ready when you come by that sweet 1965 Corvette that some old lady had sitting under a cover in the garage every since her husband died.
What I'm trying to say is, instead of spending your time and energy looking for a woman, spend it trying to improve yourself. Then when that special lady comes along, you can offer her the best you that you can be. It's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person, but you can never go wrong with self improvement.
Best of luck, my friend.
I met the love of my life on the internet 12 years ago.
Not a dating site, a gaming website.
Of course, she was engaged to another, and I professed my love... and she married him.
Fast forward 6 years, we're both single and I finally convince her to take a chance.
Our son, Sagan, celebrated his first birthday in June.
Keep trying, man. There are people out there that are perfect for you. If the internet has taught me anything it's that no matter how weird or quirky or normal or conservative or liberal you are, there is someone out there that is looking for exactly what you have to offer.